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AccidentalTentacles0
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Number of ratings8 Number of reviews7 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceNov 20, 2022 Last activein last week PathStep 35 People helped15 Chats56 Group support chats32 Listener group chats10 Forum posts20 Forum upvotes32
Bio

"Reaching out to embrace the random, Reaching out to embrace whatever may come" Lateralus, Tool


*When my status is red (offline) I am not accepting direct chat requests, but you are welcome to leave offline messages. If my status is green (available) then I am available to chat!* I will try to respond to offline messages within 48 hours. Please read my bio before reaching out to me.


I am a 40-something scientist from the UK with a love for animals and music. People here tend to call me acci or tent and I hope you'll find that I try to approach things in a compassionate but logical way.

I hope I can help you find your way to a better and calmer day.

I am here with an open mind to listen to whatever is going on for people, particularly those struggling with different flavours of anxiety, panic and stress, and related impacts on wellbeing like difficulty sleeping.

I have personally experienced depression, anxiety disorders (social, health and generalised), workplace bullying and stress, panic attacks and an eating disorder, but am now thankfully in a place where I can use that experience to help others.

Please note I am not the right person to support anyone who wants to talk about eating disordered behaviours, self-harm or sexual health problems, so please select a different listener for those topics.

As a heads up, usually I can dedicate around 40 mins per chat to listen (if live) but will say this at the start of the chat and notify when that time is nearly up to avoid any unexpected or abrupt chat endings :)

You might find me (or my member alter ego) hanging out in member group support rooms, lending an ear when I do not have enough time or focus to dedicate to 1-1 chats, so I might meet you there some time!



Feedback & Reviews
Chatting with acci helps me so much. I oftentimes need ages (well, weeks actually) to answer but he still always writes back very thoughtful, caring and supportive.
Very patient. I like them a lot.
Thoughtful and supportive through my needs for a listener. Very grateful to have found and connected with them.
It was my first conversation here in 7 cups and I truly appreciate talking and connecting with you. I appreciate you.
really parient and understanding
Very attentive. Allowed me to vent and was the wall I was looking to bounce my thoughts off of.
Supportive and thoughtful. I was very anxious and needed an ear and was met with compassion.
Badges & Awards
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