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BoundlessLift
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Too Many Losses
Grief & Loss / by BoundlessLift
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 November 7th, 2025
...See more Last week a very close friend died by his own hand. It feels like death of people close to me just keeps happening. Last year my mum died from leukaemia, the year before that my partner's dad was murdered, the year before that I had breast cancer and though that was the worst thing that would happen... I'm feeling so much guilt, even though after the last two deaths I also felt guilty, I thought I would be used to the mourning process by now, but something about this kind of death specifically feels so much more preventable. I think over my last conversations with him just ashamed I didn't say more, or do more, or play this game with him when he asked, or cancel other plans. I'm ashamed I didn't see it. I've been keeping myself busy always with trying to help others, with activism, volunteering, making things for people, making art, gardening... But the world just keeps throwing bad things around. I'm grateful for my cats. They don't worry about the world, they just want pats and cuddles, and food. Simple things and kindness. I find they are the most calming thing to focus on.
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