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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

iPHOENIX
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"Whether we remain the ash or become the Phoenix is up to us." - Ming-Dao Deng. ------------------------- Hello, this is PHOENIX. Pronouns: He/Him/His. Personality Type: Mediator Personality, INFP-A / INFP-T ------------------------- ഏവർക്കും സ്വാഗതം  ------------------------- I am a trained active listener in 7cups, very passionate about Psychology, and always open to learning something new. If there is any way I can help I'll gladly do that and/or stay there and listen, I can assure you that I won't judge even if I have a different opinion or belief. ------------------------- On 7cups, I am: * Verified Adult - Teen Listener (ATL)  * Quality Mentor * Chat Supporter * Anonymous Evaluation Team Member * Safety Patrol Team Member & SPOT Grading Team Member * Quality Listening Program Graduate (with Honors) 🎓 * Leadership Development Program Graduate (with Honors) 🎓 ------------------------- I might be seen online most of the time even when am at work. But it may take me some time to respond if I am at work. Please don't expect immediate responses. ------------------------- Time for me right now [https://time.is/IST] ------------------------- 𝘔𝘺 𝘈𝘸𝘦𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘓𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘳 𝘛𝘸𝘪𝘯𝘯𝘪𝘦:  @YourCaringConfidant ------------------------- “It always seems impossible until it is done.”  - Nelson Mandela
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TogetherForeverAlways
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kenzolena
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🔴 Starting from May 6th I will be on break because of exams ^^, I will do my best to respond in a timely manner and I will probably come online during the mornings. During this time I dont take new one on one requests and I will be limiting my time on cups until my exams are over <3 🔴 Heyy I'm Lena and welcome to my listener bio ♡ Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation]  A little about me : ) We can talk about any topic, you can be honest with me, you never ever bother me. I always try making you feel comfortable and smile in our chats. You are enough and loved In case nobody told you today: am glad you're here today😊 I don’t judge, you can be you in our chat. If you just want to chat that’s okay, if you wanna talk about something that's okay too. You can tell me what you're comfortable with. If you want to be my friend then lets be friends I absolutely love cats and dogs 🐾, I have a dog which is named Blazer. My favorite color is purple and green My pronouns are she/they. Topics i dont take- I will listen to you and give you support as best as I can while using my active listening skills with almost most topics <3, but there are a few topics that I’m not able or comfortable talking about.  The topics that I’m not able to talk about are, sexual health, sexual assault and abuse, I also don’t talk about certain topics in relationships or break-ups but I am able to take these chats and I will let you know if it triggers me. =-Roles-= 🌌 Peer Supporter!🌌 🌸 Listener chatroom supporter 🌸 🐞 room supporter! 🐞 🌟 Listener Verifier 🌟 Listener Verifying Team: Do you want to become a verified listener? You can learn more here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/VerifiedListenersProject_1839/IWanttobeaVerifiedListener_46935/1/]! 🦕 Verified Listener 🦕 🚪Doorkeeper🚪 🐾I completed 8 weeks of the leadership program.🐾 Links you may find helpful ... Guidelines  [https://www.7cups.com/community-guidelines] Community Calender [https://www.7cups.com/home/communityCalendar.php] Community Forums [https://www.7cups.com/home/] Report A Member/Listener [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/requests/new] Quotes <3  “No matter who you are, where you're from, your skin color, gender identity: speak yourself. "Find your name, find your voice by speaking yourself.” Green status: I’m online and taking requests/chat, please leave a message if you think I am a good fit for you, I’m here for you and I’m an active listener. Orange status: I’m online but I’m not actively taking requests or chat ( even though my status is orange I will still be take chats while this color is active, feel free to leave a message and I will get back to you as soon as I can) I am most likely in the chat rooms or online in another way. Red Status: There is a chance that I’m online but not actively taking chats or personal requests. ✦ My response time is within 2 working days.
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Heather225
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❤️💛💚💙💜 My name is Heather (my nickname is H), and I head the 7 Cups Community Management Team (list here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/?badge=524]). Please drop by my PMs if you have any feedback or safety concerns! Fun fact: I have a bird! His name is Flip: https://imgur.com/a/7CE0WQG ❤️💛💚💙💜 NOTE: I am unable to take chat requests as I cannot respond in a timely manner. To find a listener click the Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. Listeners indicate if they are taking on new chats in their profile. The green dot indicates they are currently online. For urgent needs please join the general queue and the first available listener will connect. 7 Cups is built on collaboration, and a little appreciation goes a long way! It takes just a second to make someone's whole day right now: Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation]
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Kristynsmama
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Note:  I am currently not accepting personal requests for chats from new members. *:・゚✧*:・゚˚ ༘♡ ⋆。˚*:・゚✧*:・゚Hello!!*:・゚✧*:・゚˚ ༘♡ ⋆。˚*:・゚✧*:・゚ Welcome to ✨Kristynsmama's✨ Profile Page!!  ✨I am a verified listener here on 7 cups!✨  ✨I am so glad that you have stopped by!!✨ ✨I am in CST.✨ ✨I currently am not able to accept personal requests. ✨ ✨Fun Facts✨ ✨I live on a farm.✨ ✨I love animals✨ ✨I have 6 dogs, 2 indoor cats, 6 barn cats, 2 horses, 4 chickens, 2 saltwater fish tanks, 2 fresh water fishtanks, 1 donkey, 1 llama, and a partridge in a pear tree.✨ ✨I can turn any conversation into a conversation about dogs✨ 🌻I grow all of my own fruits and vegetables and they are all organic.🌻 🌻I may grow fruits and veggies, but I still believe that Chocolate should be it’s own food group🌻 ✨My favorite colors are blue and purple.✨ ✨I have an alarmingly large collection of keychains from around the world.✨  ✨My hobbies include horseback riding and jumping.  And I used to be a barrel racer.  I also enjoy painting although I’m not great at it.  And I’m an avid cyclist.  In my spare time, I enjoy riding a motorcycle. ✨I have a chronic autoimmune disease that sometimes makes my energy plummet.  I usually update my profile at the top of my profile if I’m going to be taking a self care day. ✨If you really knew me, you would know that my passion in life is to support other people through challenges that I myself have been through.  I have lived experience in grief and loss, eating disorders, addiction, depression, anxiety, and much more.✨ My current leadership roles include: ✨Approved Adult-Teen listener ✨Chatroom Mentor ✨Teen Chatroom Mentor ✨Community Mentor Leader: grief & loss ✨Forum Supporter:  Self Injury ✨Community Mentor ✨Quality Mentor ✨Academy Mentor:  LDP ✨Safety Patrol ✨Anonymous Evaluations Team ✨Academy Outreach Project Agent ✨Anonymous Evaluations Project Agent ✨Quality Mentor Project Agent ✨Communities Leadership Project Agent ✨Peer support ✨Chat support ✨Teen Chat Support ✨Chatroom Moderator (Newbie Hub) ✨Listener Discussion Leader ✨Doorkeeper ✨Kindness Crusader nominator ✨I have completed the following courses:✨ ✨Leadership Development graduate (with honors) 12/2023 ✨Internship Graduate (with honors) 12/2023 ✨Quality Listening Program Graduate (with Honors) 01/24 ✨Inner Development Goals Program Graduate 12/2023 ✨Community Builder Course Graduate 12/2023 ✨The Listener chats that I currently host are: ✨Listener check in Mondays at 9 pm EST in the LCR ✨Listener Sharing Circle:  once a month.  I will post the date and time on my bio here on the 1st of each month. ✨Grief & Loss Group Support Chat  adults:  2nd and last Wed of each month 9-11 pm EST in Support Session Adult Room ✨teens:  1st and 3rd Wed of each month from 9-10 pm EST in the Support Session for Teens Chatroom. ✨Ask Me Anything (AMA)  next one will be Tuesday, May 7th at 9 pm EST.  After that AMA’s will be the first Wed of each month at 9 pm EST. 💖If I don’t respond right away, Please find another listener here💖 💛What is 7 cups?💛 ⭐️It IS a place for you to come where you can share life’s challenges in a safe, confidential and supportive environment! ⭐️It IS a place for you to discover your own solutions to your problems with the help and guidance of a non judgmental person. 💛What 7 cups IS NOT💛 ⭐️It is not a place for crisis intervention.  If you are actively suicidal, please understand that I will not chat with you.  Instead, I will send you a list of resources.  You are welcome to reach out to me again once you are feeling better! ⭐️It is NOT a place to discuss sexual desires, fantasies, or role plays in any capacity.  I will not take sexual chats. 💛What is the role of a listener?💛 ⭐️A listener is NOT a therapist.   ⭐️They are simply volunteers who want to support you and guide you to discover your own solutions to your problems. ⭐️A listener should never give you advice! 💛My Chat guidelines💛 ✨ Please follow the community guidelines in any chat with me.  I will always do the same. ✨Please do not chat with me about sexual topics.  This includes pornography, fantasies, asking me to role play a fantasy, and asking intimate details about my own sex life or fantasies/desires. ✨All of my chats are about 60 minutes each and my time is valuable and limited.  I will do my best to give you adequate time to chat, but please know that sometimes I’m just not available. ✨Please do not ask for my instagram, Facebook, email address, phone number, etc….  I will not give out any identifying information for your safety and for mine and because it is against community policy!  Equally I will not reveal where I live, my gender or my age.  If those things are that important to you, then it's probably best you find another listener. ✨ I follow a 3 warning system.  If you choose to disregard my boundaries, I will disconnect the chat on the third warning. 🛑 Chat Topics I DO NOT TAKE: 🛑 ✨Men’s Issues (sorry guys, I’m a lady and I just don’t have knowledge). ✨Sexual Health 🔔Green: I'm online, feel free to send me a message.  🔕Orange: I am busy, but there's a chance I might be able to reply. 📭Red: I'm offline. Replies can vary, but I do my best to reply as soon as possible.   ୭̥⋆*。୭̥⋆*。 Listener Twins ୭̥⋆*。୭̥⋆*。 Jenna Averyjr23 dreamicicle8467 Dancat1128 ୭̥⋆*。୭̥⋆*。 Kindness Twin: ୭̥⋆*。୭̥⋆*。 AnnaSilverberg My amazing mentor is also AnnaSilverberg and credit for my adorable profile pic also goes to Anna!
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FinleyTews
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TEMPORARILY UNAVAILABLE TO NEW MEMBERS 🖤🤍💜
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innateJoy9602
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🌿Hello!🌿 I'm Joy! Here to support you as best as I can! <3  Here take a flower & Appreciate a friend!  🌺  Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation] Read some articles I've posted! How to Make, and Keep, Friends in Adulthood [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/HowtoMakeandKeepFriendsinAdulthood_287542/] Common Ways We Excuse Toxic Behavior [https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/CopingToolsResourcesforRelationships_1161/CommonWaysWeExcuseToxicBehavior_302371/]  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/HowtoMakeandKeepFriendsinAdulthood_287542/]Yes, Crying Can be a Form of Self-care [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/YesCryingCanbeaFormofSelfcare_297051/] The Power Of Reading Books [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/ThePowerOfReadingBooks_285908/] Know Your Personality Type! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/KnowYourPersonalityType_286202/]  Why You Should Build A Hobby [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/WhyYouShouldBuildAHobby_285882/] Music Is a Beautiful And Powerful Painkiller [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/MusicIsaBeautifulAndPowerfulPainkiller_285356/]  The Pleasure of Comfort Food [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/ThePleasureofComfortFood_288849/] 5 Ways Journaling Can Help You Cope With Big Life Changes [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/5WaysJournalingCanHelpYouCopeWithBigLifeChanges_284488/]  The Power of Honesty [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/ThePowerofHonesty_285193/] The Power of Compassion [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/ThePowerofCompassion_287180/] What Is Your (Psychological) Superpower? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/WhatIsYourPsychologicalSuperpower_287010/] Using Art Therapy to Find Purpose [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/UsingArtTherapytoFindPurpose_286868/] Use This Simple Trick To Beat Procrastination [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/UseThisSimpleTrickToBeatProcrastination_284721/]  How To Communicate Your Needs When You Have Social Anxiety [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/HowToCommunicateYourNeedsWhenYouHaveSocialAnxiety_285725/]  The Four DISC Personality Types. Which One Are You? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/TheFourDISCPersonalityTypesWhichOneAreYou_285568/]  Self-Care Tips for the Body [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/SelfCareTipsfortheBody_285516/]  How Long It Can Take To Recover From A Breakup, According To Research [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/HowLongItCanTakeToRecoverFromABreakupAccordingToResearch_284286/] If You Could Know The Future, Would You Want To Know? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/IfYouCouldKnowTheFutureWouldYouWantToKnow_284651/]  How Can I Tell if I’m Depressed or Burned Out? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/HowCanITellifImDepressedorBurnedOut_284345/]  Self-compassion Makes You A Better Person. Here’s How to Practice It [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/SelfcompassionMakesYouABetterPersonHeresHowtoPracticeIt_283575/]  No One Is Watching: The Spotlight Effect [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/NoOneIsWatchingTheSpotlightEffect_287251/] The Kinds of Loneliness No One Is Talking About [https://www.7cups.com/forum/generalsupport/ManagingEmotions_1599/TheKindsofLonelinessNoOneIsTalkingAbout_300453/] Wow! The Awe-Inspiring Health Benefits of Sunrises and Sunsets [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/WowTheAweInspiringHealthBenefitsofSunrisesandSunsets_296378/] Is It Unhealthy to Spend a Lot of Time Alone? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/IsItUnhealthytoSpendaLotofTimeAlone_295991/]  10 Things To Do When You Feel Unmotivated [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/10ThingsToDoWhenYouFeelUnmotivated_286044/] What's In My Control vs. Out of My Control [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/WhatsInMyControlvsOutofMyControl_296980/] Quote: You Don't Have To Be Positive All The Time [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/QuoteYouDontHaveToBePositiveAllTheTime_296900/]
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Neverlings64
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Hello! I'm Sean. I'm twenty, and I live with my mum, dad and my adorable cat. I love reading, writing, video games and history. I really want to be a historian when I'm older, and to do some writing on the side. Also, I love travelling and seeing beautiful cities. I haven't done much of it, but I'll definitely do more in the future, as soon as I get a car. I hope that we can get along well!
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Maebyb
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💙I have worked in the education and health care fields for most of my life and now am so excited to help people in a different way.  I have great respect and admiration for everyone on 7 Cups the members and listeners make it a very special community and I value what everyone has to share. 
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InternalAcceptance
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I'm not currently accepting new member chats unless referred right now. Please search for a Listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] or connect with a live listener. I do not take relationship chats. Quality Ambassador Adult-Teen Listener Anonymous Evaluation Team Ambassador Doorkeeper Global Chatroom Moderator Global Forum Moderator Peer Support Quality Mentor Safety Patrol Team Member SPOT Team Member I'm glad that you have found this site are are reaching out for support through difficult times. I am a trained active listener and am able to offer support most effectively for those who are going through addiction, anxiety, domestic violence, eating disorders, grief, and trauma. Some of the things that I enjoy the most are reading, talking walks through the park, hiking, yoga, and writing. I've overcome many obstacles in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online please don't hesitate to reach out. If I happen to be offline, you are always welcome to send me a message and we can set up a time to talk. I'm glad that you are here.
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Mari228
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Hello I’m M (please refer me as M in chats and conversations). Please don’t request me regarding sex health related topics. I want to build my skills in listening, understanding and working together with others. I like plush animals, nature, anime, mysticism, journaling, and traveling (whether in real or virtual). **Currently Long-Term Listener, Peer Supporter, Adult-Teen Listener, Listener Discussion Host, Academy Mentor**
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Heartsandrosesandpaws
L Guru 8 470
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I greatly love learning new things, nature, cats, and much more. The topics I do  not take at this time are 1 weight management  2 eating disorders 3  alcohol /  drug abuse 4 addiction chats 5 financial stress any other topic that is not listed here I am ok taking.
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