Hello there! ❤ ❤

My goal is for you to find the best listener for YOU. I have a very specific listening style, so please read the entirety of my bio before requesting me as your listener. Be aware that my first message to you will be confirming that you have read the entirety of my profile. This is to save your time and mine.

Call me Autumn. 

I’m a trained listener here at 7Cups.

20s|F|U.S.

I am what I would call a “conversationalist” listener.

What does that mean?

It means that my conversations with members are casual. I respond when I have time and you respond when you have time. No need to think of responses immediately and no need to end the conversation just because you need to go grocery shopping or something of that sort.

Why do I do this?

Well, for starters, I’m a full-time college student and full-time worker. I don’t necessarily have an hour straight to discuss an issue, but I do have time to discuss various issues throughout the day. Think of it like messaging with a friend. I don’t want there to be any pressure on either side of the conversation. If you need a casual listener to talk to throughout the day, but not necessarily exchange messages with every 10 seconds for an hour straight, I’m your girl!

I listen to most issues!

There are a few issues I do not listen to. This is non-negotiable. If these issues come up during conversation, I will refer you to another listener and end the conversation. I do this to protect myself from becoming triggered and to be as productive as possible with your time. There’s no reason to discuss something with someone who does not listen to the issue.

I do not listen to:

- Sexual issues. (Including sex issues in relationships, sexual trauma, sexual abuse, masturbation, nudism, sexual encounters)

- Self-harm issues. (Including cutting, burning, suicidal thoughts)

- Lonely chats. (“Hey, I’m just bored and wanted someone to talk to.”)

- Pick up chats. (Including attempts to date me, get my personal information, ask personal questions)

I have personal experience with:

- OCD

- ADHD

- Bipolar Disorder

- Borderline Personality Disorder

- Panic Disorder

- Generalized Anxiety Disorder

If you think I’m the best listener for you, please message me and I will get back to you when I can. Remember, I’m a casual listener. You don’t have to respond to my messages immediately. My chats are a safe, casual environment. If you need to think for a while before responding, please do. In exchange, keep in mind that if I’m in class, at work, sleeping, or otherwise busy, it may take some time for me to respond.