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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

heathermarie95
L Maven 9 491
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 Hello! My name is Heather and helping others has always been a passion of mine. When I accept 1-on-1 chats, I mainly accept loneliness & anxiety chats as those two topics I have much life experience in.  Unfortunately, mental health care is expensive and I understand the struggle. Even though I volunteer and can't provide any advice or solutions, I want members to feel at ease knowing they have someone who cares and will listen and not have to stress about paying a professional.   I do not accept sexual health or inappropriate chats.   I do accept casual chats  Availability 1 on 1 chat: occasionally accept chats as I work 5/6 days a week. Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation] Click here to apply for the Appreciation [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfo8Myq7_mZ3_lt0AtTwRf4-7g3Fvy42oz3h-IXGS-C6Slu7g/viewform] team [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfo8Myq7_mZ3_lt0AtTwRf4-7g3Fvy42oz3h-IXGS-C6Slu7g/viewform] & to spread smiles! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfo8Myq7_mZ3_lt0AtTwRf4-7g3Fvy42oz3h-IXGS-C6Slu7g/viewform] Current roles:  🌈 Community Mentor - P&G 🌈 Appreciation Team Project Leader (Star Leader)  🌈 AL Team Co-Leader  🌈 Quality Mentor Leader 🌈 Academy Mentor - Internship & CDM 🌈  Chat Support  🌈 Care Team
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ShadowFaerie
L Marvel 8 5828
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Hi, I'm Faerie, & I'm glad you found me here on 7cups I would like the opportunity to "hold your hand" through whatever subject you need help with, whether light or heavy. I will take the time to listen, without judgement. I'm a verified listener here, in the "35+" age group, & I have experience working with adolescents & adults, (including LGBTQIA+), professionally, & in volunteer positions. I have experience with a wide range of topics, including family issues, relationship issues, dv, rape, abuse, painful breakups, disabilities, homelessness, chronic pain, addictions & other speed-bumps/road-blocks that life throws us, often when least expected. I enjoy cooking, reading, painting (watercolors and sometimes acrylic), writing creatively, being independent, having picnics outside, music (of all different genres) & sci-fi, among many other things. Welcome! I look forward to meeting you! "Our sorrows and wounds are healed only when we touch them with compassion". Buddha If my status icon is Red 🔴 I am currently unavailable and I will try to return your message as soon as possible but it could take a while. Please allow for up to 24 hours. If my status icon is Orange 🟠 I am busy with another member or with other roles here. I will return your message as soon as possible but it may take an hour or two If my status icon is Green 🟢 I am available and should return your message shortly Special thanks and cheers to my bubbly, energetic listener twin from down under @bouncyCandy4246
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InternalAcceptance
L Paragon 11 3668
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I'm not currently accepting new member chats unless referred right now. Please search for a Listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] or connect with a live listener. I do not take relationship chats. Quality Ambassador Adult-Teen Listener Anonymous Evaluation Team Ambassador Doorkeeper Global Chatroom Moderator Global Forum Moderator Peer Support Quality Mentor Safety Patrol Team Member SPOT Team Member I'm glad that you have found this site are are reaching out for support through difficult times. I am a trained active listener and am able to offer support most effectively for those who are going through addiction, anxiety, domestic violence, eating disorders, grief, and trauma. Some of the things that I enjoy the most are reading, talking walks through the park, hiking, yoga, and writing. I've overcome many obstacles in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online please don't hesitate to reach out. If I happen to be offline, you are always welcome to send me a message and we can set up a time to talk. I'm glad that you are here.
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Mari228
L Specialist 1 512
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Hello I’m M (please refer me as M in chats and conversations). Please don’t request me regarding sex health related topics. I want to build my skills in listening, understanding and working together with others. I like plush animals, nature, anime, mysticism, journaling, and traveling (whether in real or virtual). **Currently Long-Term Listener, Peer Supporter, Adult-Teen Listener, Listener Discussion Host, Academy Mentor**
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HopieRemi
L Epitome 19 5466
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To Listeners, I do not do random casual conversations. You can message me for 7cups related questions and mentoring. I reply to PMs as soon as I can.  If messaging, let me know if you are seeking peer support, mentoring, or chat support. I can also edit Forum Posts. To Members:  I have been honored to be a listener since June 2016.  Time boundaries and personal boundaries are important for me as I do not talk about myself or use this for support and I have limited time. I do not offer advice as that can be harmful to you. I am able to support any topic outside of sext, active suicidal ideation, or homicidal ideas. If you feel like you're in crisis (Suicidal, homicidal, self-harming), please check out this helpful resource [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/].  I mostly offer support in the group room as a Moderator and the forums as a Community Mentor. I do accept chats, if it is a topic I support. If you are contacting me, please let me know in a few words what our conversation will be about. If you need immediate support, I recommend you browse [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] for a listener who is online. If you have been referred to me, please send me a message and let me know you are a referral. By the way, my favorite color is Blue. What's yours?
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Jenna
L Epitome 19 5877
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                                            I only support the topics listed.                              All other topics will be referred to Browse Listeners [http://7cups.com/BrowseListeners]. Anxiety, Bipolar Disorder, Depression, Grief, Sexual Assault (PTSD/Trauma), Terminal Illness ➼ All of my chats are 1 hour long and I offer short-term support. ➼ If you would like to chat with me, first please message me with a brief description of the support you are seeking and days/times that may work for you. I will then respond within 48 hours to let you know if I can take your chat and the times that may work for me. ➼ I follow the community guidelines and I expect you to as well. No off-site contact or sharing of personal info of any kind. ➼ I cannot take any kind of crisis chats due to not having the training or tools. We are also not a crisis intervention website. You will be referred to a helpline. We all battle things, and thankfully we don't have to do it alone even if it's just someone on the other side of the screen offering support. Hello, my name is Jenna and I am in my early thirties. I have been a part of this community for ten years. During this time, I have found that being here has positively impacted my well-being and given me the privilege to support others. In my free time, I enjoy attending church, spending time with my four dogs, listening to different genres of music, DYI crafts/projects, indulging in tacos, enjoying the outdoors in good weather, sleeping, and drawing. Twin Brian AnnaSilverberg Left-handed Pal BlueRivercares Listener Twins coolvibes, Kristynsmama, Teagan, Vivelespatates
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Thanhx4
L Expert 6 975
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I am not taking requests right now. Please see this link to find a listener who is available: https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/  Hi! My name is pronounced like John with a T. I graduated with a BS in biology and double minor in chemistry and psychology. I will be attending medical school starting July 2024! My hobbies include therapy work with my dog🐶, plants🌵🌸, tennis🎾, and weightlifting 🏋️. Currently, I work several positions at my local hospital. That does not make me qualified as an actual therapist but I would still love to lend a listening ear. (: PS: I will be direct and rational. I think it's important that we are both honest with ourselves and each other. If this is not what you are looking for, please see this link: https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/  I hope you find someone who fits your needs. 
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Tobias5
L Advanced 9 774
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Hey I'm newish (not anymore lol) to this site. I've got a lot of experience helping with substance abuse, self esteem issues and existential crisis. Emoticon superiority.
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Sibafo
L Paragon 5 1034
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🥀Hi!I am Siba 😜 .Welcome to my profile, I'll like to listen to you, I am a  Verified listener .My hobbies are reading and writing.💖 You can write to me about all that's spiritual,nightmares and hallucinations but also other topics.🤔 I look forward to hearing from you😏.
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Mahad2804
L Virtuoso 13 1025
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Heya visitor 👋👋👋 Welcome to my bio! I'm Mahad, 17, from Karachi but currently in Islamabad (click to see my time). I'm a listener here at 7 Cups (duh). Here are some of the things I'm doing/have done: *everything underlined is clickable* I offer Chat Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerChatroomsInformation_2144/ApplytobecomeaChatroomMentorTeenStarUpdated_274625/] to listeners during live chats I offer Peer Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/PeerSupport_397/ApplyToBecomeAPeerSupportInfo_298837/] to listeners after tough chats I'm an Academy Mentor Leader for the Leadership Development Program [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/Archived_2244/ArchivedLeadershipDevelopmentProgramUpdatesAnnouncement_230561] I [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/Archived_2244/ArchivedLeadershipDevelopmentProgramUpdatesAnnouncement_230561] help listeners grow and improve their listening skills as a Quality Mentor [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/MentorsandTeenStars_1964/AnnouncementQualityMentorCriteriaChange_222653/] I [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/Archived_2244/ArchivedLeadershipDevelopmentProgramUpdatesAnnouncement_230561] ensure listener quality as part of the Anonymous Evaluations Team [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SiteUpdates_100/EvelynesQualityGazebo_2101/ApplyfortheAnonymousEvaluationsTeam_230452/] I'm a guest [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/Archived_2244/ArchivedLeadershipDevelopmentProgramUpdatesAnnouncement_230561]Smile Spreader [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/InvitingTeamMembersforPeerAppreciationProgram_262624/] I'm a Project Agent for the Peer Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/PeerSupport_397/ApplyToBecomeAPeerSupportInfo_298837/] role I host fun events with the Listener Community Discussions Team [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerLearningDiscussions_1896/JoinListenerCommunityDiscussionsTeam_296388/] I help recruit forum supporters as part of the Subcommunities Outreach Team I graduated from the Leadership Development Program [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/Archived_2244/ArchivedLeadershipDevelopmentProgramUpdatesAnnouncement_230561] with honors Here are some of my past roles: Forum Supporter for TV & Movies Community [https://www.7cups.com/forum/tv/]  Forum Supporter on Need Replies Team [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSefNgW-Va7dyBx67M3d27INmkndnwm1C3Ywa7NJoFa2EscQkA/viewform] Chatroom Teen Star [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerChatroomsInformation_2144/ApplytobecomeaChatroomMentorTeenStarUpdated_274625/] Off of 7 Cups, I'm a high school student and a full-time older brother to 2 little ones. Other than cupsing, I spend most of my time either reading, watching a movie, or tinkering with code (I'm a software geek and love to see how many different ways I can crash my computer). In school, I'm an avid stage speaker, love to participate in every extra-curricular event, and spend as little time in the classroom as possible. ------------------------- I'm currently in a few different leadership roles so I've reduced my regular member chats. I still take chats when I have time but please understand if I don't accept your requests, I'm likely occupied elsewhere. My status can give you the most accurate depiction of my current availability. 🟢 means I'm open to taking chats RN (if you send me a personal request during this time but don't hear back within 2-3 mins, feel free to text me as sometimes personal request notifications can be missed) 🟠 means I'm online but I'm not taking chats RN (please refrain from sending me chat requests during this time because I will likely be unable to accept them. if you need to contact me for some other reason during this time, leave me a text and I'll try my best to respond as soon as I can) 🔴 means I'm offline and not able to respond RN (I can not take chats at this time or respond to messages immediately. feel free to leave me a message and I'll try to get back to you within 48 hours) Before sending me a personal request, please make sure to check my status and the list of topics I feel comfortable discussing. I'm sorry but if you need help with a topic that is not listed, you'll be better suited to go to another listener. I'm unable to help you with them for either lack of knowledge or just uncomfortability with the topic. ------------------------- * Some Wonderful Quotes That I Live By * "The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others." ~ Mahatma Gandhi "Help others achieve their dreams, and you will achieve yours." ~ Les Brown "The best support you can offer is a listening ear, a caring heart, and an open mind." ~ Unknown "Believe you can, and you're halfway there." ~ Theodore Roosevelt "The greatest gift you can give someone is your time because when you give your time, you are giving a portion of your life that you will never get back." ~ Unknown ------------------------- I have an amazing listener twinnie @wishfulWillow6962 [/@wishfulWillow6962] a so very supportive listener sis  [/]@cristlecares [/@cristlecares] Here are honorable mentions for some of the sooo lovely people whom I have so much fun with in TL: (if I missed your name, hit up my PMs) @TabbyCat97 [/@TabbyCat97] @Suryansh [/@Suryansh] @SparklingSeashells [/@SparklingSeashells] @Tobedoctor [/@Tobedoctor] @takitoteka [/@takitoteka] @VioletNotes [/@VioletNotes] @CaringEzra [/@CaringEzra] @ReganL [/@ReganL] If you've gotten this far, 🎉🎉🎉CONGRATS!!!🎉🎉🎉 You must be hungry, here are some snacks for you  🍰   🍩           🍔   🍕 🥞           🍔  🧁           🍰 🧁                🍪               🥞  🍔                                🍪 🍰                           🍩 🧁                       🍪 🍕               🥞  🍩        🧁  🍔 Thanks for stopping by!!!
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bluelotus99
L Epitome 19 20282
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GuiOakes
L Genius 4 3879
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
/// Please send me personal request or personal message while I am away, I will get back to you as soon as I can. \\\ Hi there, I am NS and I am a verified listener on 7cups since 2020, if you are feeling low, if you are in pain and you want to rant out and need someone to hear you out, you can talk to me.  This is a safe place, I don't judge, I don't give advice, whatever happens between us stays between us, you can let yourself out, and I'll listen to you. I personally have gone through many issues alone when I didn't want to because I didn't have anyone, I try to be a person who I could have relied on when I went through my dark episodes in life, and I want to help you in the same way by being someone whom you can rely upon with your deepest and darkest problems. I know how it feels when life seems to be going in a downward spiral, but I can reassure you that while things may not seem fine, they will be better in long term. Its hard going through the hurdles of life alone, when faced with tough times, you don't have to go through it alone, you can rely on me, on us. Being a listener, don't hesitate to approach me if you want to talk about any topic you'd like. We can talk about anything you are going through to anything you are passionate about. Everyone is welcomed here, even listeners who might be going through something they wanna rant or discuss about but make sure to use your member account for that. I prioritize comfort, boundaries and listening above everything, if you do have any topics or any boundaries you feel uncomfortable discussing, let me know. I'll make sure not to cross any of them.  A note to myself and others who might be going through their own problems: You are a human, a flawed one. You make mistakes like everyone does, you aren't different from others. We all are different, all our problems are different but no matter how small they seem in your eyes, they are valid nonetheless. Happiness and Suffering and two sides of same coin called life. There will be times so tough you want to give up, and there will be times where you cannot contain your happiness. No matter how tough life seems right now, don't give up. You are valid. Your problems are valid. Your experiences are valid. Don't let people who say otherwise, influence you into thinking you are worthless, because most of the times, its self projection. Talk to me, ill listen. Don't let your negative self influence you into thinking everything's worthless and there's no point in talking about it, at a cosmos level, nothing really matters. But right now, in the moment, you are living, you are experiencing, so it does matter, at least right now. Its going to be alright, even if it doesn't in the moment feels so, let talk and open up and try to make things alright. pfp by wooma from shama- Shama - Utattemita/Miyashita Yuu - YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xpuyx_Y_Hw0] PS- I like to give huge and tight hugs, ill give you too, as much as you want :p​
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