gentleIris49
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Number of ratings116
Number of reviews46
Listens toOver 18
LanguagesEnglish, Portuguese
Listener sinceNov 1, 2016
Last activein last 6 months
GenderFemale
PathStep 309
People helped269
Chats1,378
Group support chats11
Listener group chats39
Forum posts25
Forum upvotes12
Bio
Iris here! I’m a trained, verified and active listener and I’m so glad you are here. I hope you find comfort in opening up to me the same way I found comfort in some listeners here. I’m Brazilian, and I speak English as much as I speak Portuguese. You can talk to me in any of those languages. I feel I can relate more with depression, anxiety and LGBTQ+ and school/college issues, but I’m open to ANY topic really. I’m female, twentysomething and lesbian. If I’m online, feel free to chat with me. If I’m offline, also feel free to start a chat and I’ll answer as soon as I’m able to. Sit down, let me bring you a cup of tea or coffee or whatever you want to drink and let’s talk :)
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Wonderful listener detailed answers
Wonderful listener, definitely made me think about what's bothering me in a more positive light. Thank you so much for being wonderful!
Amazing I feel really heard and got a lot of things off of my chest :)
Wonderful, helpful listener. I feel lucky I had the chance to chat.
She's very empathetic and I feel happy when I talk to her.
Iris is compassionate and skilled and made my first time on this sight a positive experience. She’s fantastic!
helpful and considerate
Helped me more than I could have thought
Talking to Iris really helped me. I actually felt a sigh a relief being able to express myself without judgement.
Amazing person who listened, cared about and helped me understand my questions. She was kind and without I even see it, let me answer by myself. Thanks again !
Really helpful.
Very understanding and made me feel listened to.
She is a good listener.
The best person to talk to. The best listener ever.
Good and nice for talking
I had lost my fate, but GentleIris49, did what NOBODY could do, and helped me! Thank you so much
you were great. thanks for being understanding and giving me a safe space to talk about how i feel
very sympathetic and attentive. i enjoyed talking to you. i just don't have the words to describe how good you are.
She was awesome. Helped me a lot.
Iris was extremely kind and helpful. She listened, asked all the questions, and really made me see things differently but in a good way. She was empathetic and really understood what I was going through and shared a new perspective as well. I highly recommend her :)
Good listener.
very good person!!!!!
Very helpful, and thoughtful. Gave me more insight in a couple hours on my issue than I've been able to give myself in 2 years.
She was great!!!!!
Wonderful listener! So so helpful!!
FANTASTIC!! You are an incredible listener. Someone who stays on topic and guides you through whatever you need help with. Please rate them high because they deserve it!
Great!
good
Was nice and neutral and helped think of the other side of things.
she is the BEST listener i've ever had
she`s so nice
and has never pressed the ''therapy button'' just to get off me
i like her a lot
she`s so nice
and has never pressed the ''therapy button'' just to get off me
i like her a lot
very kind
Hope we all learn something truly worth understanding before hitting the 30 mark. So that life can be as fine as it should be.
I loved her replies. Never intruding. Just what I needed tonight.
I like her
Iris really listens and dives deep into problem of any difficulty and solves them all! Thank you so much for helping me understanding myself!
An awesome listener.
She is very inquisitive and listens :)
Sweet gal, with a big heart, thank you for being you, hugs hun, hope you feel better!
This listener helped me. I can't speak positively enough. Thanks.
Feliz por ter falado com Iris. Aliviou o pesar no meu coração.
she has the best response time ever
Little iris..thank you.
Very sympathetic.
She made me feel so much better about my problem, totally supported me and shared her own experiences. I'm so glad I spoke to her! Thank you
I am happy to find Iris. Iris is a wonderful person and listener that would listen with all attention, empathy and give a extremely good feedback.
the listener really listen to your problem and honest and realistic. I'm glad that I get to talk to this listener.
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