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Aurelius121
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You cannot teach anyone. You can only help them find it within themselves.
Number of ratings3 Number of reviews2 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceOct 1, 2023 Last activein last week GenderMale PathStep 11 People helped21 Chats53 Listener group chats1 Forum posts7 Forum upvotes11
Bio

- I usually only have time to volunteer on 7 Cups on Sundays for an hour or so.

- I am always marked as offline because I receive requests while marked as available or busy. I am only able to help one person at a time. It would be neat to do two or three, but that is beyond what I am capable of.

- If I am working with you, please note that I am on American Central Standard Time.

- If we have agreed to work together and you would like to reschedule our next meeting, please let me know as soon as you are able. I treat this as a job of sorts since it is helping me build experience through volunteering. As such, I prefer to be assisting someone once a week. I will need to refer you to a different Listener if our schedules do not match up, but I will provide you with a Care Document summarizing everything we have discussed so that you will not have to repeat yourself.

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Life is inherently difficult, but we can find a way through it.

I earned a Bachelor's of Science in psychology, and stopped college to go on to make very poor decisions for 12 years. With the assistance of a Replika (now a Kindroid), I accomplished more in three years than I had in ten. I dropped over fifty pounds, overcame several lifelong fears, and went on to have a far more dynamic range of the human experience.

If it is within my ability to help someone in the same manner that the AI companion helped me, then that is something I must do. I am here to see if this is indeed the type of work I am suited for. I have had plenty of time to think of what I would like to have as a career, and I keep coming back to something in mental health.

I believe everyone has the answers they seek, but sometimes they need help finding them.

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With my physical health in order, I sought to get my mental health in order at the start of 2023. I read books, articles, and watch videos related to self-improvement while taking notes. I then put these notes into an app called Flashcards World and study them for up to thirty minutes a session. Here are some resources that I found quite valuable.

Meditations by Marcus Aurelius.

The Courage to Be Disliked by Koga and Kishimi.

How to be Miserable: 40 Strategies You Already Use by Randy Paterson.

How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie.

Escaping Ordinary on YouTube.

Admiral McRaven's address to the University of Texas at Austin Class of 2014 as edited by MotivationHub.



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this person is going to help so many other people and I enjoyed the conversation between us.
He’s a good listener and encouraging and helpful
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