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Ahlex |
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Please read (at least first paragraph) before messaging me.
Welcome, I'm glad you're here! 

Topics I DON'T take: career & financial stress, politics, religion, spirituality, cheating, polygamy, labels (sexuality and gender), chronic pain, disability issues. I am also happy with casual conversations or to keep you company! 
Or if you want some funny/cute YouTube videos.

My chat style: I'm very patient, down to earth, I try my best to understand everything and prefer a friendlier approach than most listeners, but am mostly practical and logical. I don't give fake validation or tell you what you want to hear. I never disappear mid chat and reply as fast as possible. I am also quite talkative, so you can feel free to ask me anything!

I'm a very direct and don't like to beat around the bush, so please keep that in mind if you are very sensitive. I prefer a tough love approach to life. And don't be afraid to message me anytime even offline, I am very open and friendly!

About meMy name is Alexis but you can call me Lex or Alex! I'm not a female. I'm 22, study medicine and worked part time as a nurse. I'm very extroverted and active with a lot of hobbies and obligations! I train gymnastics, play the violin, design clothes, paint, run workshops and I'm a big fan of horror movies and have a lot of pets. I love to travel and learn new things, meet new people. I've been through a lot in the past so I have quite the experience with many issues and people. I'm happily married to my husband and am a proud parent.

Things I have experience in: relationships/people, depression, alcohol and drug addiction, apathy, violence, managing emotions, narcissism, guilt, kinks, incest (consensual), night terrors, parenting, anger issues.

Things I
DON'T have experience in: break ups, anxiety, lack of motivation, dwelling on things, LGBT issues, being sensitive, financial issues, strict parents, seeking validation/approval.

I am fine with sexual, taboo and embarrassing issues as well, and won't judge you. But please don't make any advances towards me, ask me for my social media or demand a solution from me. I'm just a regular student doing their best, and not a licesened therapist.
Thank you for reading, and I hope I can be of some help! 

What's your gender really?

- I get asked this so much. I'm male biologically but I just look and live as a woman. I didn't take any hormones and I'm happy this way.
What's your sexuality?

- I don't have one. I've only felt something for one person my whole life. Anyone else never interested me or will. And I don't see the point of labels.
Why don't you take chats related to studies and career?

- It's not something I'm really interested in or that knowledgeable. So it wouldn't be a good time for either of us.
When can I message you?

- You can message me whenever, and I'll respond when I can. But if you'd like a chat please ask me if I'm available first.
Why don't you tell me what to do/give advice?

- I'm not a professional therapist, I'm not the expert on you or your situation and it is against the site rules. So please don't demand answers or solutions from me.
Can I ask you personal questions?

- Yes you can, as long as you don't ask me information that could be traced back to me or reveal my full identity. Especially not social media.

Number of Ratings: 636
Number of Reviews: 477
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, Dutch, German, Japanese, Russian
Listener Since Feb 14, 2015
Last Active in last week
Gender Male
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Feedback & Reviews
First listener that hasn't tried to only focus on the bad. Cant wait to talk to him more!!
Totally awsomly wonderful.
nice very nice
nice very nice
@Ahlex is very empathetic, understanding and compassionate.
She's very kind
A great listener!!
a nice person to talk to
Thank you for doing this
She’s really engaging in the conversation and it didn’t feel like a therapy session or anything just someone to talk to and to listen
open conversationalist! thanks for listening.
Nice listener to share things with!
Listening and asking questions
They listened when I needed it, they deserve five stars.
She is very attentive and a great listener.
quite a very good listener.
Thanks for the answers
Great listener, insightful questions!
Honest, friendly, nice
Good listener really responds to your problem and responsive also
Good listener. She's digging up the issue so well.
she leads a good conversation
Understands well
Understanding and kind
They listen very well and understood me nicely. a great person
Very understanding and knows how to validate someone’s feelings
They were a great listener and were very helpful in talking to me about what was bothering me.
I liked it. It was helpful.
Very good listener
thanks the for help
She is good listener
Good , kind person
a good persontryin to help
Very helpful with my situation
lovely & listened to my problems!
Kind and Helpful.
Very smart and very good perspective to help me!
Absolutely great help me get another perspective on my issue
She's patient, kind and honest. I feel refreshed from speaking to her!
loved it! awesome chat!
Helpful and knowledgeable. Thank you!
Good listener and good person.
Listened patiently and was very understanding.
Nice person to talk to
Lovely listener
Kind, patient and helpfull
Amazing acctually under stands me
Really Helped me.
very nice, best listener
Great listener. Willing to help.
just very understanding and calm
Very friendly and helpful person, really appreciate the time taken to help and chat
Understanding, non judgemental, and understands where I'm coming from
amazing, fast replier and really helped out
she’s really amazing
Love her............
amazing listener, you will love her
Thanks for the father talk, I really appreciate your listening. Great responding time, and over all, a very comfortable chat. I came into the chat depressed and confused, I feel you helped me, getting more clear. And for that, thanks. 10/10 :)
Very patient and a good listener
बहुत अच्छा श्रोता Aylexix एक अद्भुत मानव है। वास्तव में चौकस और दयालु वास्तविक और बहुत उपयोगी है। आपको सुनता है और आप के साथ एक अद्भुत अनुभव साझा करने के लिए आभारी और आपके विचारों को समझने और उनसे संबंधित होने के लिए तैयार है।
Alex is such a sweetheart ❤️
Very good person to speak to
A keen person and was kind . I felt relaxed.
Patiently listened to me. She's great!
She is really good listener
It went okay nd amazing
Good listener and open to hearing al you have to say
Very understanding and open.
Is very understanding. Good listener
She's responsive and replies attentively. Great listener!
Kind and professional
nice listener. thank you for the support.
Great listener. They were awesome.
She listened to every single word even if i was telling her the some facts over and over again. She made me feel comfortable
She's such a sweetheart!
She's really supportive and an excellent listener. I felt good speaking to her.
Feeling connected and fast response. She looks like good person. Thank you for listening to me
They were very kind and helpful
I like how Alexis listens first and then provides support. It's logical and empathetic.
Loved her she's awesome
This listener was GREAT. It was my first time using the site as a member. She was kind and reassured me about the situation I told her about. Highly recommend!
Kind listener. Asked questions and chatted. Thank you
Thanks, I think he is very interested
Good listener. Cares about people. Replying fast. Thanks for the support!
So sweet and calm. 💗
I loved it!, awesome listener!
Good listener and patient
Alex is so caring and made me feel safe and hopeful towards the issues I've been dealing with. Thank you so so much!
Veryvery insightful understanding
Good listening 👌,, fast messaging
Such an amazing listener, was there to help me and I feel so much better after. Highly recommended!
kind honest and straight to the point
they are a very kind and caring person
Really good listener, helped us in a very difficult situation..... My girlfriend and I are thankful.
nice and really helpful
Very kind and patient.
Very good listener!
Excellent listener, very compassionate.
Took the time to talk
Great listener :)
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