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CalmingStar |
Listener - Master 11

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Hello there. I'm Star!  
If you're new here, don't be afraid. You can message me. I will always try my best to assist you. I'm a verified listener here, and I've been on 7Cups for over three years. I hope that I can help alleviate your pain, and you'll feel at least a bit better after our chat. We can also have a casual conversation if you want. Sometimes when we feel lonely, a simple chat can do a world of wonders. :)
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My life hasn't been fantastic. I've experienced myself or been a first-hand witness to many different things in this world — many topics I can relate to and understand. You'll never be judged when talking to me. We all come from different walks of life and cultures. Everyone is dealt a hand when they begin this life. You can't help the cards you get. Some people get better hands, and some get worse hands. But you can only do the best with what you do have. I feel like that is the meaning of real success. <3

Usually, I have my status on offline/busy even if I may be online. Feel free to message me, and I'll get back to you when I can. Hopefully between 1-2 hours if I'm not sleeping or something like that. Hehe. <3

My Roles  
Quality Mentor- Here to help you with your listening journey. If I'm currently accepting mentees, you can come to talk to me about trying to improve. I'd love to help you out. <3 We can do mock chats and practices to help you out. I'll always be your cheerleader! Hehe!

Peer Support- Everyone gets a rough chat every once in a while. Any listener may feel free to contact me to talk and reflect after having one. I shall try my best to assist you and motivate you in your goals. I'm also a sort of Wikipedia for information. First, always try to get information from a mentor, but I can always try to answer whatever questions you may have.
Group Moderator- I am a community centered mod for the Relationship Support, Student Support, and Teen Zone Support Communities. I always try to keep these rooms a safe and positive environment for everyone. I also try to make them welcoming for anyone who wants to participate. I would never abuse my moderator powers, but I understand if you dislike mods for that reason. <3

Support Session Leader- Currently I hold discussions for the Relationship and Student Communities:
Student Session- Every Friday from 5 pm to 6 pm EST in the Student Support Room (On Break)
Relationship Session- Every Saturday from 9 am to 10 am EST & Every Wednesday from 2 pm ET to 3 pm ET in the Relationship Support Room

Verified Listener Team Member- I am a verified listener in the community. I can conduct mock chats to test you to become a verified listener too! Feel free to message me if you're interested, and I'll help you out. :)
Forum Supporter- I'm currently a supporter for the forums in the Relationship Support Community. Weekly, I post check-in threads to see how everyone is doing for Tuesdays. I also try to incite discussions and thoughts while even replying to posts that don't have replies yet. I'll try my best to support you in the community. :)
Whenever you don't feel like there's nothing left to learn to remember "The purpose of learning is growth, and our minds, unlike our bodies, can continue growing as we continue to live."
Number of Ratings: 181
Number of Reviews: 68
Listens to Teens & Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Jul 13, 2015
Last Active in last 6 months
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 290
Cheers 84,635
People Helped 259
Chats 970
Group Support Chats 222
Listener Group Chats 57
Forum Posts 379
Forum Upvotes 597
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Feedback & Reviews
Good at understanding how I feel and what I’m saying
Amazing. Best chat so far. Helped a lot.
You really know your stuff. Thanks.
You helped me with jealousy, stress, friendship, and meal choices all in one conversation. You mystify me how you do it. Thanks. :)
This was an amazing experience. This listener is supportive and kind and understanding. They will donate their time to make you feel heard.
Loving how she helps me its good to know I have someone to listen to me as its a longterm help I require :)
She helped me through feeling lonely. I don't think I would have made it without her support so far.
She's a great listener, she asks the right questions to really get how you feel and help you with your situation. If you need a listener CalmingStar is the one you want & need!!!
They really helped me accept myself and began a journey of self love. I highly recommend them. If you are lgbtq+, talk to them.
I appreciate you more than you realize. You helped me through my problems. Even rough ones with my partner. I hope you have a wonderful life. You deserve it and much more.
Your advice really helped, I will start using them soon!
it is great. nice talk
Helpful, Professional, Empathetic, Kind, funny, conversational and all around helpful and amazing x thank you so much
The best!
Is a wonderful listener, asks questions and tries to help you out. Could talk with for hours at a time
Really good helped me a lot and good ppl like star are helping others and keep doing what there doing cause it works
It was great
Great help me lot
A very nice soul
A very very great listener, I can’t put in words how calming it feels like to talk to them. I really haven’t seen such a lovely listener in a long time and am so thankful that I found them. Bless them!
She made me feel welcomed and is very humble.
CalmingStar is a great listener!
Very good at calming down my nerves. They're relaxing.
Wise, smart, and kind. :D
Sweet and compassionate. I don't know what else to say. Star is fantastic! :)
Star really understands mental disorders.
they made me feel safe again. i feel like everything's going to be okay, and that i have someone in my corner.
Everytime I talk to Star again, I feel more at peace. Thanks a lot. :)
Smart and informative. Star was also very caring as well. Definitely come to Star if you have questions about school.
Thanks for everything. I hope you have a beautiful life.
Im not sure what to say. It was extremely helpful
Very informative. Star is very wise. Five Stars! ☆
You are a very good listener and have very good advice. You are kin and thoughtful and can give good advice because you have had the same problems before. I rate you a 10/10, hands down!
You are a great listener!
Very knowledgeable.
They really understood. I feltt like I was talking to an actual human.
Star just gets relationships. They're nice and kind too!
Relationship healer. 10/10
Their support is immeasurable.
Very nice. Very professional.
Thanks! You were informative and supportive. Really professional. 😊
Star is a master of relationships.
They made me feel happy in the dark. Their were my calming star.
Star was there for me when no one else was. I can't thank you enough.
Really polite and kind.
Very helpful
Whoever you are, you are kind, and deserve a good life.
They really helped me and were there when I needed them. Never judged me. Made me feel a lot better
"CalmingStar", definitely helped me and eased my nerves quickly and knew exactly how to talk to me and understood everything i was trying to say. Also was very nice and calming, very helpful!! Responded fairly quick as well, which was nice. (:
Thanks. You're so nice.
CalmingStar was gentle and nice to me. They made me feel important. I felt like I was talking to a close friend.
Star is fabulous!
Star knows how to make you feel okay, and how to bring a smile to your face. They're always in my corner even when the world isn't.
Wonderful and kind, offered a new perspective on my problems. Thank you!
He was fabulous and caring. I'm definitely coming back to him if I need a listening ear.
Star was so nice to me. I absolutely loved how fast she responded, and cared about me. She used a few words that meant so much. I cannot thank her enough!
Super supportive and makes me feel welcomed. She's always positive and wants to get to know me. That helps a lot because, when it's to time to explain a problem you don't feel as afraid, She makes you feel comfortable. Not only is there to help, but she's also fun to have a regular conversation with.
really kind
very kind
This guy is really helpful and if you need someone to talk to he's the guy to go too. He really helped me and i know he'll help you too. :)
A very kind and thoughtful listener
Understanding and encouraging
Ur Great Person Thanks
CalmingStar was very helpful, reassuring, and patient. And thanks to proud CANADIAN for referring me to them.
Very nice!!
Thanks For everything :)
This listener was so helpful and I felt so comfortable talking with them. They were so relatable and helpful, and I really appreciated the time they took to talk with me and how quickly they responded.
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