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duckwithwits

Intermediate 8
Listens to Over 18
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Hey there! I am glad you're here on 7cups. I am going through a rough time in my life and according to me listening and helping other can reciprocate one's mood. Well I enjoy swiming ,listening to music,long walks,learning cooking[fill in whatever you want] and any other thing I can get a good company. We'll this introduction is enough according to me. So let's talk to know about each other. Quack Quack.
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395
India

EverythingIAm

Maven 1
Listens to Over 18
Active in last week
***18+ only. Please find a teen listener if you are a minor.*** Hey! A little about me; I'm 28, male and from the UK. Yes, that's me being attacked by a massive dinosaur. We're on good terms now, he's actually pretty chill. We can talk about anything. Whether it's big pressing issues or a small chat just to distract you from whatever. I'm all ears to anything you have to say.  
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1893
United Kingdom

calmingFlamingo75

Apprentice 5
Listens to Over 18
Active in last week
Hello, i'm glad you found me! If you need to talk to someone, i'm here. You can write me if you are happy, if you are sad or just bored! 
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169
Estonia
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Lisa Page

LisaPageLMHC
Licensed Professional Counselor, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
I am a compassionate, solution-focused therapist, with over 17 years experience in the field of Mental Health counseling. I provide nonjudgmental support and education.
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Fleming Island, FL
United States

melt1826

Supporter 7
Listens to Over 18
Active in last week
I am friendly and easy to speak to.
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159
United Kingdom

Alexanderthejustok

Specialist 4
Listens to Over 18
Active in last week
I am new here but think I can help, I own my own business and consult for others on how to fix theirs.  My experience lies with owning and starting a business, managing employees, fixing and turning around failing businesses, and overcomming start up issues.  I generally talk about business things, adivce on what might be going on at yours, financial advice, things of that nature.  Not really into the relationship or issues you might have with coworkers, I try to focus on issues that apply to work in general. 
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874
United States

RAOTHEHELPER

Sage 2
Listens to Over 18
Active in last week
 EVERYONE deserves to be listened and i am here to listen to you and help you get better.I can discuss any kind of topic if you want me to.I will try my best to comfort you as i am only here to help you. I know life can be hard but that  doesn't mean you should be hard on yourself, so try to ease yourself as much as possible as only you can help yourself get better, whereas i would merely listen to you or if possible or needed guide you.         "To all those who think life is a mess,                               Do know there is nothing more best"   ----by me   Even listeners can approach me, if they need any assistance or help.   P.S: If i am offline, leave a message, i will try my best to reach you as soon as possible.                                                
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1967
Pakistan
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Lisa De Regt

LisaDeRegtBScPsychCogDipCounsDip
Counselor, BSc Psychology (Honours)
Hello, I am Lisa and I work in a person-centred approach mixed with cognitive behavioural therapy. I believe we all have the potential to be the best we can be.
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Brighton
South Africa

hopefulHorizon11

Advanced 6
Listens to Over 18
Active in last week
Hii..☺☺....I m a very gud listener n always wnt to hlp u....😊😊
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501
India

CreativeLife

Marvel 7
Listens to Over 18
Active in last week
Let's have a good conversation, shall we? Welcome to 7 cups!  I personally love 7 cups. In a world where everyone is connected to everyone else, it's very easy to feel disconnected and isolated. When life doesn't go our way, when something unpleasant happens, when we need to vent, or.... we're just bored and want to have a friendly conversation . . . our Friends and Family are not very useful. It happens, it's not their fault. They are not "equipped" to deal with us when we need to talk about something a bit deeper, and - even less so - when we have a serious problem in our life. The listeners at 7 Cups fill that void. We, the listeners in here, voluntarily signed up for this, and got "some" training in being listeners.  But make no mistakes: - we are not therapists, the web site at times it's confusing, and in my experience some users believe that listeners are therapists. We are not.  We're just regular people. - we are not miracle workers.  We listen. We might interject something, we might address your questions, we can engage in conversations with you, but . . . we're just humans after all, expect no miracles. - we're not perfect. Really. A good conversation between two people has a lot to do with "chemistry". At times chemistry doesn't happen, and that's OK.  When this happens, do not hesitate to propose to end the chat and seek another listener; this way you can get your chat time with someone more in tune with your needs/wants; and free up that listener for someone else with whom they will be more in tune as well. I enjoy being a listener in here, and I understand that your problems are important, very important; so if I am here I don't multi-task, I chat with 1-2 people max and I am not busy doing anything else; this way I can be responsive to our chats. I ask you to do the same, your time is just as valuable as mine.  If you're in the middle of too many things, multitasking AND you want to get some support in here . . . everyone will have a bad time.  You deserve better.  Make an appointment with yourself, make some time, free up your schedule and have a session with 7 cups; take the time to browse the listeners database, pick the one(s) that you feel will give you the best session, and ... chat away.  Once a chat is over, feel free to start a new chat with a different listener?  It's good to have different perspective and souding boards!   I have been a listener for a while here, and I have come up with a short list of eqtiquette that will help us both have a meaningful and useful chat: - if you get busy or no longer want to chat, it's OK. Just say so. Ghosting is rude; I won't do it to you, so.... neither should you. - I believe in the Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you". - NO CUT & PASTE WALL OF TEXT! This is a place where to have a conversation, polite and respectful, and respect goes both ways. Think of it that you're hanging out with a friend, you talk, I talk; we go back and forth with the conversation. While hanging out with your friends, you do NOT pull out a 24 pages printout with what you have to say, do you?  So, DO NOT do that to me. It shows that you're not respectful and you're just jumping from listener to listener searching for someone who validates what's already in your mind, or you're looking to cause trouble. Either way, you and I are not a good match, please move onto a new different listener. - My goal with each and every chat is to provide you with some comfort and relief.  It helps if you ask yourself what is the goal for this chat.  And ... shooting the breeze and just chat is also a good and valid goal. Why not? About me: I am a bit older then the average user at 7 cup, I am 50-something, male, living in the US (East Coast / EST), twice married / twice divorced; and currently dating. I've been around the block a few times, and survived with a few scars to show off. I am a good conversationalist which means I am a good listener, introvert personality (INFJ) I enjoy deep meaningful conversations as well as lighthearted ones depending on the situation. I enjoy living a creative life as an Artist and I believe that Life itself is the outmost form of Art. I have direct relevant experience in relationships, breakups, marriage troubles, divorce, infidelity, affairs, addictions, career development, entrepreneurship, job hunting, and the ultimate search for happiness. I am an Artist and I enjoy talking with other Artists and Entrepreneurs about the challenges of putting ourselves "out there", every single day; and yet we do it with a smile because that is who we truly are deep down inside our persona.  After decades of Severe Clinical Depression, I have "beat depression" and I am now virtually Depression-Free. Long and hard work starting with - but not limited to - talk therapy with a psychologists, and a bit of luck paid off. It was not easy, still it's not easy; it was hard and still it's hard; it was a long but well worth the effort. If I can do it, you can do it too. After I beat Depression I realized that I had G.A.D. (Generalized Anxiety Disorder), I probably had it all along in combination with my Depression. My GAD manifested primarily with constant procrastination especially about my creative efforts.  I tackled my G.A.D. the same way I tackled my Depression: - Seeing my therapist once a week for my G.A.D. and for what I call "general maintenance"; - Also reading/studying as much as I could about Anxiety and G.A.D. and I try to read science-based articles / book written by mental health professionals, and I stay away from new age/self help stuff; - I writing/journaling on a daily basis, I journal about my thoughts / feelings and then I review my writing and challenge myself to view Reality for what it is: Reality; and often I realize that my thoughts / feelings are misplaced and figure out a way to correct my future behavior accordingly.  I also write about Art, Business, Creativity and Life in general. IF you have Depression and/or Anxiety and you're not seeing a therapist... beware that - left untreated - Depression and Anxiety get worse and worse and at some point take over the control of someone's life.   THE FOLLOWING IS AN EXPERIEMENT: Since you're (stil) reading this it means that you like to prepare and plan, which is good. So, how about plan our chat? Ask yourself: what is that I (I = you, ther reader) want from this chat? Are you here because of an emergency? Your world is falling apart and you need a friendly chat?  That's fine. Just tell me so. Do you need someone to vent to your frustrations? That's fine. Just tell me so. Do you need "advice" ? Well, you might be in the wrong place. Giving advice is frawn upon on 7 Cups, and I wholeheartedly agree on that. You and only you know your situation best; nobody else does, and nobody else can tell you what to do. Despair not, this is where 7 Cups can help you: Often times clarity arizes just by verbalizing a situation; just tell me what happened that brought you here, if appropriate I might ask some probing questions to make you thing deeper about both your feelings/perceptions and the facts/reality of the situation; so that you can reconcile both.  Moreover chances are that you already know what to do, which can fall into one of three actions: stop it, continue it, or ... try something different. If you need help with a problem, just say so, we can talk about it, and - chances are - there are a set of possible solutions out there. If you need help with a situation, just say so, we can talk about it, and - chances are - there are a set of possible solutions out there. The difference between a problem and a situation? Simple. A problem is something that you are about to tackle in the future, nothing has happened just yet.  A situation is the result of something that has already happened. Knowing the difference between the 2 makes all the difference. Or, you can be here just to shoot the breeze, we can chat about the most mundane things like the weather (I love the summer), music (I love Classic Rock) or food (I love Italian food) or whatever else; keep in mind that I am a "listener", so my primary role is to listen to you, interjecting if appropriate, asking probing questions to make you reflect more. Looking forward to chatting with you.
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3946
United States

ASDFMan3000

Newbie 2
Listens to Teens
Active in last week
my name is Thomas i will be here always
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2
United States

HiFriend123

Apprentice
Listens to Over 18
Active in last week
Hello! Thank You for finding. I am not much of a talker and probably may not solve any problems. But I will gladly listen to what's bothering you :)
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95
United States
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Amanda Wiginton

AmandaWigintonLMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Now is the time to make a change! Professional, empathic, and compassionate therapist waiting to help you make healthy life changes.
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Woodland Hills, CA
United States

kindVision67

Supporter 3
Listens to Teens
Active in last week
Hi I'm ria.. And I'm always here for you.. Whatever is it you can talk to me.. Feel free to drop a message.. And I'll completely try to help you.. I've been through a lot.. And i know everyone has their own problems.. So why face them alone when you have a community where you can share all your problems without any fear of judgment.. So yea I'm always happy to help you..❤
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167
India

nathantheshota

Novice
Listens to Teens
Active in last week
Hi I'm Nathan!
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1
United States