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CastaDivaRadhe
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Number of ratings274 Number of reviews77 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceFeb 18, 2018 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderMale PathStep 250 People helped484 Chats2,544 Group support chats7 Listener group chats12 Forum posts33 Forum upvotes71
Bio

Hello everyone! I am here for you and happy to help! Please read my bio before reaching out to me. "Hard to see the light now. Just don't let it go. Thing's will turn out right now. We can make them so. Someone is on your side. No one is alone."

***Please follow the link below to get more information about my listening requirments. I am happy to speak to anyone and everyone. But those that follow the instructions contained in the link will have my TOP PRIORITY in terms of response time and attention*** To follow the link, you may have to copy and paste it. It should bring you to a post on the general entries forum part of 7cups.

https://www.7cups.com/forum/GetSupport_28/GeneralEntries_39/AdditionalInformationAboutMyselfasaListener_120101/

Please read at least all the way to the bottom of my intro paragraph before reaching out to me.

I am a very active and engaged listener. I have a background of education in both mental and physical health. I am not a licensed therapist or doctor. Currently I am taking a break from school. However for a number of years I was pursuing a degree in psychiatric nurse practitioning. I plan to go back and finish this degree within the next year. I have greater than average knowledge pertaining to areas of psychology, pharmacology, anatomy, as well as general physical health. I am not qualified to diagnose, or provide a treatment plan for any illnesses that you may suffer from. However, I try to apply my knowledge and background in my work as a listener. I have a certain affinity for helping those who are suffering form neurological disorders such as schizophrenia, Bi Polar Disorder and similar mental health issues. I also have a strong focus on personality disorders as well. Particularly those that fall into the Cluster B personality types. I do not mind discussing any problems or situations that you may be going through. However I try to limit myself to only dicussing relationship problems that center around the LGBT community or those that are having problems due mental health issues and/or absue. I try to make myself available to those who feel most in need of speaking with me. I am a very serious listener and take a practical approach when speaking to everyone. With this being said, I do not mind talking to anyone about any problem. But please understand that I may refer you to another listener if I feel that there is someone who needs a greater amount of attention at the moment. I can have casual conversations as well and do not mind them. But if something more pressing arises, I like to give my full attention to that. My hobbies include listening to opera and classical music, cooking, reading (mostly academic or non-fiction literature except for classics) musical theater, and playing card games. If you would like to know more, please feel free to message me and ask. I will always try to make time for any type of conversations. I just ask that you bear with me, if I feel the need to refer you to another listener. For any indiviudals who are dealing with dark personality features, or are interested in knowing about my own personal mental health diagnosis. Please read to the bottom of my Bio. As with all other listeners on 7cups, any discussions that we may have will always be completely confidential. I will never reveal anything about what we have discussed, and I will never judge or shame you for anything that you say to me. I am here to offer support and assistance where I can. I believe that the only way I can do so effectively is to have the trust and confidence of those members I speak to.

All members are very important to me. In order to be able to devote more time to all of you properly. I try to limit my active chats to no more than five at a time. If you see that I am available, but for some reason I am not answering your personal request please consider the following:

1. I am happy to speak to any and all of you, please come back and try again with me.

2. If it is something that you feel to be very urgent. Please try sending me another personal request. I will attempt to answer it if at all possible.

3. If you are not a new member to me. Please be considerate of other members time as well. I promise that I will get back to you as soon as possible.

4. I try always to respond promptly and appropriately to all current chats. If for some reason my responses become slow. Most likely there is another member that I am speaking with who I feel needs more special attention at the moment. Such as a crisis or issue that I am trying to address in the appropriate ways. Please bear with me, I will respond as quickly as I can.

 

Empathy Deficient Individuals, and Dark Personalities Please Read Below

You are always welcome to reach out to any and all listeners here on 7cups. All that I have associated with have attempted to speak from a place of what I believe to their best understanding. However if you are looking for someone who will understand from a more personal perspective. You are always welcome to reach out to me in particular. I am a clinically diagnosed Antisocial Personality. Outside of my college educational background, I have studied these features and personalities in particular with a passion. If there are any harmful, manipulative, or destructive impulses/fantasies you are dealing with. You will in no way scandalize or shock me by what you disclose. This goes as well for any individuals who feel they are struggling with some issue that most people would find alarming. I am happy to speak openly and candidly in an appropriate way surrounding your issues. As well as happy to share my prespective and insights. 

Recent forum posts
Quick Healthy Choices Checklist
Healthy Living / by CastaDivaRadhe
Last post
April 17th, 2018
...See more Hello all, I wanted to post this short list of questions we can ask ourselves before making a decision, to better know if the choice we are about to make is a healthful one. This brief list is one that was given to me a few years back by a professor. I have changed and added to it a little. However, many lists like this exist on numerous resource sites. Finding the one that fits and works well for you is what is most important. But I hope you will take this one into consideration, or if you have never heard of one of these lists. That it will assist you in making better decisions for yourself, should you feel the need to use it. Ten Questions To Ask Ourselves When Making Healthy Decisions 1. Does this decision involve any action that could harm me, or another person in any way? 2. Is this decision one that I can be proud of once made? 3. Does this decision involve any associating with, or engaging in any activities that I know to have harmful side-effects or negative consequences? 4. Have I carefully considered all possible consequences of this decision, and do I feel comfortable in the knowledge that I currently have surrounding it? 5. Have I discussed this decision with any other people in my life that it may involve or impact in a serious way? 6. Is this decision I am about to make one that may have possible legal implications? 7. Have I sought the counsel of any professionals that may have insight/advice to offer on this decision? I.E. Medical Doctor/Physician, Mental Health Professional, Pharmacisit, etc... 8. Could this deicision I am about to make, cause harm to any relationships that I have in my life, particularly romantic or serious relationships? 9. Is this decision one that I feel I am making in the best state of mind, and after giving it a proper amount of consideration? 10. Why am I questioning if this decision may or may not be the right one to make? I know these all seem like simple, common sense questions that we all probably ask ourselves already. However sometimes it can be very beneficial to have a physical list as a reminder for us. Most especially when confronted with difficult, big, or life altering decisions. We can get so caught in worry of the "what if's" that we forget to consider a few of these things. If we give ourselves 5 minutes to read over and consider each of these questions, we may not be assured that our decision will ALWAYS be the healthies, best, or "right" one to make. But we can reassure ourselves that we did our best to ensure that it was.
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