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Andbar
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Buying stuff and hiding
Relationship Stress / by Andbar
Last post
 September 9th, 2020
...See more Been having lately some problems with my girlfriend.... we are together for 3 years. And one thing it happen a couple of times was me hiding stuff from her. my problem is very simple, I like video games, I don't have a massive collection nor I spend hours and hours. But I like to buy games. and I buy more than actually play. The thing is once I spoke with her about helping me no to buy any games helping me to improve my finances.... but for two times I bought behind her back and she caught me lying in her face about that..... we have money together, but I always spend my own money. But I have this urge to buy and then I keep hiding from her.... and I don't understand why. i know it sounds a small problem compare to most people.... but it hurts me that I'm doing this to her.... and I do without any time think about the consequences. we had another fight a few days ago, I'm trying to find some help, or people that had the same addiction to try to understand why I'm doing this. been helping talking with strangers.
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