plantkissed |
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I'm Charlie; I use they/them/theirs or he/him/his pronouns. I've been here on 7 cups for a while now, and am happy to listen or offer support to anybody who needs it! Feel free to reach out to me for anything you may be struggling with, including


disordered eating

panic attacks


anxiety disorders

self harm

LGBTQ+ related issues

dermotillomania and/or trichotillomania

existential anxiety

emotional abuse/trauma

family stress

or if you're just feeling lonely or would like to have a light-hearted chat!

Things you can expect from a chat with me: looooads of hugs, zero judgementresources (if you'd like them), a safe space to talkrelevant personal experiences (I promise none of them start with "back in my day" cheeky), and as much love and positivity as I can send you! Also possibly some unicorns.

Feel free to message me at any point in time, and stay strong!  My status is usually set to a red dot, but if you leave a message, I will get back to you as soon as I am able heartYou're also welcome to book me here! Please do know that I'm not always able to answer immediately, as things outside of the site can get chaotic, but that I will do my best!

I've been in some really dark places, and I know that sometimes it can be the most difficult thing in the world just to get up day after day, to keep fighting for a future you aren't even sure you want to reach anymore. There are some nights that feel like they go on forever, and some days when the exhaustion becomes too overwhelming to manage. But you aren't alone. Even when life seems like too much to handle, you aren't all by yourself. As a listener, I'm here to share your burden, to offer what I can, and to help you feel like things will be okay someday. I'll do my best to lift you up when things get rough and celebrate with you when things go well. I'm here to remind you how proud I am that you've made it this far, and how much you have overcome. Things can get tough, but you are worth fighting for, and you really can do this! Keep going, lovely! heart

A note to listeners:

Hi there, lovelies! You are all doing such incredible and positive work helping others! Sometimes, though, we need to not just support others but also be supported. If you've had a difficult chat or you just need somebody to lean on, don't hesitate to leave a message heart Take care of yourself, too!

My lovely listener twins are Nuria @blissfulWaterfall62, Alex @Peanat, and Julia @Juvia1; @Viana is my fantabulous mod twin! heartsmiley Loaf you all!!!

I'm involved in 7 cups in various ways, including as a 

Verified Listener

Welcoming Team Member

Appreciation Team Member

Feed Team Member

Just remember: you have mass and you take up space, so that means... you matter!! 

I believe in you! 



If you or somebody you know is suicidal:

Read this first

International Hotlines

What happens when you call a hotline

If a friend is suicidal 

Reasons to stay alive (made by @blossombreathe!)

Calming websites (I use these for anxiety): 

Reveal a koala

Paint nails over and over

Make music with others

For OCD:

Managing OCD

For eating disorders:


Resource Links (some are international or in different languages if you need)

Eating Disorder Hope

A list of helpful sites


Eating disorder hotlines

For self harm:

Alternatives listed by motivation

For depression:

ADAA (also good for anxiety)


Get support

Depression and bipolar resources

For social anxiety:

Coping strategies

For motivation:

Motivation when depressed

Motivational quotes

Self esteem and motivation

Number of Ratings: 84
Number of Reviews: 32
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Aug 24, 2016
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Non-Binary
Progress Path Step 291
Cheers 71,707
People Helped 149
Chats 532
Group Support Chats 328
Listener Group Chats 210
Forum Posts 506
Forum Upvotes 717
Feedback & Reviews
I love how they are generous to give me time to talk and how, even if they are not on, I feel like I can still talk to them.
Really kind and lovely
Plantkissed was amazing! She helped me a lot, and I would like to thank her so much for helping me get through one of the hardest times. I would recommend her!
I like him or her
Very relaxed and lovely
Charlie is caring, kind and truly listens to you. If you are scared of talking to others or opening up, he is the right person for you. Zero judgement, instead you get an overwhelming amount of kindness and acceptance. He always makes sure you're okay and asks if you need some tips/resources instead of bombarding you with things you should try, which I really appreciate. Outstanding listener 10/10 would recommend (honestly tho).
It's awesome!!!!
He helped me a lot, and now I feel better like I have a purpose and people care about me.
They were so nice and told me exactly what I needed to hear ❤️❤️❤️
Totally amazing. Totally got me.
helped me so much i feel a lot better about myself now
This listener 😱 This super magical listener 😱 is one of the best listeners I've ever met 😊 They're kind 💕 funny 😂 and are always there for me when I need help 💁 Charlie is a unique 😜 and kind hearted person ❤️ I feel so comfortable talking to Charlie 💛 About anything at all 📎 They put so much thought into their responses 💭 and every response is infused with so much warmth 🔥 and love 💖 I encourage talking to Charlie about any problem you need help with 📖 as they will be able to support you and stay strong through everything 💪
Amazing. I never knew that I was just overthinking this, Everyone is different, and I will have to keep that in mind later.
She is an awesome person. It's really easy to talk to her.
One of the sweetest individuals I've had the pleasure of talking with.
They were incredibly empathetic and helped to reassure me a lot.
He was very helpful in helping me in becoming one with the force
I felt safe while talking to you, thank you so much
Nobody has ever really treated me better. It was especially great coming from a stranger. They helped me a lot.
Really great
Honestly, I don't know where to start. I haven't felt this relieved in a long time -- getting everything out was so helpful, and Charlie really showed me that I was understood! They reflected my emotions really accurately and showed a lot of empathy while maintaining respect, which was really awesome. It's not every day that you get listeners as amazing as this, and it was really nice to know that someone cares! I didn't know feeling so much better was possible until now -- so thank you, thank you, thank you.
Very very helpful
Such an amazing person. Helped me realize that I'm not alone
You were very kind and understanding, I couldn't have asked for a better listener. I am so happy for your support and I'm hoping to have the oportunity to chat with you again. Thank you so much :)
Such an AMAZING listener inside and outside of pm's
vvery kind and really knowws howw to relate themself
Very helpful!
Very relatable and informed on LGBTQ issues. Also caring af
Made my day that little bit brighter!
He was awesome providind support and experiences:)
Very very kind and undrerstanding and respectful. Amazing listener. 😃
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Questions Answered
What are some steps that can be taken to help people with depression?
February 21st, 2017 10:19pm
My friends, family or colleagues don't think depression is a real illness. How can I educate them?
February 21st, 2017 10:17pm
What causes depression?
September 13th, 2016 3:47pm
Who can I talk to about my problems?
October 25th, 2016 4:35pm
Do I have the right to feel depressed even if I'm privileged?
August 27th, 2016 3:52am
My anxiety is getting worse and depression won't let me live my life, how do I overcome this?
August 27th, 2016 3:57am
I have been diagnosed with mental illnesses. Why do I feel I have been unfairly stigmatised by this?
February 21st, 2017 10:26pm
Am I having a panic attack or a heart attack?
September 13th, 2016 4:04pm
what are some good and healthy distractions from my anxiety when it gets really bad?
September 13th, 2016 4:07pm
How frequent are anxiety attacks usually?
August 27th, 2016 4:11am
What are alternative ways besides medication to deal with the physical symptoms of anxiety?
February 21st, 2017 10:12pm
What is asexuality?
September 13th, 2016 3:54pm
Why is it so hard for people to understand my sexuality?
February 21st, 2017 10:14pm
I don't really identify as a girl, but I don't identify as a boy either...what other genders are there?
November 12th, 2016 11:00pm
How can I be a good ally to the LGBTQ+ community?
November 12th, 2016 10:50pm
Are people born gay?
April 25th, 2017 6:59pm
Is it ok to not want to come out right now?
November 12th, 2016 10:46pm
How do I come out to my parents?
August 27th, 2016 4:05am
Does everyone secretly despise LGBTs although many openly claim to accept and love it, including LGBT members and allies? Are there really people who see LGBT as of equal worth as heterosexuals?
August 27th, 2016 4:01am
What does it mean to be Queer?
September 7th, 2016 2:34pm
Is there any chats/groups/forums specifically for Transgender teens 18 and under?
September 13th, 2016 3:52pm
How do I come out as nonbinary?
August 29th, 2016 8:47pm
I am a male-to-female transgender but recently I have been feeling like I'm pretending when I am feminine and don't get upset when I am masculine... Is it possible that I'm not transgender after all?
December 5th, 2016 2:27am
I'm not sure if I'm straight but I don't want to come out if I take it back in the future. What should I do?
December 5th, 2016 2:25am
I think that I am transphobic even though I am trans myself and I don't know how to get over this. Any help?
January 17th, 2017 5:19pm
Why do people self-harm?
September 13th, 2016 3:50pm
How can I talk about/show people my many scars without them freaking out?
December 5th, 2016 2:23am
How do I stop self harming -if it's a addiction- without telling someone?
February 21st, 2017 10:23pm
What is it like to have social anxiety?
January 17th, 2017 5:34pm