Hi! 

I’m Conner, a verified 6+ year veteran listener here on 7Cups! Safe to say, I think you'll be in good hands!

I have 29 years of life under my belt and after the unfortunate end of a 7 year relationship with a young lady with a lot of trauma in her past I’ve about seen it all. I also sadly know what it's like to be cheated on. To help you better, please try and read as much of this as you can :) Help me help you! 

I'd say that relationship and breakup support is probably my best specialty, along with college life. Dating, Jesus, pregnancy (including loss), sexual assaults, college life, and breakups are all things I'm happy to talk with you about!

Please keep those in mind when personally requesting me; anything outside of those specialties I can try and help with but you may find better results with a different listener. I'm sadly not a psychologist nor psychiatrist, and won't be able to help much with any severe mental health-related issues. 

Per 7Cups rules “I am obligated to make a crisis referral for active suicidal thoughts and behaviors.”

Interpret that as you will. More than happy to chat about life and hopefully get you feeling better. I'd hate for a beautiful person like you to choose a permanent option to a temporary problem! We have great resources here to help with that kinda stuff.

I am religious, so if you'd like to talk about Jesus feel free to reach out; if not let me know too. 

I’m active fairly often both on PC and mobile so feel free to reach out!

If I'm online, feel free to chat. That means things are slow. 

If I'm busy, that can mean one of 2 things:

1st: I am literally busy and likely multitasking between 7Cups and my daily life.

2nd: I hit my request cap-I'll usually take about 5 requests then flip from Online to Busy so I can give them the attention they need. Feel free to message me anyway and I'll see if I can fit you into my workload 

Expect 5-10 minute delays in replies. I'm likely literally busy, or with other members.

If I'm offline, I'm either asleep, or just offline in general. 

->BUT, fear not :) Send me a message and if I'm not too busy I'm more than happy to talk with you

Other important things to know:

-This is NOT a fetish chat. We can talk about intimacy-related issues, but it can't and won't go any further.

-7Cups system is the one that asks you for a review of me so soon; not me. I'm not being greedy! Reviews greatly help though and I appreciate the kind words 

-"Hearting" my comments helps me know when I'm helping you; feel free to use the button 

-I'm on Arizona Standard time. 

-Good English and grammar preferred too please... it makes it much easier for me to help you :P

-Feel free to check out my song of the day  I post a new one each day I'm online! 

Oh and Go Cougs!