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Emotional,Verbal,Mental Abuse? Or just a normal stage in the relationship?
Trauma Support / by BrittKatt96
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 May 16th, 2016
...See more My boyfriend and I of three years (our anniversary was this past Friday) is still having some issues. He's very rude a lot to me and I need to figure out how we can resolve some issues.He says he doesn't mean the attitude he gives me but I don't know.He does the same thing to his grandparents and they say he's always been this way and that he loves me dearly but I just don't understand . He's done this after two years of dating .First year was real good obviously but then it started changing .He would make joke concerning personal issues in terms of body wise even though he's joking and it's not true it still hurts cause he thought to make a joke like that out of the blue for no reason.He hardly watches what comes from his mouth which is bad .I feel as though I'm the sensible one in the relationship.Then when I cry about it the way he tries to "fix" it never works then he starts getting smart with me .Wondering why I cry so much. How can someone be so oblivious? Then he belittled me and when I'm in the same room he talks rudely about me to his grandparents saying I'm being a nut when i'm talking calmly as can be to him about it with tears in my eyes . He just acts so nonchalant about it and he even got on his phone while I was talking :( he says he loves me dearly but why does he act this way. He has ADHD but I'm sure that shouldn't be used as an excuse right ?? He says he is changing but that's hard to believe . There so much more to say but won't fit in this message thread.
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