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BlueStarlightS
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Number of ratings11 Number of reviews8 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Portuguese Listener sinceMay 23, 2022 Last activein last week GenderFemale PathStep 14 People helped26 Chats65 Forum posts8 Forum upvotes17
Bio

"Being focused on the process means much more than the success itself."

About me: My name is Star, I'm 18 and I've recently started my psychology major! I have Cerebral Palsy and I've struggled with depression and anxiety for the majority of my life, but I'm still here, and ready to help. It's my main goal to be able to use my experiences in a positive way, and I hope I can do that for you!

Even if I'm more capable in offering support related to my own experiences, I'm still a versatile listener and I can help you in the way that you prefer.

If you wanna talk, feel free to request me!

(I do not accept chats with sexual or suicidal matters, if you need more immediate help, reach out to someone close to you or a therapist so they can help you properly.)

Let me explain to you how I work!

If I am: 

  • Online: You can make a request and i'll be avaliable to chat with you imediately!
  • Busy: I'm currently chatting with another member, so i might not be able to accept your request
  • Offline: I'm not avaliable in the moment but you can message me and we can schedule a time to talk!

I'll inform you the amount of time that we have to chat at the start of our conversation :) 

Hoping to help you in the best way possible!  

~Star



Recent forum posts
Challenge for (perfectionist) artists!
Arts & Crafts / by BlueStarlightS
Last post
March 6th, 2023
...See more I'm too much of a perfectionist. I used to make either eight hours artwork once in a month, with every single thing perfect (the feeling lasted 5min until I found a mistake), or nothing! So I decided to draw small, 30-45 minutes a day, a random reference, whenever I can. Turns out that allowing myself imperfections and less time gave me cool artwork! I don't know how to show images here, so I uploaded some of my artworks so far. If you want to cure art burnout or try something new, I've been absolutely loving it, and it helps me to stay in touch with my art :) Also, anyone have suggestions of anything I could draw next? https://ibb.co/GV66JzR https://ibb.co/sg3CRpm https://ibb.co/GsC5LZQ
What I would like my past self to know about anxiety :)
Anxiety Support / by BlueStarlightS
Last post
August 4th, 2022
...See more I believe that the thing that I lacked more when battling along (not against, along) with anxiety, was acceptance. Three or four years ago, accepting something meant the same as being conformed with something. So I denied my anxiety and I had on my mind that I had to destroy it. Well, turns out it wasn't the best approach for me. Things really started to get better when I accepted that I had anxiety, and that there'll be days where I'll be anxious. And I don't have to fear them, because they're not a monster, they're a struggle, they're part of my growth. Working along with anxiety always puts me back on track. Not doing everything to prepare. But simply stopping and let this feelings come, go to the root of them, and then try to work them out. Writing is an amazing coping skill for me, as an overthinker, but meditation helps also. Work along with yourself, your feelings and your goals, instead of fighting this battle alone. The 7Cups community is always here to help. And i hope i was also helpful with this post :) Thank you
My introduction!
Disability Support / by BlueStarlightS
Last post
August 3rd, 2022
...See more Hello! I'm Star and I'm a listener here on 7Cups! I have cerebral palsy and i hope I can help people with a similar condition as mine, or other types of disabilities by providing support. I have the desire to become a psychologist and make a small difference in the world. Reach out to me if you wanna talk, and it's a pleasure to be part of this community :)
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