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Allen39 |
Listener - Intermediate 5

Listener Rating
5.0 star rating

Hi, I'm Allen!

I like playing piano and listening to VOCALOID music. I'd like to talk to anyone who needs help, but unfortunately, I'm having quite the busy life. If I don't respond immediately, please don't be offended! I'm probably just out reading or enjoying the sunshine.

I am part of a system, which is to say I am a headmate. The host and original is also the main fronter. We have undiagnosed DID. I am here for anyone in a system or anyone who hears voices in their head. I can relate to you, I love you, and I want you to be safe.

I'm also panromantic. I will not state my birth sex or whether I am cis or trans here, but I will support everyone regardless of gender or sexuality.

Things I'm good for:

>If you'd like to talk about nothing in particular or anything random.

>If you're feeling lonely.

>If you need a friend.

>If you're in a system.

>If nobody else will listen.

>If you are questioning your sexuality/gender and need some help or validation.

Please don't feel hesitant or nervous to talk to me! I'll talk to you no matter what's going on.

Even if you think nobody wants you, no matter who you are, I do. And I hope you know that.

Number of Ratings: 38
Number of Reviews: 12
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Apr 29, 2015
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Male
Progress Path Step 406
Cheers 18,493
People Helped 71
Chats 270
Group Support Chats 50
Listener Group Chats 2
Forum Posts 63
Forum Upvotes 66
Growth Path Timeline
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Feedback & Reviews
Just totally awesome glad you helped me within 10 minutes !
Great to talk to. Gives helpful advice and is respectful of your preferences.
Was very understanding.
Very kind and made me very happy :D
Changed my life
A really good friend
Super helpful, really good attitude toward everything, easy to talk to
very helpful :)
You're so sweet, thank you!
Really helpful, and was quick to respond.
Amazing, putting it lightly, really cares and tries to help, doesnt take long to respond and listens really well
Badges & Awards
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Questions Answered
Is it normal to feel as though you are not in control of your own body? Like someone else is in the control room and you're on autopilot?
February 22nd, 2016 6:46am
Why do these people even try to be friends with me?
April 29th, 2015 7:24am
How do I calm down after a panic attack or flashback in class without anyone noticing?
May 4th, 2015 7:24am
How can I stop worrying about school so much?
May 4th, 2015 5:52am
Why can't I just stop worrying?
May 4th, 2015 5:48am
What is the best way to get over the pain caused by close family such as a mom who is "repulsed" at the fact that her son/daughter is gay, but sends her love despite this "shortcoming"?
May 17th, 2015 8:54pm
How can I meet other LGBTQ people in a small and conservative town?
May 4th, 2015 7:26am
How can I connect to other LGBTQ+ people in private?
May 4th, 2015 7:31am
How do I help my family understand that this is not choice for me?
May 4th, 2015 7:17am
What can I say to people that tell me that my sexuality can be "cured" or fixed?
May 4th, 2015 7:22am
How can I be comfortable with my sexuality while living in a conservative town?
May 4th, 2015 7:15am
How can you handle when friends aren't accepting of you being LGBTQ?
May 4th, 2015 7:19am
How can I tell my same-sex friends that I am gay/lesbian/bi without them thinking I like them?
May 4th, 2015 7:20am
If everyone around you (family, friends, etc.) is hostile towards LGBTQ people, how should you come out? Should you come out at all?
May 4th, 2015 7:29am
Why am I attracted to people of the same gender?
February 22nd, 2016 6:46am
I'm most definitely in women and I think I'm a lesbian, however, sex doesn't interest me in the slightest. What's wrong with me?
May 4th, 2015 7:27am
Will my family accept me ? If not, what do I do ?
May 5th, 2015 5:29am
Why does everyone hate me just because of my sexuality?
May 4th, 2015 5:52am
How do I relax with all the stress revolving around me?
May 1st, 2015 4:19pm
Why am I in this relationship if I feel alone?
April 29th, 2015 7:24am
After an unhealthy relationship ends, how do you remember what healthy ones are meant to even be like?
May 4th, 2015 5:50am
What is the best way to get over someone that you never dated?
May 4th, 2015 5:50am