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UNICEF International Anti-violence Week
Trauma Support / by Eitas
Last post
 November 13th, 2024
...See more Hello everyone, This week, UNICEF is holding  an anti-bullying week annually to  raise awareness; provide self-help intervention; and fight against public stigma about bullying. As part of the trauma community, we held responsible for fulfilling this mission. According to UNICEF, school violence has posed dangerous detrimental effects on both  psychological and physical adolescent’s health: Physical injury, Anxiety, Depression, Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and suicidal thoughts. *   Victims of bullying in their childhood are more susceptible to bullying at work when they grow up. *   Globally, 150 millions of students -aged 13 to 15- report experiencing peer-to-peer violence in and out of school. *  Around 720 million school-aged children live in countries where they are not fully protected by law from corporal punishment at school. More information about UNICEF anti-bullying week [https://www.bing.com/ck/a?!&&p=f9ba0819c7583343b17f303ee016beafd5f3d6a913ea6d3d113ea009190a8cc2JmltdHM9MTczMTM2OTYwMA&ptn=3&ver=2&hsh=4&fclid=00b3ce66-48c7-689a-2986-de5449a1699a&psq=UNICEF+ANTI-BULLYING+WEEK&u=a1aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudW5pY2VmLm9yZy51ay9yaWdodHMtcmVzcGVjdGluZy1zY2hvb2xzL3Jlc291cmNlcy90ZWFjaGluZy1yZXNvdXJjZXMvZ3VpZGFuY2UtYXNzZW1ibGllcy1sZXNzb25zL2FydGljbGUtb2YtdGhlLXdlZWsvYXJ0aWNsZS1vZi10aGUtd2Vla19hbnRpLWJ1bGx5aW5nLXdlZWsv&ntb=1]  If you see other people currently facing bullying, or currently experiencing bullying, please reach out for reliable help such as calling national hotlines, reporting to authorities.  If you have trauma about bullying, this is the perfect place for you, as we hold a discussion on Monday weekly, which offers anonymity, empathy, and understanding. Discussion What can parents,teachers, and peers do to prevent bullying? What laws must be passed to protect victims of bullying? How can we deal with trauma about bullying? This post was written by a member of the Trauma Sub-Community Writing Team. You can find a masterpost with all the posts of this team linked here. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/trauma/General_2433/MasterpostPostsoftheTraumaSupportWritingTeam_302010/] If you want to join the team, please apply here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScvQvG68iPbXl6ZNfZzxs4nYMAcP5RXCp8Ngt7gNPmJ0qnahw/viewform]. Also, please comment if you want to be tagged in future posts.
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I need a long term listener to help cope with my bullying trauma issue
General Support / by Eitas
Last post
 July 30th, 2024
...See more Hi, i had posted in this group about my trauma before and i honestly need someone to talk to and on my side because i desperately need it.  An ATP listener please, if possible because i am about to become a young adult soon and i prefer adults' wisdom. I had a toxic listener before so i hope i won't meet that kind of listener. To the ATP listeners, please look at my previous post on my profile to see whether you can help or not if you decide to help me. Many thanks!
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Trauma about bullying ( Part II)
Trauma Support / by Eitas
Last post
 April 27th, 2024
...See more Hi! To those who don't know the context, please check my profile about how i struggled to contact ex-bully... Even though i know it is draining, scary and horrendous even when he is different now. Long story short, he used to apologized to me but because he bullied me for so long ( and many other reason too but i cant figure.. i still struggle to understand myself 7 years ago) Recently, he replied back to me that he is about to take AS-Level exams so he couldn't reply to me and he doesn't understand why i have to message stubbornly to him... As my previous post stated, i want him to help me to resolve this trauma once and for all but i don't know how to express that safely. Especially vulnerability isn't safe and uncomfortable at this time too, for many people who have depression and trauma, do you guy have any idea how should i reply? Many thanks!
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please help me through my worst time
7 Cups Online Therapy / by Eitas
Last post
 April 4th, 2024
...See more I meet again a guy who used to bully me. Long story short he bullied me  and then fter a long while he apologized but i couldn't forgive him...The emotional trauma still haunts me til today (It happened 7 years ago) Recently i just happened to meet him again, he noticed me but he ran away... He ignored me and i felt frustrated because i want to solve this trauma once and for all i contact him but its been 1 day and i dont get any response. What should i do
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please help me through my worst time
General Support / by Eitas
Last post
 January 3rd, 2024
...See more I am desperately need help. I have been through a bad period when my  school debate club rejected me, okay fine i still manage to overcome it. However, at the later time of the day, i realized that my mom didnt register me for the taekwondo band enhancement exam while i am qualified for the exam to get a higher rank band.... I have practiced continuously for the past weeks to prepare for this and the next exam in March i cant join due to school. I seriously feel burnout and want to give up on it because i just intended after taking the higher band i would leave taekwondo class (not really because i hate it, but i want to rest) to try for the singing class that i am desperately wanted to learn singing techniques. I feel reallly hopeless, mad and even do self harm and suicide thoughts mainly for 2 reasons: My mom dont let me rest stop taking taekwondo for a while because she insist it is for health and singing sucks needn't to learn I want recognition, and getting a higher band in taekwondo give me many benefits such as recognition to boost my self esteem, to feel that i have something that a person who i extremely hated to the point i am obsessed with them, compare myself with them and more. I also want to give the certificate into my scholarship document to show that aside from learning i also take care of myelf in front of universities' admissions. I seriously desperated and need someone help OEOEOEOOE
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please help me through my worst time
Depression Support / by Eitas
Last post
 December 25th, 2023
...See more I am desperately need help. I have been through a bad period when my  school debate club rejected me, okay fine i still manage to overcome it. However, at the later time of the day, i realized that my mom didnt register me for the taekwondo band enhancement exam while i am qualified for the exam to get a higher rank band.... I have practiced continuously for the past weeks to prepare for this and the next exam in March i cant join due to school. I seriously feel burnout and want to give up on it because i just intended after taking the higher band i would leave taekwondo class (not really because i hate it, but i want to rest) to try for the singing class that i am desperately wanted to learn singing techniques. I feel reallly hopeless, mad and even do self harm and suicide thoughts mainly for 2 reasons: My mom dont let me rest stop taking taekwondo for a while because she insist it is for health and singing sucks needn't to learn I want recognition, and getting a higher band in taekwondo give me many benefits such as recognition to boost my self esteem, to feel that i have something that a person who i extremely hated to the point i am obsessed with them, compare myself with them and more. I also want to give the certificate into my scholarship document to show that aside from learning i also take care of myelf in front of universities' admissions. I seriously desperated and need someone help
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