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EdNygma0
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What’s the best way to get through to my boyfriend..
Relationship Stress / by EdNygma0
Last post
 April 6th, 2024
...See more If I ask something simple like “let’s go left it’s faster” he’ll say “no right is faster I know it is trust me” and always does his way without acknowledging or listen to why I wanted to go left and then almost everything time without failure he proves himself wrong and it’s so frustrating going through issues after the fact when it could have been avoided if he took the time to acknowledge what other people are saying because he never takes what I’m saying or want into account it makes me feel like he only sees himself as right and it’s not just me it’s his freinds and family to it’s an ongoing issue where he will do things his way or no way is there any hope this will be resolved we’re young and I can see some growth being possible but how am I supposed to help make this important change if he can’t see my option as anywhere near as valid as his own, is there any other option besides just ending it? it’s just so infuriating when I want to be there for him but I slowly realize he’s not for me he sees things as very simple black and white in his head. If I’m stressed just do something to fix it , If I’m sad just stop being sad. All I want is some comfort security and that’s how I want to be loved I wish he could make me feel comforted but all these situations makes me feel belittled and I talked to him about it and he blames him mental illness and says he can’t change his mental illness and I accept that he has issues and try to find ways to work around them for him but it’s still hard not to get upset sometimes when things happen and he says it’s because of his mental illness and he can’t change one day I hope I won’t be as upset but right now I’m struggling and trying to understand him. But all this comprise I do for him I feel he doesn't see it because I don’t feel the same sympathy and compromise for me when I have something I feel is hard but not as impossible as his things to change he staked our relationship ok it like if I don’t change we’re done and I haven’t done that to him and I don’t deserve it tomorrow we’re going to talk about everything and I need help expressing everything to someone who always sees themselves as right.
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I really need to talk please
Newbie Hub / by EdNygma0
Last post
 April 30th, 2023
...See more I need to talk to someone someone I care about left me and its my fault I just need to talk to someone
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