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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

EvelyneRose
L Epitome 18 1282
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Hello! I chose the picture of an apple because it represents to me growth and potential. The apple can grow to become the best apple it can be. I think we all have potential, and I also believe that most people are not solely good or bad- we are a combination of light and dark. That's just human nature. I've been here since 2013, and I am now in my 30s. I have always been told I'm a good listener and person to come to. People have come to me years after talking to them because they remembered I was someone to confide in. I like to think of myself as open minded, non judgmental, and compassionate. I try to be honest, but tactfully so. I find the best people in my life are those that tell me what I need to hear, not what I want to hear, and that is something I practice with others. I hope to be here for you, and I will cheerlead you on. I cannot give advice, but I will be a support for you. I take casual chats, so even if you're just bored or need someone to talk to and don't have a pressing issue, I am happy to talk to you.  My strengths lie in the subjects I have listed on my profile, so I will not be the best fit for everyone (and that is okay!). I hope everyone can get the help they need from whoever it is, even if it's not me. If I cannot help you, I will let you know and try to connect you with someone that can. I do the best with chats that can be asynchronous, as my schedule varies and I don't want to promise I can sit down for a real time chat if I cannot. That is unfair to both of us time wise, and time is a precious thing. Updated March 23, 2023 I have joined the admin team as a Quality Specialist for the volunteer community. I am still involved in all the things below, but as I am now involved widely across the site in different ways, if you need to know who to talk to regarding any of the below activities, please PM me and I will direct you to who you should talk to, whether it be me or someone else. If you have questions about anything Quality related, please PM me!
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lueurspace
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**busy with university at present, NOT accepting any chats. replies will be delayed** **please read my bio before messaging [at least till the start of about me section]** hi! I am lueur :3 my name lueur means a glimmer of light and the PM land with me is a space I aspire to make une lueur d'espoir (a glimmer of hope) for you. I take up member chats when I can. if you're reaching out to me for support, please also express how I can be of help and share what you need support with (kindly check my chat topic triggers below to see what I may not be able to best support you with), so that we can be off to a great start! :) a simple "hey/hello, can you help?" doesn't give me an idea of what you want support with, so do let me know what you're seeking support with by saying something like, "I need support with relationship stress/anxiety, etc,". I am not filtering what MBTI types I support people with, saying you are an X type, doesn't give me an idea of your situation. topics I am not comfortable with and for which I may re-direct you to another listener: self-harm, eating disorder, substance use, OCD, panic attacks, and schizophrenia. it would be helpful for me if you do not reach out to me regarding these topics because I am very limited in my knowledge and/or triggered by these topics. topics I love supporting people with: relationship stress, breakups, general mental health, student life, managing emotions, grief, family stress, depression and anxiety. other topics, that I haven't listed, don't trigger or make me uncomfortable, and I'd be open to listening to you on them. ミ⛧ about me ⛧ミ pronouns: she/her second-year university student studying psychology // infp 9w1 my interests: anime, writing, reading, listening to music, playing keyboard and guitar, tv shows such as this is us, rick and morty, b99, f.r.i.e.n.d.s, parenthood, gilmore girls (paris is my favourite character), and blah blah (basically, the generic stuff) [^^ it's beautiful to love the ordinary ^^] »»————- ♡ ————-«⋅ʚ♡ɞ⋅»————- ♡ ————-«« ‿ʚ˚̣̣̣͙ɞ words that resonate with me ʚ˚̣̣̣͙ɞ‿ "maybe anyone worth knowing is worth knowing for only a short while. maybe anyone worth loving is worth loving inconclusively. and when you look at it that way, it doesn't seem quite so unbearable at all: to allow yourself to love someone with everything you've got - and then to fully and completely let them go." - Heidi Priebe "touching people's lives in a positive way is as close as I can get to an idea of religion." - Keith Haring "but it cannot be a mistake to have cared... it cannot be an error to have tried... it cannot be incorrect to have loved." - Nikki Giovanni »»————- ♡ ————-«⋅ʚ♡ɞ⋅»————- ♡ ————-«« ♡ people people people ♡ @Starmedia & @Mango3 people who have had the most special impact on me @greasemonky 🐳 my whale buddy, somebody who brings out the best in me  @Yukihiko & @DreamTouch my listener twinnies @Starlasky @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @SparkyGizmo @DonaldDraper @whenitsdarklookforstars @mamtasha22 ♡ ————-«⋅ʚ♡ɞ⋅»————- ♡
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GoldenRuleJG
L Pinnacle 7 6196
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FEMALE LISTENER  There are awesome community sessions which are scheduled in various rooms. You can check them out here: 7 Cups Community Calendar [https://www.7cups.com/forum/communityCalendar.php] Please read below about what I try to be as a listener: Although i am not a professional therapist I try to apply my knowledge of psychology, mental health on stuff (p.s. - Undergraduate Bachelors Degree in Psychology completed. YAY 🧡🤩). I aim to be unbiased yet compassionate. Not a fairy godmother. If all the above sounds good let me know if you want a chat.   When the circle near my profile pic is green that means I’m available to talk to you now. If you leave me a message and I don't respond this can because im busy (orange circle) or because im offline (red circle).  *1 hr duration chats * Bright7cups former amazing twinning buddy - thank you ❤️
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MelodyoftheOcean
L Marvel 3 3203
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Hey there, you wonderful Human,  I am slowly coming back from my last break, but I need to take it at my own pace for a while, so please understand that there will be days, or weeks when I am not responding. I will always be back as soon as I have the energy to be fully here for you   ❤ ------------------------- "Stories can make someone immortal as long as someone else is willing to listen." — Adam Silvera ------------------------- Hello, my name is Ocean, I am just another human, here on the Cupsland. I've always liked to listen to people and support them, in any way possible. Feel free to share any topics you need to talk about with someone, I'm always here for you. Since I don't know you, I will definitely not judge you for whatever it is that you have on your mind. My pm-land is a safe space for everyone, regardless of age, gender, nationality, ethnicity or the issues you are facing. But most importantly - I will care I'm looking forward to meeting you! Ocean (they/them) ------------------------- “Putting language to something for which you have no language is no easy feat.” ― Carmen Maria Machado ------------------------- Always feel free to contact me if you happen to have any questions!  ❤ ------------------------- A big thank you, to everyone I met on here, everyone who supported me, everyone who ever made me smile and every single member and mentee of mine. I can't mention all of you, but I am truly happy that we crossed ways! Tagging my Cupsland Sibling, whom I am grateful to know for such a long time by now @BlueRivercares ❤ And my amazing Twinnie that has been supporting me throughout my whole journey @Audienta ❤
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YourCaringConfidant
L Master 1 326
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❤️•🧡•💛•💚•💙•💜•💗 𝓗𝓮𝓵𝓵𝓸 𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓮, 𝓘'𝓶 𝓓𝓮𝓼𝓲𝓻𝓮𝓮! Hello there! I'm Desiree. I'm so glad you found me on 7 Cups and selected me as your listener. I honestly suffer from my own share of mental health issues. However, despite my diagnoses, it has taken me a long time to realize that I am not those labels nor do they define me. I would love to support you by lending a listening ear. If you see my status as available, you are welcome to send me a message so we can connect. If my status is set to offline, then please respect that I am not available to offer support at the moment. I do not support any one member for a long period of time, as I believe there needs to be established boundaries. I tend to frequent the forums as there is where I meet so many wonderful members and listeners. Don't ever hesitate to drop me a line and say hi if you see me about.  ── ⋆⋅☆⋅⋆ 7 Cups Academy Graduate ⋆⋅☆⋅⋆ ── Internship w/ Honors  Leadership Development Program Content Development & Marketing Inner Development Goals ·.★·.·´¯`·.·★ 🅼🆈 🅰🅼🅰🆉🅸🅽🅶 🆃🆆🅸🅽🆂 🅰🆁🅴: ★·.·´¯`·.·★.· ·.★·.·´¯`·.·★ @🅸🅿🅷🅾🅴🅽🅸🆇 ★·.·´¯`·.·★.· ·.★·.·´¯`·.·★ @🅰🅽🅽🅰🆂🅸🅻🆅🅴🆁🅱🅴🆁🅶 ★·.·´¯`·.·★.· ·.★·.·´¯`·.·★ @🅹🅰🆂🅼🅸🅽🅴🅸🆂🅷🅴🆁🅴4🆄 ★·.·´¯`·.·★.· 💜XOXO💜 ·.★·.·´¯`·.·★ 🅼🆈 ♊ 🆃🆆🅸🅽 🅸🆂: ★·.·´¯`·.·★.· ·.★·.·´¯`·.·★ @🅱🅻🅸🆂🆂🅵🆄🅻🅱🆄🅴 ★·.·´¯`·.·★.·
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ThoughtLight
L Explorer 2 368
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Welcome. I am a writer, a bibliophile, an art lover, a college student, a thinker and a self advocate. I love psychology and psychoanalysis. I like helping people. I've struggled with mental illness for 16 so I get it. My experiences provide me some insight you can't be taught. Unfortunately I'm not allowed to just give out advice. There's other types of support I can provide. Let me point out that I'm a verified listener. Meaning I extensively trained in active listening skills. I want to guide you to help yourself. You will feel great at the end when you realize you solved to problem yourself. I'm a believer in process. Standing back and taking a rational look. I can be your sounding board. Or just someone to talk to. I'm a believer that you've got to put your mindset on getting better. A changing perspective. I can't provide you a diagnosis or reccomend treatment. And I love to give a self esteem boost. If I had to pick an area of expertise it would be bipolar disorder followed by borderline personality disorder. But view my long list of area I work with. Please pay attention to the areas I don't work it. Please be respectful and honor that list. In my chat room we keep things respectful. I stand stand for being disrespected. I won't disrespect you. Also, complete religious tolerance is a standard. If I don't accept your request but my green light is on I'm full but will get back. If my red light is on I'm not accepting members. You can attempt a message. If I'm around I do make exceptions. Or I might actually be off site. Let's get you feeling better. Am open to having regulars. Also, I am here for faith based listening. I'm Christian. And churches have neglected the mentally ill minority. I'm working on it.  And to point out the biggest problems on the list I don't work in: PTSD, sexual abuse, relationships. I look forward to chatting with anyone who needs my help. Personal requests do draw my attention first. 
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TwoCreamTwoSugar
L Genius 5 4273
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Hi there, I have a life full of experiences and, while not all of them are joyous, they certainly were and continue to be character-building. I realize that I may not be able to help everyone in every journey, but I do hope I can share some support for those in their own time of need. I value all, withhold judgment, and believe that everyone (including you reading my profile!) can overcome any obstacle in front of them... no matter how dark life may seem I hope to provide at least a temporary flame to remind you that light still exists out there.
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brilliantTurtle89
L Pinnacle 6 2821
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I'm glad you have found me on 7 cups. I'm here to listen to you. Feel free to tell me anything you want. My roles on 7 Cups are: Peer Support Chatroom Mentor  Quality Mentor Leader Forum Mentor Group Support  Mentor  Group moderator Listener Coach Care Team Guide Chat Support ATL Verifiers Team Teen Transition Mentor Group Support Ambassador I have some amazing friends here. My listener twins are: Asilentobserver sweetmango3 IzzyMay They are fantastic💜  
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Starlasky
L Proficient 9 748
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Hey! I'm Shreya, 20 years old🌟 Not taking any member chats currently due to my roles. You are not alone. If you ever feel like venting and getting it off your chest then I'm always here to be all ears for you. I'll listen and support you 😊. I'm a chat supporter so to listeners who want support during a chat or have chat related concerns you can drop me a text! To listeners who want peer support. Feel free to pm me if you ever want some peer support.   Just like stars, I believe that we all can glow up in our life just like they glow up in darkness ✨ My online status I'm updating my online status. I barely use the green online symbol, so it's red mostly all the time. You are always free to leave me a text and I will get back to you! I used to keep my response time 24 hours earlier but it's 48-72 hours now and if I still haven't responded, I'm so sorry it must have got piled up among the other texts, you can text me again so I catch onto it. Thank you! Chats I'm not comfortable with ★Anything sexual-related, such as sexual health, problems, assault, rape.   Chat Boundaries ★ I take chats for 45 to 60 minutes. ★ I'm not taking any long term members. ★ Please be respectful, it would be highly appreciated.   My roles over here (Currently these are previous roles because I returned from a year-long break) ★ Support Team Leader for the SHR subcommunity and Addiction Support. ★ Community Mentor for SHR and Addiction Support. ★ A Quality Mentor. ★ An Intern Mentor. ★ Team Leader For Listener Events Team. ★ Chat Supporter. ★ Chatroom moderator for newbie hub and self-harm recovery community. ★ Peer supporter. ★ Project Agent for LCI. ★ Listener verifier. ★ Care Team guide. ★ Project Agent for the VL Team. ★ Appreciation Check - In Host. ★ A safety patrol member. ★ Doorkeeper. ------------------------- A beautiful poem I want to share and I really want to thank @BlackRose522 for this, they are the sweetest soul I know! On this bright sunny day, I look at the sky. Always fearing one day, that you will die. But I still see you hiding there, Nice try! I'll wait for the evening, to see you fly! I await for you to hear my words Wondering what do I even deserve. I speak to you, since you're preserved Hoping you have some love in reserve The darkness is here, and it's all ours In my heart, and in the sky, it showers I await your glow to heal my scars Oh you're finally here, the ever-stars Now that you're here, everything is just ok Pain, sadness, fear, it can all just go away Bathing in your glow is an eternal bliss And Nothing can pull me away from this. Hope you have a good time ahead 💙  
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serenePeace3726
L Intermediate 5 245
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Good Listener - Empathetic - Compassionate - Non Judgemental ☮️🩷♏️ Open To Listen To Anything 😊 Experienced in relationships, marriage, divorce, parenting, mental health,eating disorders,  anxiety, domestic abuse, and disability. 🌈✨ bookworm, fitness enthusiast, animal lover. 📚🏋🏻‍♀️🐶🐱 Hi there friends! I'm here to lend you a compassionate ear and provide you with the support you need. You can confide in me without any hesitation, and I'll always listen to you with empathy and understanding.  Are you looking for someone who can offer compassionate, long-term support as you navigate life's journey? Look no further! As your long-term listener, I'm here to: * Support you through thick and thin, with empathy, non-judgment, and a safe space to share your thoughts and feelings freely. Everything you share with me will be kept completely confidential. * Empathize with your experiences and challenges, understanding that everyone's journey is unique. * Grow with you as you reach your goals, celebrating successes and offering encouragement during difficult times. * Build a trusting relationship based on open communication, mutual respect, and confidentiality. What makes me qualified? * Personal experience: I've been through marriage and divorce and built a fulfilling new relationship. I'm also a proud parent, understanding the joys and challenges of raising children. * Challenging times: I understand the complexities of domestic abuse and living with a substance abuser, as well as many other difficult situations. * Diverse perspectives: My personal journey exposed me to many experiences, and I'm constantly learning and growing. * I am also competent and comfortable supporting individuals with concerns related to eating disorders, anxiety, and stress, along with parenting, relationships, personal growth, and more. Interested in learning more? Message me, and we can discuss your needs and see if this is a good fit. ✨
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