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Number of ratings87 Number of reviews51 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Spanish Listener sinceAug 21, 2016 Last activein last week GenderFemale PathStep 614 People helped311 Chats2,732 Group support chats228 Listener group chats1,405 Forum posts585 Forum upvotes635
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Hello there, I am 37 years old. I am from Panama and I love music. :)

I am back after one or two years

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About hypersexuality
7 Cups Online Therapy / by ifyouknowtocountcountwithme
Last post
 March 23rd, 2023
...See more Hi all, I am writing this because I have a member that it's hypersexual and I want to know if the therapy would be with a psychiatrist or..? And do we have pyshicatrists here? P.D: I know therapy is just advised when asked
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Incest, malformation, fetishes: Useful phrases
Relationship Stress / by ifyouknowtocountcountwithme
Last post
 December 30th, 2021
...See more Hi there, Continuing with the topics from this forum thread; https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerSupportGuidesMockChatTranscripts_1850/TWExperienceonsexrelatedtopicslikeincestmalformationothersandnopeitsnotsexualassault_267314/ Now I will add some phrases, that validates their feelings and emphatizes with them. - Thanks for opening up about this, I understand this topic it's very delicate. (Or something along those lines) Recognizing this way, that they are being vulnerable and also looking for help despite being a topic that is a taboo. - It's awful they made fun of you. It makes sense you felt hurt and are afraid that happens again. - Sounds frustrating not being able to stop this urges. - How long struggling with this? (Sometimes it will be years) - What do you do when the urges comes? What have you tried to cope with these urges? - Any idea of what to try next to cope with these urges? Anything in mind? * In my experience is very close with intrusive thoughts. I think it will useful to keep this in mind. Note: Avoid advices, if you are going to suggest an idea let them know it's up to them (careful with this gray area). There are many good threads about avoiding advice, good to read! Also, very understandable if you want them to avoid do something that you know very likely they are going to regret, peer supports are always around. You can lean on them. Or switch to your member account. Keep in mind. So deep breath and let them live their experience. Be there for them when they make a mistake or cheer them if they progressed. * Let them know this space is confidential. Also, remember no pressure for them to talk. Patience my friend, it can be hard for them. So, more tips and some questions and validation phrases.. What else comes to your mind? Reading you
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I finally found someone who was truly willing to listen... I'm so glad I found them.
listens and understands what you're going through. what a nice lady!
good listener, seems to be very kind.
Very helpful non judgemental quick to reply very caring ask great questions highly recommended
Really patient listener. someone who understands your situation and be there for you. you can very comfortable around her. she is the best listener I have come across in 7 cups :)
Great support very helpful!
Oh. My. Words. She's more than simple just another amazing listener at 7 Cups. She's also a great friend and person! I wholeheartedly recommend her for the best talks. Period. Pleasure to chat, twinnie, as it always is :) Keep it up, don't stop!
Very quick to respond easy to talk to non judgmental help and very knowledgeable very highly recommended she deserves at least 9 maybe 10 stars
good listener, very helpful
Really supportive and listens carefully!
Kind and patient, great listener !!!
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She is the nicest listener I had the chance to talk to, a very active listener and really patient
An incredible listener. I felt so comfortable talking to them :)))
The best listener, so kind and empathetic
When I kept being late at her sessions, she didn't blame me or judge me. She comforted me when I got depressed over being late to her sessions and when I kept saying negative things about myself over being late to her sessions.
Compassionate listener and helpful.
Very good listener, I feel calmed just speaking to her after 5 minutes
very understanding
Awesome chat!!
shes a great listener and helpful!! bilingual too!!!!
Thank you ever so much
Empathetic and good listener.
She’s the best listener you’ll ever have and found in the entire site. She’s such an amazing and incredible listener that you’ll trust enough to talk about your problems. She’s incredible and empathetic and kind
When I was down and needed help she was there for me and listened to l my problems. She even asked me questions which normally would be really hard to answer for me. But she made these so comfortable that I didn't feel like it was such a bad thing
She was able to talk with me at very short notice which I am very thankful for. Was able to help me sort out some thoughts and come up with a plan for going forward.
she's amazing !!
They are very patient and don't interrupt you. They are kind
A good listener thus far.
good person who listens well
Incredibly helpful, I was having some concerns about my relationship and she was really good at explaining everything and putting things into perspective, and giving me good advice. Talking to her was an absolute blessing
So kind listener I have ever seen on 7 cups... Absolutely loved talking to them.
Very nice person
loved it! she’s just great! Great listening ability. she made me feel great ! And she’s really good at drawing too. But I still think I’m better then her at tennis! but for real i really felt good with her. @tellmejdj
i had a good talk. She did everything she could.
Very understanding.
Very good, caring, considerate and helpful made me feel good
Muy buena oyente. Cercana y empática.
Great chat, always listens and acknowledges your feelings
is a good person and very very sweet
listened really well about a difficult topic definitely a good and compassionate listener
Good
Patient, understanding and kind. Doesn’t judge. Keeps a logical mind while being empathetic. I enjoyed the conversation, really helped me clear up my mind and all the thoughts I had tangled. Would recommend to anyone in need of an open mind and wonderful heart to listen to. :)
A very patient listener, tries to empathize and is an overall positive person.
actually understanding of eating disorders, validating, when I called them out on some mildly ignorant slip up they validated my anger, apologized, and moved on. they really understand that intent does not come before impact-meaning they get that if they hurt me that is more important than whether they MEANT to hurt me or not. thank you.
Thanks so much for your time, Marie. :)
Very helpful and kind!
Very helpful listener. Gives great advice and feedback!
Sin juicios, comprensión, calidez, la retroalimentación fortaleció mi seguridad, esa para decir, me equivoqué, pero no se ha acabado.
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