If life hands you lemons - Make lemonade... or lemon sorbet. Maybe even learn to juggle? And if you have more lemons than you know what to do with, sell them! It's not what happens to you, but what you do about the situation. Always look for ways to use it to your advantage.
I am not here to be the 'best listener', there are plenty of other people on here who are much better suited at entertainining you and feeding your ego. If you are not here to be entertainined and would like to challenge your thinking, so that you can make a real and lasting difference in your life, I will help you do that. Don't expect me to be like some approval-seeking, social media attention-seeking Fabio, who's intention is to perfect their listener profile like their eyebrows, and compete for posted comments.
Let's just focus and make things happen with the best outcome.