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CadeD
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I'm all used up.
35 & Over Community / by CadeD
Last post
 February 15th, 2022
...See more Been in a 20 yr++ relationship with a single mother. Did everything a Dad would do and more. 5 years in, I forgave her immediately after she had an affair for a year (which I knew about). From then on I kinda knew she was not all there. I did not give up because I'm a hopeless romantic. About 10 years in, another affair. I was devastated. Again , I wanted to work things out. She was getting out of hand. Take sides if you want but I did not do anything to deserve this again. This time she got dumped by the guy and guess who had to comfort her? Me..the. twice. victim. She wants to leave with the majority of our retirement savings and ditch her son whose already a respectable working man. It gets worse but I'm not going to continue. I'm hitting 50 and I'm presently dealing with this alone. I have no friends. Only her son to comfort me when it gets really bad. This is probably more of a rant and warning to anyone whom it may concerns. I'm a broken man both physically and mentally. The only thing keeping me sane is most likely because I've been an optimist all my life. This however has drained me of all that. Living one day at a time now. Cheers!
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