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Alexis0927
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PathStep 11 Compassion hearts9 Forum posts4 Forum upvotes1 Current upvotes1 Age GroupAdult Last activeDecember, 2019 Member sinceOctober 27, 2019
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New potential relationship
Relationship Stress / by Alexis0927
Last post
 December 11th, 2019
...See more So I met this guy on an online dating site, and have been talking to him nonstop, texting, phone calls, and FaceTime for the last month or so. And plan on meeting in person soon.I have really started to like him. He had mentioned before that he has never been into social media so I didnt think to even look. Well I got curious the other night and decided to search him on Facebook...found a profile that completely shocked me. The profile I found was clearly him however with 2 children and another woman. And the relationship status said engaged.So I of course mentioned it to him. He told me that the profile was in fact him and that it is a shared account with him and his Ex who he shares 2 kids and a home with. And that they have been split up for a few months and currently only their parents know about it. But planned on waiting until after the holidays to tell the kids and the rest of family. Also said that he felt like that was something that he wanted to wait to see if it was gonna work out first and he wanted to tell me in person and was waiting until we meet in person. (In a few days) I guess Im just having a hard time believing him, I just get the feeling that hes not out of the relationship at all and is wanting to use me...to cheat or as a way out. He has assured me that that isnt the case however I just dont want to mess up a family. Ya know? I mean we havent met In Person yet and are not dating but he talks as if he wants something more. I have been cheated on and left in the past and I just cant imagine causing that kind of pain to not only her but his children as well. Am I just being crazy? Lol Opinions greatly appreciated.
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Anxiety at work
Anxiety Support / by Alexis0927
Last post
 October 28th, 2019
...See more So I work for a company where you start off at the call center and then you can eventually move to somewhere else in the company. Well we had a class on interview prepping so we can get prepared if we decide to move somewhere else in the company. During the class we had to do mock interviews (in front of everyone) and when it came to my turn I had what I call an episode (I completely freak out, my mind races, and become unable to say anything and then start crying) Since this was at work and in front of a hand full of my co workers And my Boss!, I tried my best to fight back tears. Just acted like I just didnt want to/couldnt think of an answer to the question. I am feeling really embarrassed and disappointed in myself about what happened and letting the anxiety get the better of me. Usually I would just run away from the situation and Avoid it for a while but since this happened at work Im having a hard time letting it go. I just keep replaying the whole thing over and over in my head. And can just imagine what everyone must have been thinking seeing me like that.
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