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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

izzyy528
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Hey there I'm Izzy, welcome to my profile!  Sometimes talking and opening up can be difficult to do, and that's okay! I can't promise to fix your problems, but I can promise to be here and offer a friendly listening ear for you to talk to and share your story!  I have a genuine passion for supporting others, and I am committed to establishing a secure, inviting, and non-judgmental space for our conversations. Whether it's something troubling you or simply what's on your mind, feel free to reach out at any time. Your messages are always welcome, and I'll respond as soon as possible.  If you'd like to discuss a topic that necessitates a bit of research or if you prefer a specific scheduled time, feel free to book me HERE [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/14OfE8l_C4SGjmjAxWyfW27hITjBQsCxqjEUtBOQInLA/viewform?edit_requested=true]  Please feel free to message me anytime and I will get back to you as soon as possible 💙 ------------------------- Colours of Availability:  💚 Green: I'm online and currently taking new chats. Feel free to message me and I will respond shortly 💚 🧡 Orange: I'm online, but I may be busy with other members or listeners right now. Feel free to leave me a message, and I will respond when I am free 🧡 ❤️ Red: I'm currently offline or unable to take chats right now. Feel free to leave me a message, and I will reply the next time I am online ❤️ ------------------------- When it comes to these specific chats: Sexual health: Please do not message me if you have any inappropriate intentions or want to ask me inappropriate personal questions, also don't message me asking me how to help you control your urges. In addition, don't message me about your sexual insecurities with such body parts, or go into detail about sexual interactions you've had on an intimate level as they make me feel uncomfortable.  Cancer/chronic pain/diabetes/disabilities: I don't mind discussing these topics, but I want all members to get the best possible support and I believe that I am not experienced enough to support someone with these specific issues as I have not personally experienced them or know anyone who has experienced them.  ------------------------- My roles on 7 Cups: - Listener verifier - Peer supporter - Safety patrol - Kahoot sessions hoster - VL Project Agent - SPOT (Safety Patrol Outreach Team) ------------------------- Please do not message me asking for advice or for a diagnosis...I am a trained listener, not a therapist, I'm here to listen and support you, not to give advice or a diagnosis.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               Any inappropriate chats will be blocked and reported.        Thank you for reading my bio! ------------------------- -------------------------
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DanCat1128
L Specialist 6 424
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╭──────༺♡༻──────╮ 𝐻𝑖 𝐼'𝑚 𝐷𝑎𝑛𝑑𝑎𝑛!  𝐼 𝑤𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑙𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑛 𝑡𝑜 𝑤ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑦𝑜𝑢 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑠𝑎𝑦. 𝑀𝑦 𝑏𝑜𝑢𝑛𝑑𝑎𝑟𝑖𝑒𝑠 𝑖𝑛𝑐𝑙𝑢𝑑𝑒 𝑛𝑜 𝑠𝑒𝑥𝑢𝑎𝑙 𝑐ℎ𝑎𝑡𝑠 𝑜𝑓 𝑎𝑛𝑦 𝑘𝑖𝑛𝑑, 𝑛𝑜 𝑑𝑒𝑝𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑠𝑖𝑜𝑛 𝑐ℎ𝑎𝑡𝑠 𝑎𝑠 𝑖𝑡 𝑒𝑓𝑓𝑒𝑐𝑡𝑠 𝑚𝑦 𝑚𝑜𝑜𝑑𝑠. 𝑀𝑦 ℎ𝑜𝑢𝑟𝑠 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑓𝑟𝑜𝑚 𝑚𝑖𝑑𝑛𝑖𝑔ℎ𝑡 𝑡𝑜 8𝑎𝑚 𝑒𝑠𝑡. ✧༺♥༻✧ 𝐼 𝑝𝑙𝑎𝑦 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑔𝑢𝑖𝑡𝑎𝑟 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑝𝑖𝑎𝑛𝑜. 𝐼 𝑝𝑙𝑎𝑦 𝑡𝑒𝑛𝑛𝑖𝑠. 𝐼 𝑔𝑟𝑎𝑑𝑒 𝑝𝑎𝑝𝑒𝑟𝑠 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑚𝑜𝑚, 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑤𝑜𝑟𝑘 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑜𝑙𝑑𝑒𝑟 𝑔𝑒𝑛𝑒𝑟𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑝𝑒𝑜𝑝𝑙𝑒 𝑤ℎ𝑜 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑑𝑖𝑠𝑎𝑏𝑖𝑙𝑖𝑡𝑖𝑒𝑠. 𝐼 𝑎𝑚 𝑎𝑛 𝑎𝑟𝑚𝑦 𝑏𝑟𝑎𝑡. 𝐼 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 8 𝑠𝑖𝑏𝑙𝑖𝑛𝑔𝑠 𝑎𝑛𝑑 1 𝑛𝑖𝑒𝑐𝑒 𝑎𝑛𝑑 1 𝑛𝑒𝑝ℎ𝑒𝑤. ✧༺♥༻✧ 𝑀𝑦 𝑟𝑜𝑙𝑒𝑠 𝑎𝑟𝑒 🐱 𝐴𝑐𝑎𝑑𝑒𝑚𝑦 𝑚𝑒𝑛𝑡𝑜𝑟 (𝐼𝑛𝑡𝑒𝑟𝑛𝑠ℎ𝑖𝑝)  🐱 𝐴𝑐𝑎𝑑𝑒𝑚𝑦 𝑚𝑒𝑛𝑡𝑜𝑟 (𝑞𝑙𝑝 𝑞𝑢𝑎𝑙𝑖𝑡𝑦  𝑙𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑛𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑝𝑟𝑜𝑔𝑟𝑎𝑚)  🐱 𝐴𝑇𝐿 (𝑎𝑑𝑢𝑙𝑡 𝑡𝑒𝑒𝑛 𝑙𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑛𝑒𝑟)  🐱 𝐶ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑆𝑢𝑝𝑝𝑜𝑟𝑡𝑒𝑟 🐱 𝐿𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑛𝑒𝑟 𝐷𝑖𝑠𝑐𝑢𝑠𝑠𝑖𝑜𝑛 𝑇𝑒𝑎𝑚 🐱 𝑃𝑒𝑒𝑟 𝑆𝑢𝑝𝑝𝑜𝑟𝑡𝑒𝑟 🐱 𝑅𝑜𝑜𝑚 𝑆𝑢𝑝𝑝𝑜𝑟𝑡𝑒𝑟 (𝑃𝑜𝑠𝑖𝑡𝑖𝑣𝑖𝑡𝑦 𝐶𝑜𝑟𝑛𝑒𝑟)  🐱 𝑉𝑒𝑟𝑖𝑓𝑖𝑒𝑟𝑠 𝑇𝑒𝑎𝑚 ╰──────༺♡༻──────╯
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InternalAcceptance
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I'm not currently accepting new member chats unless referred right now. Please search for a Listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] or connect with a live listener. I do not take relationship chats. Quality Ambassador Adult-Teen Listener Anonymous Evaluation Team Ambassador Doorkeeper Global Chatroom Moderator Global Forum Moderator Peer Support Quality Mentor Safety Patrol Team Member SPOT Team Member I'm glad that you have found this site are are reaching out for support through difficult times. I am a trained active listener and am able to offer support most effectively for those who are going through addiction, anxiety, domestic violence, eating disorders, grief, and trauma. Some of the things that I enjoy the most are reading, talking walks through the park, hiking, yoga, and writing. I've overcome many obstacles in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online please don't hesitate to reach out. If I happen to be offline, you are always welcome to send me a message and we can set up a time to talk. I'm glad that you are here.
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Suryansh
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 I am presently not taking any new member chats. Feel free to search for other listeners from HERE [/BrowseListeners]. Thank You for understanding me. On-Break: I'm taking complete break from 7 Cups until May 28, 2024. During my break, for anything related to Chat Support and Chatroom Mentor/Teen Star projects, you can contact other Chatroom Leaders, namely, @hopedreamlove, @EmmaE or @ASilentObserver, and for anything related to Group Support Projects, feel free to contact @ASilentObserver. When I return, I'll resume my roles and responsibilities. Thank you for your understanding!  Hello Hello! Welcome to my profile page, thanks for visiting. I am Suryansh, or Surya, a young man from India. My time zone is IST (Indian Standard Time). My favourite subject is Physics. I really enjoy listening to music, watching series shows and tech movies, traveling, and getting to know our world and its history. I like coffee, and I am fond of writing and reading thoughts and quotes. After a few years, I aim to join the Indian Administrative Service, serve the nation, and continue listening and supporting people. I am a trained, verified listener here on 7 Cups. I like listening to people and supporting them with whatever they are going through. I believe that everyone deserves to be heard and understood. I cannot solve your problems, but I assure you that I will provide you with a safe listening ear and support you. Your feelings are absolutely valid, and I vow to you that I will never judge you. I would appreciate receiving ratings and reviews, as they help me improve, learn, and grow. I greatly believe in respect, patience, and kindness, which I will always embody in our conversation, and I would greatly appreciate it if I received the same attitude as mine back from the other person. I substantially care about you! I am available from Monday to Friday; weekends are days off from 7 Cups for me as I practice Self-Care on these days. We all deserve to have some me-time to care for ourselves. My general response time is within 2–3 days. If I am unavailable or offline, you are so welcome to leave me a message, and I will try to respond as soon as possible. I have some triggers that make me feel uncomfortable in chat. Please avoid sending one-word messages involving 'okay', 'k', 'huh', 'heh', ok', 'oh', 'ah' and 'hmm'. I would appreciate your understanding nature toward me. My Involvement in 7 Cups Group Support & Chatroom Ambassador  As a Group Support Ambassador, my focus area includes Group Support Leadership, Engagement and Quality Aspects of the rooms. As a Chatroom Ambassador, my focus area includes complete management of the Chat Support Team. I also assist with Chatroom Mentor/Teen Star applications & onboarding processes. Global Community Mentor As a Global Community Mentor, I moderate the forums and take steps towards building engagement in the sub-communities with various types of activities. I can edit, delete, or transfer any forum post/thread from any sub-community. Forum Moderator/Forum Flag Team Member As a Forum Moderator/Forum Flag Team Member, I take steps to keep the forums clean and free of toxicity. I am allowed to review flagged posts, approve, edit, or delete them, according to the community's forum guidelines. Listener Verifier As a Listener Verifier, I can conduct mock chats or grade forms, in order to verify listeners, based on their Active Listening skills.  Global Moderator As a Global Moderator, I have moderation (Mod) access in all the member group support rooms. I moderate the rooms to keep them a safe place for everyone and maintain a supportive environment in the rooms. Safety Patrol As a Safety Patrol, I flag inappropriate profiles on 7 Cups, to help maintain the community guidelines, and with the ultimate aim of maintaining a positive and appropriate environment in the community.  Chat Support As a Chat Supporter, I provide support to our listeners through ongoing chat. Peer Support As a Peer Supporter, I provide support to our listeners after a hard/difficult chat. Doorkeeper As a Doorkeeper, I can open or close any room on 7 Cups.  You are always welcome to drop me a message if you would like to get any information, want any room to be closed or opened, or just have a casual chat. I reassure you that you will be provided with a safe and non-judgmental environment to have a chat with me. Thank you for visiting my profile.  Congratulations! You have reached the end. I have a cup of coffee for you HERE [https://thumbs.gfycat.com/BonyDecentChameleon-max-1mb.gif]. Thank You :)
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blissart
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Personal request - i dont take  LGBTQ issues .I will only chat for a maximum of 60 minutes at a time to make sure my focus is solely on you .  Please be aware I will not offer you any advice on your situation or tell you what you should do. Instead I will listen to you with understanding and support you to open up about how you are feeling in a safe and supportive environment. Pls dont substitute this with therapy or counselling
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Mahad2804
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Heya visitor 👋👋👋 Welcome to my bio! I'm Mahad, 17, from Karachi but currently in Islamabad (click to see my time). I'm a listener here at 7 Cups (duh). Here are some of the things I'm doing/have done: *everything underlined is clickable* I offer Chat Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerChatroomsInformation_2144/ApplytobecomeaChatroomMentorTeenStarUpdated_274625/] to listeners during live chats I offer Peer Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/PeerSupport_397/ApplyToBecomeAPeerSupportInfo_298837/] to listeners after tough chats I'm an Academy Mentor Leader for the Leadership Development Program [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/Archived_2244/ArchivedLeadershipDevelopmentProgramUpdatesAnnouncement_230561] I [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/Archived_2244/ArchivedLeadershipDevelopmentProgramUpdatesAnnouncement_230561] help listeners grow and improve their listening skills as a Quality Mentor [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/MentorsandTeenStars_1964/AnnouncementQualityMentorCriteriaChange_222653/] I [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/Archived_2244/ArchivedLeadershipDevelopmentProgramUpdatesAnnouncement_230561] ensure listener quality as part of the Anonymous Evaluations Team [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SiteUpdates_100/EvelynesQualityGazebo_2101/ApplyfortheAnonymousEvaluationsTeam_230452/] I'm a guest [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/Archived_2244/ArchivedLeadershipDevelopmentProgramUpdatesAnnouncement_230561]Smile Spreader [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/InvitingTeamMembersforPeerAppreciationProgram_262624/] I'm a Project Agent for the Peer Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/PeerSupport_397/ApplyToBecomeAPeerSupportInfo_298837/] role I host fun events with the Listener Community Discussions Team [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerLearningDiscussions_1896/JoinListenerCommunityDiscussionsTeam_296388/] I help recruit forum supporters as part of the Subcommunities Outreach Team I graduated from the Leadership Development Program [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/Archived_2244/ArchivedLeadershipDevelopmentProgramUpdatesAnnouncement_230561] with honors Here are some of my past roles: Forum Supporter for TV & Movies Community [https://www.7cups.com/forum/tv/]  Forum Supporter on Need Replies Team [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSefNgW-Va7dyBx67M3d27INmkndnwm1C3Ywa7NJoFa2EscQkA/viewform] Chatroom Teen Star [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerChatroomsInformation_2144/ApplytobecomeaChatroomMentorTeenStarUpdated_274625/] Off of 7 Cups, I'm a high school student and a full-time older brother to 2 little ones. Other than cupsing, I spend most of my time either reading, watching a movie, or tinkering with code (I'm a software geek and love to see how many different ways I can crash my computer). In school, I'm an avid stage speaker, love to participate in every extra-curricular event, and spend as little time in the classroom as possible. ------------------------- I'm currently in a few different leadership roles so I've reduced my regular member chats. I still take chats when I have time but please understand if I don't accept your requests, I'm likely occupied elsewhere. My status can give you the most accurate depiction of my current availability. 🟢 means I'm open to taking chats RN (if you send me a personal request during this time but don't hear back within 2-3 mins, feel free to text me as sometimes personal request notifications can be missed) 🟠 means I'm online but I'm not taking chats RN (please refrain from sending me chat requests during this time because I will likely be unable to accept them. if you need to contact me for some other reason during this time, leave me a text and I'll try my best to respond as soon as I can) 🔴 means I'm offline and not able to respond RN (I can not take chats at this time or respond to messages immediately. feel free to leave me a message and I'll try to get back to you within 48 hours) Before sending me a personal request, please make sure to check my status and the list of topics I feel comfortable discussing. I'm sorry but if you need help with a topic that is not listed, you'll be better suited to go to another listener. I'm unable to help you with them for either lack of knowledge or just uncomfortability with the topic. ------------------------- * Some Wonderful Quotes That I Live By * "The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others." ~ Mahatma Gandhi "Help others achieve their dreams, and you will achieve yours." ~ Les Brown "The best support you can offer is a listening ear, a caring heart, and an open mind." ~ Unknown "Believe you can, and you're halfway there." ~ Theodore Roosevelt "The greatest gift you can give someone is your time because when you give your time, you are giving a portion of your life that you will never get back." ~ Unknown ------------------------- I have an amazing listener twinnie @wishfulWillow6962 [/@wishfulWillow6962] a so very supportive listener sis  [/]@cristlecares [/@cristlecares] Here are honorable mentions for some of the sooo lovely people whom I have so much fun with in TL: (if I missed your name, hit up my PMs) @TabbyCat97 [/@TabbyCat97] @Suryansh [/@Suryansh] @SparklingSeashells [/@SparklingSeashells] @Tobedoctor [/@Tobedoctor] @takitoteka [/@takitoteka] @VioletNotes [/@VioletNotes] @CaringEzra [/@CaringEzra] @ReganL [/@ReganL] If you've gotten this far, 🎉🎉🎉CONGRATS!!!🎉🎉🎉 You must be hungry, here are some snacks for you  🍰   🍩           🍔   🍕 🥞           🍔  🧁           🍰 🧁                🍪               🥞  🍔                                🍪 🍰                           🍩 🧁                       🍪 🍕               🥞  🍩        🧁  🍔 Thanks for stopping by!!!
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JustSophia
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I'm an older woman with lots of compassion, and I'm comfortable talking about a variety of mental health issues.  I've been through a lot with my own bipolar disorder so I can offer real empathy.  Message me if you'd like to chat.  Please note:  I will not tolerate explicit or inappropriate sex talk. Green status indicator = Available to chat.  Orange status indicator = Online but busy. I will respond as soon as I can.  Red status indicator = I am unavailable but you are welcome to leave me a message.  "I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work."  - Thomas Edison
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Rui00
L Intermediate 3 140
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Unfortunately due to school, long term members and other roles I'm not able to take new 1-1 chats. If I talked to you before, If I accepted your request or if you were refered to me this does not apply. Sorry for the bother 💙. ------------------------- ~Back From Break~ Hi my name is Rui and I'm here to listen and support you through whatever you are going through 💛. Topics  I take all topics but the ones I have most experience in are: * * -Anxiety; * -Panic Attacks; * -Relationship stress; * -Breakups; * -Cancer; * -OCD; My roles ✅ Verified Listener ✅ ✨ QLP Academy Mentor ✨ 🌿 Room Supporter 🌿 ☄️ Anonymous Evaluations ☄️ 🚩Safety Patrol and SPOT 🚩 ❤️ Chat Support ❤️ 💙 Peer Support 💙 🌺 AL Project Agent 🌺 🌍 Member of the Translation Project Team 🌍 ☀️ Chatroom Moderator ☀️ 🚪Doorkeeper 🚪 (If you need to open or close a room I'm just a message away) My hostings --- Want to make someones day 💙☀️? Find out how here: Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation] Status: 🟢 I'm online and free (Response time usually 2-5 min). 🟡 I'm online but I'm busy. Feel free to text me and I'll get back to you as soon as I can. 🔴 I'm offline but fell free to text me and I'll get back to you as soon as I can (Usually in 24 hours).
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Shadow
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
I am not currently taking new member chats. If you see me in a group chat room you are free to ask if you can PM and I will let you know if I am able to take a chat at that time. *This does not apply if I have offered you to PM me.* Hello! Welcome to my bio ♡ You can call me Shadow. I'm here to offer a safe/nonjudgmental place to talk and I will do my best to support you. My goal is to give you that space and try to help you through whatever it is you have going on. I will not offer advice, as it can be harmful and only you know your situation well enough to make decisions on it, but I would be more than happy to help you come up with ideas on how to cope with things and manage your situation! I am so proud of you for reaching out <3 My listening style is more listening rather than talking. I am here to be your safe space and sounding board as well as be someone to stand in your corner and cheer you on. We can come up with ideas together to help improve your situation but ultimately you will need to make the final decisions for yourself. If you feel like I would be a good listener for you feel free to reach out and I will respond as I can ♡ **Please note that I am only able to take support chats for 30-60 minutes at at time. Thank you. Topics I am comfortable with: ~ LGBTQ+, self-harm, PTSD/trauma and BPD. Topics I am *not* comfortable with: ~ Active SH/suicide (7cups is not a crisis resource, if you are experiencing this please reach out to crisis resources ♡︎), sexual health/sexual chats, religion/spirituality, relationships stress. My roles here: * Global Moderator  * Chatroom Mentor * Chat Support * ML for Anonymous Evaluations * Quality Mentor * Safety Patrol * Doorkeeper * Verified Listener ꕥ Have an amazing day! ꕥ
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Kyoshi
L Exemplar 12 2921
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
Open to new members (also long term) I'm planet hd 18977 3b ✧✧✧ 𝓐𝓵𝓵 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓷𝓮𝓮𝓭 𝓲𝓼 𝓯𝓪𝓲𝓽𝓱, 𝓽𝓻𝓾𝓼𝓽 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓪 𝓵𝓲𝓽𝓽𝓵𝓮 𝓫𝓲𝓽 𝓸𝓯 𝓹𝓲𝔁𝓲𝓮 𝓭𝓾𝓼𝓽 ✧✧✧ I don’t have to be an expert I just have to care -------------------------  About me: Hello there! I'm Kyoshi (Kyo), my pronouns are they/them. I'm 25 years old and passionate about mental health. I strongly believe in self reflecting and growth because there is always space for improvement. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────• Boundaries are an important aspect of listening, not just for me but also for you as member.  During our chats you will experience; - A safe space for you to vent and share; our chat is your safe space to talk about anything on your mind. What you share during our chats will stay in our chats. - A non judgemental enviourment; there wont be any judgement from me during our chats. Disclaimer: I'm not a professional, although I have knowledge on DID/OSDD and advocate for a better support system and safe place on cups for those with DID/OSDD(and questioning) I cannot provide a diagnosis, to be diagnosed with a Dissociative disorder you have to work with a professional that specializes in such cases. Thank you for understanding •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────•   Topics I’m comfortable with      -Dissociative Disorders  Dissociation  Dissociative Identity Disorder Other Specified Dissociative Disorder  -Trauma/PTSD Child abuse  Sexual abuse/assault Trafficking Ritual abuse Mind control Organized abuse Domestic violence Religious abuse -Family Stress  Parenting Foster care (also for parents who have children in the system) Also open to casual chat note: I only provide support on the topics mentioned above as I have personal experience in those and can relate to you. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────•  Status Green: I am currently online and accepting new personal requests, my response time will be within a few minutes. Orange: I am online but occupied with other tasks on cups, either I'm already in a chat with someone or I can be found in one of the rooms. My response time can vary (5-15min) Red: I'm currently offline and not available on cups, please leave me a message and I will come back to you in 48 hours. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────• Leadership roles -Group support mentor I mentor specific areas to strengthen and improve specific areas in the group support chats, if you have questions regarding group support you can reach out to me  -Chatroom Moderator (global) I help keep the rooms safe, supportive and inclusive! -Chatroom mentor  I help keep the listener rooms supportive and inclusive and I mentor listeners on their listener journey  -Chat support   I support listeners with difficult ongoing chats and answer listener journey related questions, if you need help with anything related to listening feel free to message me -Doorkeeper  I can open and close rooms, if you need to have a room open or closed please message me  -Safety Patrol I flag accounts that go against site guidelines, if you find an account that needs flagging please send me a message ------------------------- Helpful forum posts I have written everything below is clickable -Information on DID [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/DIDDissociativeIdentityDisorderexplainedandhowtohelp_254545/] -Differences between OSDD-1(a,b) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/OSDD1OSDD1aOSDD1bTheDifferences_263532/] -Different roles in a DID/OSDD system [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/TRIGGERWARNINGDIDOSDDAltertypesrolesexplained_263478/] -Information on religious abuse [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/ChildAbuseDomesticAbuse_601/triggerwarningReligiouschildAbuse_266210/] -How to support someone who experienced religious abuse [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/ChildAbuseDomesticAbuse_601/triggerwarningReligiousabuseandhowtosupportsomeone_266350/] -Fight and flight response [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/EventsDiscussionsResources_2334/FightorFlightResponseTriggerwarning_264481/]
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KateDoskocilova
L Epitome 3 1600
5.0 star rating
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
  READ BIO BEFORE MESSAGING. due to my roles and personal life, I may not always accept chat requests Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners] I only take *teen* chats. If you are an adult member, please reach out to somebody else. In order to chat with me, please schedule a time with me to do so (at least 24hrs before appointed time). I am usually available on Tuesdays, Thursdays and the weekends from 9am-1pm ET. important to know that chat sessions with me last anywhere from 30-40 minutes. 🌺 Hi there! Welcome to my page :) I am Kate, a young woman from a city in the northern area of Greece. I am a high school student, studying in the humanities field and am working towards studying psychology or English philology in university. I initially joined this site to get support in regards to my at the time relationship, and decided to also join as a Listener, doing exactly what I plan on having as my profession in a few years from now: be there for people. My main role here is to be there for you no matter what you go through, no matter how big or small it is. And no matter how many roles I take on on this site, I will still be here for you. For that is my main goal, my biggest contribution to this community. 🥰 Some of my hobbies include: dancing, writing, reading books (romance, fantasy, mythology and non-fiction), filming videos as well as taking pictures. 🌺 I am only available for supportive conversations on the topics listed on my profile. For any other topic, please contact another listener. Thank you! 🌺 My contribution to this community goes beyond being a Listener. Here are some other roles I have taken up: Verified Listener. I have been verified by the community for my commitment to active listening skills and quality chatting. That means the community expects of me to maintain professional, kind, open-minded and understanding towards you at all times. Chat Supporter. I am considered a listener who has expertise in the role of a listener and is eligible to provide specialized support to listeners on 7cups in regards to their role/supportive chat. Peer Supporter. I am considered a listener who is capable of listening to fellow listeners after a difficult chat with a member and provide support and show empathy to them after this tough situation they were in. Global Moderator. I ensure a welcoming and safe space for everyone in the member community chat rooms. I am found quite often there, especially in the Teen Community Chatroom. Pass by and say hi! Doorkeeper. I can open and close community rooms. If you need a room opened or closed, you are welcome to contact me. Chatroom Mentor/Teen Chatroom Star. I help moderate the 7 Cups listener chatrooms and support the listeners, too. Community Mentor Leader for the Relationship Stress community. I overview the Relationship Stress community and forums. Are you interested in joining the team? Let me know! Safety Patrol Team Member. I flag profiles that go against the website guidelines. 🌺 My status usually indicates: Green: I am online and ready to take a chat. Orange: I am online but busy, which means my responses will be slower. Red: I am offline. You can leave me an offline message during that time. Expected response time is 24-48 hours after your message is sent. If you receive no response within that time range, feel free to send me a message again (I may sometimes forget to respond, so excuse me for that :P) Message me and let's schedule a chat! 🌺 My amazing twins: @Antonio7Cups @starryWillow9852
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coolvibes
L Marvel 12 2375
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Welcome to my Igloo, Please, come sit by the fire and relax with me for a while.... Hello, thanks for finding me on 7cups. I promise to do my best to help you feel heard. I look forward to speaking with you so just leave a message.I have had an exciting adventure continuing to grow as a listener. I enjoy meeting new people and sharing moments of their day with them. I live with the philosophy that you're never too old to learn something new. Being open to learning is what keeps us young mentally, no matter how fragile our bodies get. I look forward to connecting with you. My Listener Twins @Jenna @Bobcatz @bouncyCandy4246
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