Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav

Ahlex |
Listener - Pinnacle 14

Listener Rating
5.0 star rating
Please read at least first paragraph before messaging me!
Welcome, I'm glad you're here! 

Topics I DON'T take: career & financial stress, politics, religion, spirituality, cheating, polygamy, labels (sexuality and gender), chronic pain, disability issues. I am also happy with casual conversations or to keep you company! 
Or if you want some funny/cute YouTube videos.

Things I have experience in: relationships/people, depression, alcohol and drug addiction, apathy, violence, managing emotions, narcissism, guilt, kinks, incest (consensual), night terrors, parenting, anger issues.

Things I
DON'T have experience in: break ups, dating, anxiety, lack of motivation, dwelling on things, LGBT issues, being sensitive, financial issues, strict parents, seeking validation/approval, insecurities.

My chat style: I'm very patient, down to earth, I try my best to understand everything and prefer a friendlier instead of a robotic approach, but am mostly practical and logical. I don't give fake validation or tell you what you want to hear. I never disappear mid chat and reply as fast as possible. I am also quite talkative, so you can feel free to ask me anything!

I'm very direct and don't like to beat around the bush, so please keep that in mind if you are very sensitive. I prefer a tough love approach to life, if you get triggered easily then I'm not the listener for you. And don't be afraid to message me anytime even offline, I am very open and friendly!

About meMy name is Alexis but you can call me Lex or Alex! I'm not a female. I'm 23, a student. I'm very extroverted and active with a lot of hobbies and obligations! I train gymnastics, play the violin, design clothes, paint, run workshops and I'm a big fan of horror movies and have a lot of pets. I love to travel and learn new things, meet new people. I've been through a lot in the past so I have quite the experience with many issues and people. I'm happily married to my husband and am a proud parent.

I am fine with sexual, taboo and embarrassing issues as well, and won't judge you. But please don't make any advances towards me, ask me for my social media or demand a solution from me. I'm just a regular student doing their best, and not a licesened therapist.
Thank you for reading, and I hope I can be of some help! 

What's your gender really?
- I get asked this so much. I'm male biologically but I just look like a woman. I didn't take any hormones and I'm happy this way.
What's your pronouns?
- It makes no difference to me, I do not care about such things.

What's your sexuality?
- I don't have one. I've only felt something for one person my whole life. Anyone else never interested me or will. And I don't see the point of labels.
Why don't you take chats related to studies and career?
- It's not something I'm really interested in or that knowledgeable. So it wouldn't be a good time for either of us.
When can I message you?
- You can message me whenever, and I'll respond when I can. But if you'd like a chat please ask me if I'm available first.
Why don't you tell me what to do/give advice?
- I'm not a professional therapist, I'm not the expert on you or your situation and it is against the site rules. So please don't demand answers or solutions from me.
Can I ask you personal questions?
- Yes you can, as long as you don't ask me information that could be traced back to me or reveal my full identity. Especially not social media.

Number of Ratings: 717
Number of Reviews: 526
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, Dutch, German, Japanese, Russian
Listener Since Feb 14, 2015
Last Active in last week
Gender Male
Progress Path Step 3,760
Cheers 550,624
People Helped 2,739
Chats 10,312
Group Support Chats 97
Listener Group Chats 296
Forum Posts 229
Forum Upvotes 444
Feedback & Reviews
Understanding listener. He has a heart of gold and really put things in perspective for me in a lifechanging way.
Great to chat too!!
Thank you much alex
A very good listener who gives the most sensible idea to the issue I'm sharing.
amazing listener
Ahlex is a great listener
She is a wonderful listener
So super! Really nice
Thanks for listening to me on such a stressful day, it meant so much to me
So amazing and caring! Goes in depth with revaluing the situation and trying to understand where you’re coming from
She is good and sweet person
Good and wise. Understanding and supportive.
You're a great listener and you're very helpful with validation and venting. I appreciate your help.
Good listener with inspiring life philosophy
Listened to me patiently and was very understanding and open-minded. Glad I found you. Thank you for listening to me! :) You were very helpful.
Great to chat to and awesome listener
An honest conversation and a good support. Thank you very much for your time and energy.
Perfect listener
Great points on their opinion and get listener
Did take the time to listen and to understand.
Cooperative and non jusgemental
amazing listener
A good listener and a friend
Great listener. Very helpful
Amazing listener. Felt ease after talking
chill , laidback and told me what I needed to hear, thoroughly enjoyed the convo, is a patient listener
Amazing job! :)
Very good listener, she is very patient and listen to you and give good answers for your situation. I’m happy to have met her.
Took the tome to listen and discuss
I really recommend Alex as a listener! Our conversation flowed well and by the end of it I was feeling much better. 5/5! totally awesome
I really enjoyed the chat and felt comfortable sharing my thoughts
She is a great listener, always respectful and caring. I’m so happy to have talk to her here.
She's really good at listening. Thanks
Incredibly attentive and patient listener. Ability to be non-judgmental and guide you. Thank you for your time and wonderful insight!
Great listener :)
Ahlex takes the time to listen to all the gritty details of your issue, and really thinks of caring responses that help and drive the conversation forward.
Very kind and very helpful listener, thank you!
Gives honest opinions
Listens and cares! Very nice person!
Helped me a lot of what options do I have to take. Good listener :)
Alex is an empathic, non judgemental listener, he actively listens and replies with helpful messages. He is also a gentle soul and a kind person.
Laid back and cool
Very brilliant person, wise and understanding.
amazing listener
Great listener. I'm grateful for the chat.
Loved the way she was direct about everything I said without sugar coating any ideas she had... She has been through a lot herself and had a really inspiring story to tell... I am glad I had this conversation
Thank you for listening. Helped me alot.
Seems very thoughtful. Thank you for taking time out for your day to listen to my ramblings... peace
Even though it was just a casual chat, Ahlex is a great person for that
First listener that hasn't tried to only focus on the bad. Cant wait to talk to him more!!
Totally awsomly wonderful.
nice very nice
nice very nice
@Ahlex is very empathetic, understanding and compassionate.
She's very kind
A great listener!!
a nice person to talk to
Thank you for doing this
She’s really engaging in the conversation and it didn’t feel like a therapy session or anything just someone to talk to and to listen
open conversationalist! thanks for listening.
Nice listener to share things with!
Listening and asking questions
They listened when I needed it, they deserve five stars.
She is very attentive and a great listener.
quite a very good listener.
Thanks for the answers
Great listener, insightful questions!
Honest, friendly, nice
Good listener really responds to your problem and responsive also
Good listener. She's digging up the issue so well.
she leads a good conversation
Understands well
Understanding and kind
They listen very well and understood me nicely. a great person
Very understanding and knows how to validate someone’s feelings
They were a great listener and were very helpful in talking to me about what was bothering me.
I liked it. It was helpful.
Very good listener
thanks the for help
She is good listener
Good , kind person
a good persontryin to help
Very helpful with my situation
lovely & listened to my problems!
Kind and Helpful.
Very smart and very good perspective to help me!
Absolutely great help me get another perspective on my issue
She's patient, kind and honest. I feel refreshed from speaking to her!
loved it! awesome chat!
Helpful and knowledgeable. Thank you!
Good listener and good person.
Listened patiently and was very understanding.
Nice person to talk to
Lovely listener
Kind, patient and helpfull
Amazing acctually under stands me
Really Helped me.
very nice, best listener
Great listener. Willing to help.
just very understanding and calm
Badges & Awards
Listening Ear Long Ears Magnet Heart Healer Sage PenPal Jester of Smiles Clerk of Bear Hugs Piper of Dedication Baron of Big-Hearts Knight of Smilehood Ellen Jump Start Anxiety Depression Eating Disorders Managing Emotions Panic Attacks Surviving Breakups Traumatic Experiences Crisis Intervention Listener Oath Peer Support Work Related Stress Self Harm Sexual Abuse Alcohol & Drug Abuse Family Support Cultural Diversity Verified Listener Bullying Chronic Pain Family Stress Sleeping Well Graduate Love Bug Refresher Light Chat Tiny Chat Small Chat Chit Chat Big Chat Voice Talker Ray of Hope Trust Fall College Guide Loneliness Guide Exercise Motivation ACT Therapy Affirmative Reflection Chat & Text Listening Ace Active Listening Listen on the Go Startup Support Schizophrenia ADHD Social Anxiety Boundaries Forgiveness Grief Managing Bipolar Managing Finances Getting Unstuck Above & Beyond 7Cups Guide 12 Steps Community 101 Icebreaker Champion Sparkler Loyal Friend Tick Tock Fellow Friend NAMI Listener Mod Siren Steadfast Soul I Steadfast Soul II Steadfast Soul III Meet & Greet Proudly Proactive I Proudly Proactive II Proudly Proactive III Proudly Proactive IV Proudly Proactive V Reconnection Hero I Reconnection Hero II First Community First Chat First Post Five Steps High 5 Hang 10 Open Door Safety Patrol Thankful Heart Gratitude Abound Appreciated Hope Training Accountability Familiar Face Kindness Challenge Peer Pro Peer Training 01 Peer Training 02 Peer Training 03 Peer Training 04 Peer Training 05 Peer Training 06 Peer Training 07 Peer Training 08 Peer Training 09 Peer Training 10 Peer Training 11 Peer Training 12 New Mom Support Continuing Education