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Listener - Connoisseur 11

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4.5 star rating

* Kindly be fair and tell me if you are not satisfied with my listening skill so I can improve/fix it. I will appreciate it if you tell me directly rather than have my account reported and being suspended. It makes me feel less motivated. Thank you *

Hello! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I'm a trained active listener and I like to support people struggling with low self-esteem, social life, work, christianity, family and anything you like to talk or share about. English and Indonesian are my 2nd language and I am trying my best to talk in both. Anything related to Sex Issue please search other listeners as I am not comfortable talking about it. I enjoy singing and play sports like basketball and watching movies such as Unbroken, Les Miserables, Soul Surfer and many more mostly about real life story. I've overcome a lot in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat but I only took one guest per chat and will take another when I am finished. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Glad you are here and be blessed!

~Each of us has our own unique plans. We're all cracked pots. In this world, nothing goes to waste. You may think like the cracked pot that you are inefficient or useless in certain areas of your life, but somehow these plans can turn out to be a blessing in disguise.

~Most of us do set ourselves up for failure, those who recognize this problem gave the correct answer.

~In order to fail, you must give yourself permission to fail.
I took Bachelor Degree with Industrial and Organisational Psychology. As at December 2020, I have finished my study and graduated in 2022.
I have done pilot study in workers role conflict (Work interfere family & Family Interfere work). Wishing to continue my study in Master in Counseling or Psychology. Still Considering. Well be proud of who you are and do what you like in life cause you only live once! Don't forget to be yourself, cause nobody are like YOU!

Number of Ratings: 134
Number of Reviews: 31
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, Indonesian, Malay
Listener Since Sep 30, 2014
Last Active in last 6 months
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 635
Cheers 73,968
People Helped 425
Chats 1,106
Group Support Chats 6
Listener Group Chats 19
Forum Posts 71
Forum Upvotes 45
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Feedback & Reviews
very responsive
Very nice listener, thanks a lot.
Great listener by far on 7 cups I have met
She listened to my problem and suggested info to help
ByYourSide is a nickname that fits her beautifully, as I truly felt she was by my side when I shared what I was going through. It was a rich exchange of life experiences: the good, bad and ugly ones.
very kind listener
she really helped me decide and come to a solution with my issues.
Thank you for helping me feel better when I was feeling worst. An awesome listener. Loved the chat.
this listener is very understanding and will provide practical and emotional advice, it's more on the practical and logical side.
she's kind
a very nice and kind listener. highly recommended!
Is a super great listener, is sweet, understanding, will make you feel wanted, and really help,❤
very nice and kind!!

Great listener , she's really helpful and feels like talking to a good fr
smartperson who born to help others
Good talking to you.
Wonderful, sweet person.
ByYourSide was quite nice to spend time with.
Amazing listener thank you!
A very friendly and attentive listener.
She was very nice and helped a lot! I was struggling with the impulse to self harm, and she had effectively distracted me. She seems very supportive, and she answered me fairly quickly.
Thank you for your help. You helped me to keep calm while I was afraid and prayed with me when I asked, you helped me so much tonight.
Thanks a lot for listening! :-)
ByYourSide appears to be a well trained active listener, and she is very courteous
Very understanding, listens, and provides great advice. Said some very very useful things I've never thought about. Made me smile. :)
Very wonderful I would recommend her to everyone. She is one of the top listeners in my option. Very kind and empathetic. Thank you for helping me deal with being alone. :-) jimmy. ...
Very sweet and kind.
She is an angel
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