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AuntieLili |
Listener - Scholar 3

Listener Rating
5.0 star rating

Hello! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I am 50. I have experience with loss, illness, heartbreak, eating disorders, grief, depression, and rising from the the ashes again and again. I offer you my empathetic ear.  Recently I have discovered that I have suffered from codependency most of my life (aka pathological caregiver), which has also been at the root of why I continually chose narcissistic and codependent friends and partners.  I am enjoying Peeling the Onion.   I am familiar with the benefits of the 12 Step programs.      

Healing happens in a spiral.  We never go backwards, though it may feel so.  

( Please know that I keep all conversations on 7cups. )

Number of Ratings: 95
Number of Reviews: 35
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Sep 22, 2014
Last Active in last 6 months
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 92
Cheers 44,355
People Helped 124
Chats 847
Group Support Chats 0
Listener Group Chats 0
Forum Posts 1
Forum Upvotes 1
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Feedback & Reviews
very helpful and hopeful, made me feel a lot better
Very supportive and a great listener, and overall was very kind and helpful.
Thank you for listening and helping me you are the best of the best and help a person realize things can go better.
Beautiful person to speak with a great listener... will speak to her again in the future
Amazing listener!!!! She helped me with all of my problems. One of the most empathetic and understanding people I have ever chatted with. Just an overall great person!!!! :)
It was just wonderful. I feel like I resonated the most with this person.
I spoke to AntieLili for a good hour or two, they were so helpful and kind. I really felt listened to and feeling a bit more positive and clear headed about my situation.
Thank you so much for talking to me for hours. I needed someone so so desperately and was at a point of crisis, and now I can get some sleep tonight in peace because I feel much better than I did. Thank you so much for helping me. This loving chatroom has literally been a lifesaver for me.
Very compassionate and kind person. Helped me with many questions I had and her personal experience was a blessing to my problem. Fluent in the language and very knowledgeable.
Excellent and truly wonderful. Gives very good and insightful opinions. Open and honest and very caring
Truly amazing, Willing to help and support.
Thank you!!!!
Helpful insight
very useful and insightful info. Very personable too.. Would recommend her!
Patient, kind and understanding. Her questions gently cut to the core of what I was trying to answer for myself and really helped me see things from a new angle. Thanks AuntieLili
Very insightful questions and a patient, kind, understanding demeanor
There aren't enough stars to give this Listener!!!!
My listener was excellent!!!!
AuntieAli made me feel better after she listened to what I had to say.
AuntieAli is a great listener!
She made earnest efforts to understand my problem. My mind is clear after talking to her. I cannot thank her enough for genuinely making me feel better.
very understanding person
She listened to my problem and everything I had to say. She asked questions before giving advice and I considered it sound and appropriate. Thank you AuntieAli for your time.
She was like a mirror to me.. I felt so comfortable sharing my experience and feel alot better right now
Really great listener, the best one I've had yet! Really caring, very detailed, and a huge heart. Thanks so much for being there for me.
She was right on my wavelength and did really well with putting herself in my shoes since we've had similar experiences. Keep up the good work! Looking forward to speaking to you soon.
So helpful and kind.
Amazing listener. Kind and honest without sugarcoating. She really helped me to set some positive goals and focus on what I want in my life. Thank you!
She is a really sweet and compassionate lady.
She rocks
Awesome lady
Simply the best :)
An amazing listener. So gracious and caring!
She helped in my situation and made me undestand better my feelings and sensations
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