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calmsoulmeet
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Befriend me, it will be worth it
PathStep 408 Compassion hearts15,063 Forum posts1,410 Forum upvotes2,220 Current upvotes2,220 Age GroupAdult Last activeNovember, 2026 Member sinceFebruary 13, 2016
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INTJ // Bibliophile // 90s kid 

Life is tough and having no one to talk to makes it even more overwhelming. 

Dealing with mental health issues for as long as I can remember. Would appreciate some support. 

Please be kind to me 🙏. 

Lots of love, 

Meet. 
















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How to not take work too seriously?
Work & Career / by calmsoulmeet
Last post
 October 18th
...See more I have a tendency of taking work too seriously. Almost as if every comment on my work I see it as a personal criticism. Somehow unable to differentiate.  While I do understand I am not my work. The feedback is on my work, not on me. But, unable to implement this philosophy.  As a result, what happens is that I keep on creating scenarios inside my head and holding lots of angst against some colleagues. All this is doing so much of harm to me and sapping my energy.  How do I deal with it? How do I not let work be my identity. I do realise I need a life outside work too.  Also, if there is any listener willing to hear me out on this, do inform.  Suggestions welcome. Thanks.
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Why on earth is it so nerve wrecking to make friends here?
Journals & Diaries / by calmsoulmeet
Last post
 September 27th
...See more I came back to this app after a long time. And the more I spend my time here the more I realised, making friends on 7cups is certainly not my "cup of tea". And no, this isn't a rant or a complaint post. People are genuinely good the way they are. Perhaps my expectations are unrealistic. I shall leave it here. Once again iterating, this platform is just fine the way it is. Thanks.
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Looking for a member/ listener friend? Here I am !
Depression Support / by calmsoulmeet
Last post
 September 20th
...See more Hello folks. I am desperately looking for some nice genuine connection(s) here. Being an introvert, I have immense trouble making friends.  If there is anyone who is sailing in the same boat as I am, feel free to comment on this post.  Oh, a bit about me. My name is Meet and I am a content writer by profession. I am simple, sweet, and courteous being. My hobbies are reading books, writing poems, and journaling. I love having deep conversations about life  If u think we are like minded, do comment here ! Regards, Meet
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How does one handle pressure in life ?
Depression Support / by calmsoulmeet
Last post
 November 19th, 2022
...See more So guys , currently I am working as a sales consultant. And my job profile is such that I have to deal with a lot of stress and pressure on daily basis . There are so many targets to meet daily and plus my team leader constantly puts pressure on me in case I am unable to meet my targets. So in short , I have to deal with a lot of pressure. Unfortunately, my ability to deal with pressure isn't the best . I tend to crumble under pressure and it affects my productivity. I wish I could develop a mindset wherein I am able to stay calm and neutral all the time , soak in all the pressure and perform to the best of my abilities. Any suggestions on how I could do the same ?
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A poem on 7 Cups !!!!
Poetry / by calmsoulmeet
Last post
 October 6th, 2022
...See more Here , sharing something I had written as an ode to 7cups and all its members many years back . Please give it a read and let me know how it is :::: When I joined 7 cups, I was in a total mess , Filled with whole lot of worries and amidst lot of stress , But one thing I must confess , Whenever I reached out my hand to search for some hope , I always found someone at the other end ,standing with a rope , Whenever I was in all sorts of disgust in dealing with my issues , There was always someone at the other end wiping my tears with a bag of tissues , Whenever there were moments, when I wanted all of this to end , There was always someone helping me like a dear friend , Whenever I was crying like crazy and all in tears , There was always someone to console me and listen to me with all their ears , I can't help but salute and give a huge round of applaud , To all the members , listeners and the mods , Thank you 7 cups for holding my hand and lifting me up.
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Looking for listener / member friends. .
General Support / by calmsoulmeet
Last post
 July 25th, 2022
...See more Hi guys . My name is Meet and I am 29 years old . I joined 7cups way back in 2016 and made good friends in the initial years . But after that , most of my friends either left 7cups or stopped coming here. I feel a strong feeling of loneliness these days as I don't have any friends over here barring maybe one or two . Add to this , I have absolutely 0 friends in real life too . So, if anyone would like to be my friend , please reply to this post . Thanks for reading . :).
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I am down and out .
Anxiety Support / by calmsoulmeet
Last post
 March 13th, 2022
...See more I don't know where to start from . My life has become completely hopeless and miserable . There is not even a miniscule of a chance of something good happening in my life . I have had such bad luck for the past 6 years . Have had to endure so much of pain . What's the point of taking so many anti depressants ? Having so many therapy sessions ? Nothing helps at all. 😞. P.S. : Sorry for the vent . I have no one in my life with which I can share my stuff with . No friends at all in real life . Struggling to make friends over here too .
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