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Derekfan7695
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Number of ratings295 Number of reviews223 Listens toTeens & Over 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceApr 9, 2020 Last activein last week GenderFemale PathStep 754 People helped1,029 Chats2,856 Group support chats15 Listener group chats18 Forum posts369 Forum upvotes286
Bio
 I am a kind and compassionate person who is willing to listen. My goal in life is to help as many people as possible and "Pay It Foward."
Recent forum posts
Need an adult teen listener ??
General Support / by Derekfan7695
Last post
November 10th, 2022
...See more I am a very open and honest person who has a lot of experience working with teenagers..
Should I end my relationship with my longtime ?
Relationship Stress / by Derekfan7695
Last post
March 3rd
...See more I have known my friend for over 29 years. She has been there through thick and thin. We have always kept in touch by email, phone, or text. A few years my friend stopped responding to any forms of communication. I tried for a period of time, then stopped and took her contact info out of my phone. Approximately a year later I was driving down a very busy road in a city.. when all I receive a text message from a number that I did not recognize. The message said “ I have received all of your messages and I am very proud of you.” I pulled over and called the back. It was from my friend. The call went to voicemail. When I finally got to speak to three months later, she said her husband had passed away. I told her not do this again. I tried reaching out to her children on FB, I did not get a response. I thought she had passed away. Over the last few years she has been “hot and cold” with me. She says “She said she sees my texts and emails, but does not respond return the messages.” My friend told she would do that né again, however she didI am very confused and conflicted about what do in this situation. Why is she doing this and what should I address the issue??Any advice would be helpful.
Feedback & Reviews
She's a good listener helped me a lot
Very caring, great listener
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Very helpful I like someone who will just listen :)
Too kind and helpful
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Good listener!
provides a listening ear. very kind as well
they were really nice and active, didn't question much and helped me alot
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She or he is brilliant
She was a good listener and help me a lot when I was overthinking and starting to being sad. She help me a lot in my bad situations.
They were good
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very calming and nice :)
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amazing listener
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They were very nice. They helped put things in perspective. I really needed that.
Helped me calm down when I was feeling anxious
amazing lstener
great listener and understanding
Thanks a lot for your help with acknowledging the feelings
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A nice person, I liked talking to them
very attentive to me and helped me through my problems
helpfull and a good listener
I feel so safe to talk to you thanks for always helping and listening and thanks for your time I appreciate it
Very understanding
she’s been rlly helpful, and really understood me
great listener tho wanted her to talk more
she is a good listener
I like chatting with them.
A very kind person. She helps me a lot
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she was calm and gentle
really comfortable to talk to!
She did a great job at listening and caring for me. She even offered words of advice which isnt what every listener does! She helped me a lot. Recommended!
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Very kind and caring, gives you her undivided loving attention and compassion
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the best ..a good listener
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She really does her best to help and understand you
helped me so much
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amazing listener
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Very compassionate and a great listener
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it was good and it helped a biy
she really helped me, quick at answers and really kind!
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Thanks for helping me. I appreciate it
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Best listener i had 100% reccomending chatting with this person
Very interested
they were amazing and helpful through the whole thing
she was good at talking and keeping the convo flowing
Loveddd it. It was so comforting and good for me to hear these words and let myself know my worth
Really nice person, helped me
very patient and takes their time to listen
Really supportive and caring, listened to me and never judged. Patient and understanding of how I am feeling.
very good person!
they did their best when I was having a freakout
I had to leave in the middle, but the listener listened to my long rant
Amazing listener
Thanks for listening to me and understanding my story ❤
Sweet! Very caring
Really nice and calm
i enjoyed talking
i love it
Phenomenal listener
shes incredible made me feel so secured and relieved
This is a good person if you want them to listen to you
Really really nice
listened to me and made me feel comfortable talking to her.
makes me feel welcome
amazing listener
awsome smart sweet kind like a big sis
She is a really good listener
very kind and thoughtful person. thank you:)
quick replies and very understanding helped me feel better about myself
Very understanding! Compassionate and friendly. Great listener
really nice listener, made me feel a lot better and comforted, felt like i was talking to an actual person and not some robot, thank you🤍
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