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How can you unlove someone?

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Last Updated: 06/10/2022 at 3:20pm
How can you unlove someone?
1 Tip to Feel Better
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energizingPower2878
May 15th, 2022 2:12pm
I direct my attention on something that matters more to me. In this case, school was extremely important and I slowly started losing contact with them. I eventually forgot about them and then we drifted apart. Although i cant say 100% my feelings have disappeared for them. I stopped caring about then more then I did before and that made all the difference. As i lost contact and slowly started focusing on school. I took in new hobbies that stemmed new motivation and soon enough, i forgot about them. To sum it up, 1) focus on something you really care about and pursue that. 2) lose contact with them. 3) find new things to do to distract you.
Anonymous
June 10th, 2022 3:20pm
Hey, hate to burst your bubble, but unloving someone isn't physically possible. That person will always hold a special place in your heart, but to be honest, you can't get rid of them that easily. Instead, embrace this statement: "I love them. They hold a special place in my heart, whether they know or not. I may not like it, but I care about them. Whether they like it or not, they are special to me, and that won't change." So, all in all, unloving someone isn't possible, but you can still care about them. Love doesn't go away that easily! Take care!