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Listener - Proficient 5

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5.0 star rating

When you can't look on the bright side, I will sit with you in the dark. 

- Hatter; Alice in Wonderland.


Hello, this is Pals aka Tex, Rabbelion, Bun-bun, deformed Chihuahua, Paul, etc (feel free to give me a name, if you wish).

Firstly, for the uninitiated, I am the "bunny" of 7 cups (on public demand) xD

I am pretty chill and relaxed so, by all means, approach me regarding anything, a member 1-to-1 chat, a listener 1-to-1 chat, some queries you might have, etc. I love hanging out in rooms and meeting/talking to different people, so just drop me a PM (private message) anytime you want to have a non-serious, fun discussion, I won't mind. 

My roles include: this para is kinda tedious, full of roles and monotonous stuff, hence skip it if you want to.

1. Verified Listener: you can find a 'Purple' tick mark beside my username and a 'Verified Listener' badge in my profile confirming it.  

2. Safety Patrol member: you can check the same by the 'Safety Patrol' badge in my profile which lets me flag any inappropriate profiles. Please, do let me know if you spot anyone who you feel might hamper the safety and security of the site with an inappropriate profile/username or bio. 

3. Sharing Circle buddy: as a former Sharing Circle host, I help new Sharing Circle hosts in conducting a smooth session as a 'Sharing Circle buddy'. 

4. Listener Verifier: please confirm the same by finding a 'Listener Verifier Team' badge on my profile. 

5. Safety Patrol Outreach Team member: I am part of this wonderfully constructed team of SPOT which allows me to conduct Safety Patrol training sessions. 

6. Translator: 'Translator' badge on profile confirms the same. 

7. Sharing Circle host: I am a Sharing Circle host as well; confirmed by the 'Sharing Circle' badge on my profile. However, currently, not hosting any Sharing Circle. 

8. Safety Awareness team member: confirmed by the 'Safety Support' badge on my profile. 

9. Adult Teen Listener Team: confirmed by the 'ATL' badge on my profile.

10. Team Lightship Member: also called Social Soldiers.

My Achievements include:

1. 7 Cups Intern Graduate:
I am proudly a 7 cups intern graduate with Honors. 

2. Training guides completion: I have completed all the self-training guides, some of which are 'depression', 'Bipolar', 'Anxiety' etc, with sheer dedication. 

3. Completion of Peer training guides: along with completing self-training guides, I am elevated to inform you that I have completed all the peer training guides, from one to twelve. 

(Note: this doesn't make me a Peer Supporter)

4. Tulip badge: I am a 'Tulip badge' holder, if the one who recommended me for the same is reading this, then please know that I can never thank you enough. 

5. Completion of AL tests: I am delighted to announce that I have all four AL completion badges, 'Graduate', 'Master', 'Scholar' and 'Rocket listener', which confirms that I have successfully completed all four Active Listening Tests, one, two, three, four, respectively. 

6. Multiple Academy trainee: Currently, I am a trainee/soon-to-be-a-graduate for the following programs:

(i) LDP (ii)GLDP (iii)CDM (iv)QL

Before I proceed, let me tell you that I did not list the roles and achievements because I wanted to flaunt them or make myself feel important. That's not why they exist, at least not the roles. I am not a fan of listing them as well. 

I did this simply because I have a poor memory so listing these in my bio will help me keep a track of it.

Additionally, by listing them I wanted to let you know that anyone in search of information regarding any of the above-mentioned roles/achievements can PM me, I would be glad to help you solve your queries on the same or provide you with any information I have. 

Which reminds me, I want to address a topic I have been meaning to speak about (I will try to keep it short, I promise):

Your roles/achievements don't define your 'status', 'respect', or 'position' in this community. I request you to never ever sign up for a role if you aren't interested or just want to feel 'important' in this community.

You are important. Every single person in this community matters and is equally significant. You don't need to sign up for roles to prove it to yourself or to someone else. We all, together, make this community a better place, and your roles/achievements/chats/cheers don't matter. 

        If you are really passionate about a team or want to join it because you are genuinely interested in it, then unquestionably join it. But please, please don't ever expose yourself to burnout/compromise your mental health or sign up for a larger number of roles than you can handle just to list it down in your profile or to seem more important. 

       I don't mean offense to anyone. I respect people who work passionately on different levels just to keep this site working, I really do respect and appreciate their efforts. 

Again: you matter, you are a salient part of this site. Every single one of you

Few lines I read somewhere which I absolutely love:

"Even if you are not noticed, you are still valid.

 Even if there is no one to read it, you should still write it. 

 Even if there is no one to hear it, you should still say it. 

 Even if there is no one to see it, you should still do it. 

 You are not measured by how people react to you."

Lastly, a special mention of someone who has tagged me in their profile:

@leafycup: thank you for mentioning me in your cute little bio, Leafyyy :p

(P.S: for those who remember it, yes, my self-care has come to an end and I am back, to attack you guys with cookies and my nomming sessions xD)


Number of Ratings: 69
Number of Reviews: 62
Listens to Teens & Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Feb 10, 2020
Last Active in last month
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 307
Cheers 105,240
People Helped 175
Chats 838
Group Support Chats 405
Listener Group Chats 210
Forum Posts 640
Forum Upvotes 775
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Feedback & Reviews
Truly positive, would make a great heart fairy!💜
she is cool and hilarious...distracted me when I wasn't having the best time :)
She is a great listener, always there for you... shows that she cares (:
She is a great listener, really listens: patient, kind, funny and amazing!!!! I loved how she was there with me throughout the hard situation. Always there to provide a shoulder!
she is an angel: caring, patient and full of resources!
A really good listener. I recommend him!
She is really cool!!! Glad I talked to her. Love you, Pals
Glad I talked to her💛
Pals is really kind and most of all respectful. I recommend 100%
She is a great listener and friend.
Loved it! Awesome chat!
She has a goldie heart :)
I like her approach. she listens to understand not just respond by actually asking questions. 7 cups need more people like her.
Pals is a great listener and talks like a friend. They want to be there for you and don't put the pressure on you to explain what you're going through, they just let you say whatever it is you need to say :) thank you
Loved the chat we had pals! Will come again! For sure!
So supportive and really friendly and knows what I am going thought and lovely to talk to.
Awesome listener and a cool friend.
Incredibly sweet and understanding
Cool Nice Relateable
I love her personality! She really knows how to be professional with being yourself hence doesn't sound like a robot! Amazing listener!!!!
She is a really good listener. I liked her way of handling chats.
they were very nice to talk to its been a while since i had a good convo and i enjoyed the chat
very friendly, relatble and non judgemental. Loved talking with you pals!!!
I love chatting with her! She is osm!!
She is my all time favorite listener. Pals is great, understanding, caring and a kind friend. I feel comforted after a chat with her. Highly recommend!
Great listener, it's very good at it, I love how he connect with people, and understand me, it really helped me
Pals is a great listener. She actually listened, cared and understood me. I loved the chat! Will come to her later.
Pals is great. We clicked instantly! She made me feel so comfortable! I absolutely loved the conversation we had.
good listener, would recommend
They were very helpful, and helped me understand myself more.
It was very nice to meet her. I loved it.
She is a saint! She literally can be anything, she is hilarious but can also be Serious, she doesn't talk like a robot. Really cares, insanelyyy wise! I would totally recommend her!
glad I reached out, she's truly understanding and makes you feel comprehended
Super nice and easy to talk to!
Ok i love your conversation
Firstly, she is the best listener I have ever talked to.....I certainly recommend her. Has her own unique way of providing support, listens to you patiently. doesn't judge(that's a good trait of a listener). She is honest.... like if she doesn't have any experience of handling a certain issue, she honestly says so.
She is the best I ever talked to! How can someone be so cute when she clearly wasn't trying to be?She was fierce yet adorable. Unique in her own way. Understanding, professional and calm.
She was an awesome listener to say the least. I just loved chatting with her. She really knows how to calm u down and talks so smoothly. I mean just a plain word- wow!!
Distracted me for a bit when I wasn’t having the best day.
I love to talk to her ....! Helped me alot and can talk to her about anything and everything.🙂
This person listened to me and really tried to understand what I go through. Thank you
This person was very insightful. They are compassionate and I felt very happy after talking to them.
Awesome listener
Interactive, smart, knows what they’re doubg
Very helpful and did their best to comfort
very casual person. I liked this cuz it didnt feel like i was seeking help from a professional but just sharing my thoughts to another normal person. Ten out of ten would talk again. FOR SURE😁
Was super helpful
Very good listener, helped alot
Loved it! Awesome chat!
Help me a lot. !! Thanks for the help and its was very easy to talk you, comfortably!!
Really nice and helpful chat
Helped me understand what I need to do in a tough spot where I I felt like I could do nothing, taught me a lot about rising up and he's really really wise.
Very good human being...she is very helpful.
That was an awesome listener and a very kind, compassionate, caring and loving friend I got. I loved talking with her. She knows what she is doing and is good at her job.
its not done yet but awesome so far
Super kind and fun to talk too. They helped with exactly what I needed
They treat you really nice and are patient
Awesome listener!
it was good. nice chat, very helpful
Very helpful, thank you
kind, caring, shows they want to help. i appreciate the conversation we've had.
Very kind and understanding. A good listener.
Badges & Awards
Listening Ear Long Ears Magnet Peppermint Translator PenPal Jester of Smiles Clerk of Bear Hugs Piper of Dedication Ellen Jump Start Anxiety Depression Eating Disorders Managing Emotions Panic Attacks Surviving Breakups Traumatic Experiences Crisis Intervention Peter Pan Listener Oath ATL Work Related Stress Self Harm Sexual Abuse Alcohol & Drug Abuse Family Support Cultural Diversity Aristotle Verified Listener Bullying Chronic Pain Psychological First Aid Family Stress Sleeping Well Graduate Master Scholar Love Bug Forumpedia Refresher Light Chat Tiny Chat Small Chat Chit Chat Big Chat Voice Talker Communicator Speaker Ray of Hope Shining Light Florence Nightingale Help Angel Self-Care Break-A-Leg Self-Love College Guide Loneliness Guide Test Anxiety Exercise Motivation ACT Therapy Affirmative Listening Ace Listen on the Go Guest Host Startup Support Feedback Perinatal Schizophrenia People of Color Guide ADHD Social Anxiety OCD Boundaries Forgiveness Grief Managing Bipolar Managing Finances Surviving Domestic Assault Getting Unstuck Above & Beyond Soaring Positivity Challenge 7Cups Guide Rocket Listener 12 Steps Community 101 7 Cups Intern Grad Flower Crown Twinning Icebreaker Champion Sparkler Loyal Friend Tick Tock Fellow Friend NAMI Listener Mod Star Mod On Mod Major Mod Champion NAMI Oath Evolution Steadfast Soul I Steadfast Soul II Steadfast Soul III Social Soldier Meet & Greet Proudly Proactive I Proudly Proactive II Proudly Proactive III Reconnection Hero I First Community First Chat First Post Five Steps High 5 Hang 10 Open Door Weight Management Diabetes CBT Summer Events Safety Patrol Thankful Heart Gratitude Abound Appreciated Safety Support Joiner Hope Training Familiar Face Kindness Challenge Peer Pro Peer Training 01 Peer Training 02 Peer Training 03 Peer Training 04 Peer Training 05 Peer Training 06 Peer Training 07 Peer Training 08 Peer Training 09 Peer Training 10 Peer Training 11 Peer Training 12 New Mom Support Continuing Education Sharing Circle Community Builder Community & Special Events Pineapple Tulip Personal Leadership 101 Personal Leadership 102 Becoming a Leader Leadership Principles Leadership Graduate Fall Events 2020 Soul Searcher Super Supporter Sharing Circle I CDM Graduate GLDD Graduate Alumni
Questions Answered
Why is it so important to share your feelings?
November 3rd, 2020 6:11am
Why do I feel worse after crying?
October 30th, 2020 10:22am
I have very rapid mood swings, what's the best way to manage them so no one gets hurt?
October 30th, 2020 10:05am
Should I stay at a job that I hate?
October 30th, 2020 9:43am
What is the best way to deal with a situation when you find yourself triggered?
October 30th, 2020 9:27am
How much sleep should I get daily?
October 30th, 2020 2:49pm
Do I miss the person, or the relationship?
October 30th, 2020 10:29am
How do I start to live a life without the person I can't live without?
October 30th, 2020 1:05pm
How can I stop thinking about him/her? Why my heart hurts so much?
November 7th, 2020 6:52am
How to get over someone you never dated?
October 31st, 2020 4:33am
Why do I freak out in relationships so easily?
October 30th, 2020 1:27pm
I'm dating someone who has been cheated on. What should I do?
October 30th, 2020 2:18pm
How do I stop missing my ex?
October 30th, 2020 9:37am
Why don't they understand me?
October 30th, 2020 10:14am
Why do some parents stay together when they are clearly not happy?
November 9th, 2020 10:32am
What do I do if my father thinks I hate him even after I told him I don't?
October 31st, 2020 5:44am
Am I allowed to start being upset and getting help for emotional abuse 3 years after it happened?
October 30th, 2020 9:50am
What should I do if I can't get into medical school?
October 30th, 2020 4:00pm
How do I stop thinking about a friendship that has ended?
February 11th, 2020 3:55pm
I'm too short for a guy to date. What can I do?
October 30th, 2020 1:22pm
What does self-love mean?
November 2nd, 2020 11:16am