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AuntieLili |
Listener - Scholar 3

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Hello! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I am 45. I have experience with loss, illness, heartbreak, eating disorders, grief, depression, and rising from the the ashes again and again. I offer you my empathetic ear.  Recently I have discovered that I have suffered from codependency most of my life (aka pathological caregiver), which has also been at the root of why I continually chose narcissistic and codependent friends and partners.  I am enjoying Peeling the Onion.   I am familiar with the benefits of the 12 Step programs.      

Healing happens in a spiral.  We never go backwards, though it may feel so.  


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Number of Ratings: 95
Number of Reviews: 35
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Sep 22, 2014
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 92
Cheers 44,355
People Helped 124
Chats 847
Group Support Chats 0
Listener Group Chats 0
Forum Posts 1
Forum Upvotes 1
Categories
Depression
Managing Emotions
Bullying
Eating Disorders
Panic Attacks
Anxiety
Parenting
Self-Harm
Sleeping Well
Breakups
Family Stress
Chronic Pain
Financial Stress
Exercise Motivation
Domestic Violence
Forgiveness
Grief
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
Getting Unstuck
Loneliness
Student Life
Relationship Stress
Growth Path Timeline
  • Exercise completed!
    Member Welcome Program
    Completed step number is 91, on August 18th, 2017
  • Exercise completed!
    Emotional Wellness Test
    Completed step number is 88, on September 30th, 2016
  • Exercise completed!
    Emotional Wellness Test
    Completed step number is 87, on November 13th, 2015
  • Exercise completed!
    Emotional Wellness Test
    Completed step number is 86, on November 5th, 2015
  • Exercise completed!
    Emotional Wellness Test
    Completed step number is 85, on November 4th, 2015
  • Exercise completed!
    Emotional Wellness Test
    Completed step number is 83, on November 4th, 2015
  • Exercise completed!
    Emotional Wellness Test
    Completed step number is 82, on October 30th, 2015
  • Exercise completed!
    Emotional Wellness Test
    Completed step number is 81, on October 29th, 2015
  • Exercise completed!
    Emotional Wellness Test
    Completed step number is 80, on October 29th, 2015

Feedback & Reviews
very helpful and hopeful, made me feel a lot better
Very supportive and a great listener, and overall was very kind and helpful.
Thank you for listening and helping me you are the best of the best and help a person realize things can go better.
Beautiful person to speak with a great listener... will speak to her again in the future
Amazing listener!!!! She helped me with all of my problems. One of the most empathetic and understanding people I have ever chatted with. Just an overall great person!!!! :)
It was just wonderful. I feel like I resonated the most with this person.
I spoke to AntieLili for a good hour or two, they were so helpful and kind. I really felt listened to and feeling a bit more positive and clear headed about my situation.
Thank you so much for talking to me for hours. I needed someone so so desperately and was at a point of crisis, and now I can get some sleep tonight in peace because I feel much better than I did. Thank you so much for helping me. This loving chatroom has literally been a lifesaver for me.
Very compassionate and kind person. Helped me with many questions I had and her personal experience was a blessing to my problem. Fluent in the language and very knowledgeable.
Excellent and truly wonderful. Gives very good and insightful opinions. Open and honest and very caring
Truly amazing, Willing to help and support.
Thank you!!!!
Helpful insight
very useful and insightful info. Very personable too.. Would recommend her!
Patient, kind and understanding. Her questions gently cut to the core of what I was trying to answer for myself and really helped me see things from a new angle. Thanks AuntieLili
Very insightful questions and a patient, kind, understanding demeanor
best
There aren't enough stars to give this Listener!!!!
My listener was excellent!!!!
AuntieAli made me feel better after she listened to what I had to say.
AuntieAli is a great listener!
She made earnest efforts to understand my problem. My mind is clear after talking to her. I cannot thank her enough for genuinely making me feel better.
very understanding person
She listened to my problem and everything I had to say. She asked questions before giving advice and I considered it sound and appropriate. Thank you AuntieAli for your time.
good
She was like a mirror to me.. I felt so comfortable sharing my experience and feel alot better right now
Really great listener, the best one I've had yet! Really caring, very detailed, and a huge heart. Thanks so much for being there for me.
She was right on my wavelength and did really well with putting herself in my shoes since we've had similar experiences. Keep up the good work! Looking forward to speaking to you soon.
So helpful and kind.
Amazing listener. Kind and honest without sugarcoating. She really helped me to set some positive goals and focus on what I want in my life. Thank you!
She is a really sweet and compassionate lady.
She rocks
Awesome lady
Simply the best :)
An amazing listener. So gracious and caring!
She helped in my situation and made me undestand better my feelings and sensations
Badges & Awards
Listening Ear Long Ears PenPal Jester of Smiles Clerk of Bear Hugs Piper of Dedication Ellen Anxiety Eating Disorders Surviving Breakups Crisis Intervention Alcohol & Drug Abuse Family Support Cultural Diversity Bullying Psychological First Aid Sleeping Well Love Bug Refresher College Guide Loneliness Guide Exercise Motivation ACT Therapy Affirmative Reflection Chat & Text Listening Ace Active Listening Perinatal Schizophrenia Boundaries Managing Finances Loyal Friend Tick Tock Fellow Friend Five Steps Hang 10
Questions Answered
I've been depressed my entire life, what is it like to not be depressed?
October 30th, 2015 9:46pm When you see yourself as down as you are, why do I seem to fail to do anything to make myself feel better? like a consciously make the choice not to
August 19th, 2015 12:00am Who can i go to for relationship advice?
October 30th, 2015 9:39pm I need help. Can I find this on 7 Cups of Tea?
August 19th, 2015 12:01am Why do I feel so depressed at night?
August 19th, 2015 12:27am How can I volunteer and talk to elderly?
August 19th, 2015 5:20am Who can I talk to about my problems online?
November 22nd, 2015 5:38am How do I stop myself from falling in love?
October 28th, 2015 5:31am Is it normal to have more than one eating disorder?
August 18th, 2015 11:27pm Can anxiety cause me to feel depressed?
August 16th, 2015 4:28am Why can't I talk easily in front of my class?
October 27th, 2016 2:50am How can I stop thinking and shut my brain off?
September 9th, 2015 11:53pm Why do I have trouble sleeping during a full moon?
September 10th, 2015 5:05am Why do I have trouble sleeping while pregnant?
August 20th, 2015 1:48am Why do I have trouble sleeping before my period?
November 22nd, 2015 5:41am Why do I have trouble sleeping every night?
September 9th, 2015 11:51pm Why do I wake up at 4am?
August 28th, 2015 6:32am What can I talk about with my boyfriend?
August 19th, 2015 12:31am What can I talk about with my boyfriend on the phone?
August 19th, 2015 1:22am