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Aflower
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Number of ratings39 Number of reviews12 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, French, German, Portuguese Listener sinceOct 20, 2014 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 119 People helped49 Chats111 Forum posts15 Forum upvotes19
Bio
Hello! I have an open ear for every kind of problem and I'll do my best to help you. I've overcome some difficult phases in life, so I do know how it feels like to be alone in a situation where you actually would like to be helped. I am the person you can turn to in that situation.
If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat.
If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect.
Glad you are here and I'm here for any problem! Don't be shy :)
Recent forum posts
I am proud of who I am.
Positivity & Gratitude / by Aflower
Last post
 November 10th, 2014
...See more So, yes, I am proud for being ME, that's a huge accomplishement for me. I have never really accepted myself, because I was bullied at primary school for not being pretty, nor thin as the other girls, and I cried really fastly, which didn't make the whole situation better. I thought it was my fault for being bullied, that I was to blame. I had very low self-esteem, and would rather be alone then be with the few friends I still had... However during secondary school, I've learned that there is so much more to life, and that I am perfect as I am and that I shouldn't change, only because I don't fit in the "social norms". I am happy to be the way I am, I am special, like everybody else. There still are some days where I look at the mirror and think that I am not beautiful. However, then I think to myself, what is actually the definition of being beautiful? Is there actually one? And I don't think there is, it has lots of varieties. Mine is: Beauty comes from the inside What's your definition of beauty?  
Thanks Google...
Newbie Hub / by Aflower
Last post
 November 30th, 2014
...See more Hey, I was having a really bad day, and I needed to talk to someone... Didn't want to talk with family or friends about it, so I started googling for a site where people can chat anonymously with another person. So the 7Cups site came up, and I fell in love it, because people are interested in you and reply quite fast. Furthermore, they are trained, so know how to help you. The conversation I had made me feel so much better afterwards, and that was the moment I decided that I also want to bright up other people's lifes. So that's why I became also a listener, and I don't regret it at all!
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Feedback & Reviews
she is a really very good listener who understands others and is very very helpful! i would recommend her to everyone! she is very nice!
Amazing listener thanks a bunch :)
Fantastic listener, actually listened and understood me. I wish more could be like this. Definitely know where to go if I need to talk again thank you
Aflower was really sweet. They used anecdotes to put me more at ease and to remind me that I wasn't the only one feeling horrible. They were patient and kind and I really appreciated the conversation.
Aflower was lovely to talk to, let me blab on for ages but also responded when I needed some outside views. They provided me with ideas and overall was able to calm me down and keep me company for a while :) Thanks Aflower!
Stuck with me for a long time to talk through my problems, I really appreciated the help and it made me feel much better :)
Aflower is AWESOME. I was having a really hard time with a girl and she stayed up and chatted with me, felt like I was talking with a close friend. Very nice. I continue to chat and she's always asking me how things are going. Awesome awesome awesome lady :) Thanks Aflower!!!
Very helpful and I positive
amazing :) someone who s truly wonderful to get help from
Amazing! She was so sweet and kind. She helped me so much. Just such a wonderful listener. Really great!
Very kind and gentle......benefited a lot!
This is very kind human with good brain:)
Categories
Depression
Managing Emotions
Bullying
Self-Harm
Breakups
Family Stress
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Badges & Awards
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Jester of Smiles Clerk of Bear Hugs Depression Eating Disorders Managing Emotions Cultural Diversity Verified Listener Graduate Refresher 11-2-14 Affirmative Reflection Chat & Text Listening Ace Active Listening Loyal Friend Tick Tock Fellow Friend Five Steps Hang 10
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