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BlueMel
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How to get feedback?
Reading & Writing / by BlueMel
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 September 24th, 2024
...See more I am trying to create a comic but I'm doing it alone, how do you get feedback? I'm not a very social person so I dont have many people that will listen to me ramble about it. And often it's very surface level feedback I receive. I have a lot of ideas but it would be useful to see how other people interpret it. Thoughts? Thanks!
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Surprise sexism in hetero relationships
Women's Issues / by BlueMel
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 September 17th, 2024
...See more I'm wondering how other women deal with male partners when they say surprising sexist things in long term relationships. For context I thought the guy I was dating had very similar ideals about feminism to me, very pro choice, prosexuality, etc. But I've noticed he will say stuff that just feel so outdated. Example being yesterday while complaining about a coworker he called her a tramp. When I brought how it bothered me he agreed he wouldnt use words like that around me but still gave reasons why he thought it was an appropriate word to use in the moment. Though we found some compromise the interaction left a bad taste in my mouth. Have any of you dealt with things like this? How did you handle it?
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