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Top Rated Answers
Anonymous
November 18th, 2015 10:46pm
Ask lots of questions and listen to responses. Find similar likes that way. Music, books, movies. :)
There's tonnes you can talk about. Music, family, sports, movies, reading. Find what you have in common and the conversation will flow!
Talk about things they like, Find things that they like to do and ask do so some of them with them, Just have fun, be yourself and you'll rule the world
Anonymous
November 19th, 2015 7:58pm
Take an interest in them and remember things they are saying to you, they'll feel amazing that you listened!
Anonymous
November 21st, 2015 10:50am
I suggest a game of 21 questions! always gets the conversation moving and helps you get to know the person better.
Hello
You may need to find out what topics interests him/her and what things you have in common that you can easily chat away about
Anonymous
November 22nd, 2015 6:32pm
Music and movies are great conversation starters! If you're both into the same types of movies and music then you can plan a movie date or even go to a concert together
Talk about your interest, get to know them on a friendly level. Joke with them, find out who they really are, and if it doesn't turn out, maybe it just wasn't meant to be.
You can talk about the things you like, the things you don't, sports, food, movies, tv series, and find some common interests, common likes :)
Anonymous
November 27th, 2015 3:03am
Talk about anything, this person should be your friend before anything else, so talk to them like you would talk to a friend.
Talk about his/her interests! Whether it's a hobby, favourite show or book. It's important to see if both of you share the same interests and to see if you're compatible. You might want to reconsider the crush if both of you are vastly different.
Common interests, friends, Alcohol, the next party? Avoid Politics through, even if it'd make you looks smart. It often serves for a bad rep.
You can talk about anything that you want to talk about and feel comfortable with. Shared interests or hobbies .
Anonymous
November 28th, 2015 9:40pm
Find out what common interests you have and try striking a conversation there! It's definitely a good way to start :)
Anonymous
December 2nd, 2015 2:53am
Talk about anything! Like what you guys like to do on your free time, what you did on that same day! Anything! Just keep it interesting!
Things you both have an interest in! What is important to him/her?..., common interests, goals, plans
Anonymous
December 3rd, 2015 10:09pm
You can talk about something you like, hobbies, interest, etc.! Or maybe something you two have in common. Don't forget to be yourself!
Anonymous
December 4th, 2015 2:35am
Just find something in common with the crush and start talking. Don't talk about the weather, please :)
Anonymous
December 4th, 2015 5:08pm
anything you feel comfortable talking about and don't be shy to express how u feel and how your day went .
You don't talk about "anything", you talk about "nothing". That's the point. I'm assuming crush means you haven't talked to the person yet, which means whatever comes out of your mouth doesn't matter as much as how you say it and with what intent.
i think you can talk about you hobbies and things that you like , you might have somethings i common .
This is a hard one. Find similar interests, maybe observe your crush before starting conversation. See what they like, for example, you notice your crush watching anime in a computer room so you could go and talk to them about anime. Or basketball. Whatever it is, find a common interest x
Anonymous
February 9th, 2016 4:55pm
You can talk about her dreams , both of your childhoods , your favorite places ., anything just try to avoid politics , sports
Just get to know that person. Ask about her, her family, her goals, etc. Talking to someone you are interested in is no different than talking to your friends.
Well, what do they enjoy? If they play sports, you could always ask them about their last game, or their favorite sports teams, or if you don't understand the sport they play, you could ask for them to explain it to you. If they like, maybe, music, you could ask if they've found any musicians that they like, or if they write songs of their own. That's always a great place to start! It might find you guys some common ground to create a conversation from.
Anonymous
June 20th, 2016 2:50am
Be open and honest and talk about anything that you are passionate about, as I have found that those are usually the easiest types of conversations to have. In my experience, showing that you're at ease and comfortable will help facilitate the conversation
Listen to what they say! Learn about their interests, maybe try some of them out for yourself! Imagine how badly they want someone to share their interests with. Imagine if you were that person, who knows, they might just want to know what interests you! :)
You can talk about anything with your crush, because if they are worth your time, they will listen to you and accept you! Don't worry about falsifying your character, that will not be useful!
You can talk about anything that makes you and your crush happy.If you dont know what triggers that happiness,then you have to find it first :)
It's usually easier to ask things such as their taste in music, movies, foods, etc. That will help you form a basis to form a relationship (romantic or not) with this person.
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