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ANaturalBae
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Relationship Stress / by ANaturalBae
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 September 18th, 2021
...See more Hello I recently joined because I am in a 4 year relationship that has gotten abusive. It blows my mind to say that I am the abuser. I have no history of hitting my exes so I don’t know why I do this to him. Today I did it again during an argument and I feel horrible. He is 38 and I am 25 but I can’t say that it’s the reason why I hit him. I never wanted to be an abuser and I know I wouldn’t be okay if he did the things that I’ve done to him. Once it happens he shuts me out completely and today was the first time that he’s admitted that he feels as if he is in an abusive relationship. His words broke me to the core because I really love him a lot but I also love him enough to walk away so he doesn’t have to experience this anymore and that I can get into anger management classes. If anyone can give me advice that would be amazing. I have no one to talk to about this. Thanks for reading.
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