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ElaineSaysHello |
Listener - Discoverer 4

Listener Rating
5.0 star rating

Hey there, I'm glad you're here seeking help, because I'm here to provide it. It's okay not to be okay. As a trained active (verified) listener, you can confide in me with helping you figure out your own path to feeling at least a tiny bit better after our conversation. Every baby step to recovery helps!

During my free time, I enjoy watching anime, playing violin and piano, or taking walks.

If you're having a hard time, allow me to hear you out.

LGBTQ+ friendly <3 However, sexually explicit topics are an uncomfortable topic for me to chat about. Sorry!

How I use my online status:

Green - I'm online, and ready to take on your chat request :)

Orange - I'm chatting with others, but please feel free to message me and I will get back to you ASAP!

Red - I am not actively checking for messages during this time, but please leave me one and I will respond when I log back on the site/app.

Number of Ratings: 82
Number of Reviews: 23
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, Mandarin
Listener Since Jun 4, 2018
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 171
Cheers 29,813
People Helped 129
Chats 401
Group Support Chats 29
Listener Group Chats 28
Forum Posts 23
Forum Upvotes 29
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Feedback & Reviews
By far one of the best listeners I have ever encountered on this site. She is kind and down to earth, as well as sympathetic and helpful.
She was great.
she's an amazing listener and she is very sympathetic
Someone who is very easy to talk to and understanding.
They’re very nice. :) great to talk to when I’m sad or anxious
A really great listener! Very understanding
So comforting😊
A great person to talk to.
Very quick responses and great empathy :) Thank you so much for listening, would always come back!!
Elaine was very kind and compassionate.
Was responsive
first person to really help me :) so glad to have talked to them
they were good, thumbs up
thank you so much for not being judgmental and listening to my problem
Very great listener and helped me feel better about myself and what I needed to do to be open to future encounters with love.
She was helpful and gave me some answers I was looking for.
Talking to Elaine has helped me sort through some complicated feelings and was a wonderful support. Definitely one of my favorite listeners on 7cups
Nice person and a good listener, thank you!
Really positive, comforting and calm. Thanks again for listening :)
Amazing :) much help
She was caring and listened with an open mind and heart. Her kind words helped me more than I thought possible and brought me comfort.
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Questions Answered
Why do I wake up thinking about my ex?
July 12th, 2018 11:30pm
Why do I hate myself so much?
July 6th, 2018 3:17am
Why is it that I get really sad for having empathy for people like sometimes I start crying and I get more depressed and and overthink?
July 10th, 2018 2:42pm
My wife left so we can work things out. Now what?
July 10th, 2018 2:44pm
How do I deal with it when people say I react to my emotions are over dramatic ?
July 23rd, 2018 2:46am
How do I keep myself from overreacting?
July 25th, 2018 10:55pm
What makes a person emotionally strong?
July 5th, 2018 5:14am
What's the point of happiness if I don't want it?
July 4th, 2018 6:03am
Are psychopaths necessarily bad people?
July 13th, 2018 4:25am
Why does self harm make me feel better, even though I have no mental issues?
June 25th, 2018 5:21am
I'm worried I look incompetent at work, what can I do?
July 19th, 2018 5:25am
What to say when quitting a job you just started?
July 13th, 2018 4:21am
Why do I feel so empty and unfulfilled in my profession? How do I overcome this?
July 12th, 2018 11:32pm
Why don't bullies feel guilty about bullying? Why do they continue?
July 2nd, 2018 1:14am
Why can't I react to bullying in an assertive way?
July 23rd, 2018 2:48am
My friend is always negative towards me. What do I do?
July 5th, 2018 5:21am
How can I know if my son is getting bullied?
July 10th, 2018 12:03am
Why do anxious feelings create the need to go to toilet frequently?
July 12th, 2018 2:50am
I have read that people with anxiety tend to see their present self extremely unrelated to their future self. How can I get closer to my future self?
June 5th, 2018 12:11am
How do I stop stressing out about what people think about me? The more insecure I am, the harder it is...
June 5th, 2018 12:10am
How frequent are anxiety attacks usually?
August 3rd, 2018 6:25am
How do I overcome the fear of cashiers?
July 12th, 2018 11:30pm
I have trouble with my school work due to procrastinating. And my anxiety always gets in the way. How do I get things done?
July 19th, 2018 5:31am
How do I come out as nonbinary?
July 7th, 2018 7:27am
What do I say to people that ask about my scars without making them uncomfortable?
June 13th, 2018 7:05pm
Does using acid to burn yourself count as self-harm?
July 25th, 2018 10:57pm
How do I explain scars when a young child asks about them?
August 3rd, 2018 6:24am
What could it mean if I am sleeping too much?
July 7th, 2018 4:52am
What does it mean when your dreams feel so real?
July 7th, 2018 4:55am
How can I put down my phone and go to sleep?
July 5th, 2018 5:15am
How can you tell that you have really moved on?
June 6th, 2018 12:25am
Will I ever find someone else to love me?
July 19th, 2018 5:25am
What can I talk about with my boyfriend on the phone?
June 16th, 2018 5:39am
I can't get over my ex after 5 years. What should I do?
July 7th, 2018 4:54am
I'm dating someone who has been cheated on. What should I do?
June 22nd, 2018 1:36am
is it a bad thing to stay in love with someone who left you?
July 25th, 2018 10:56pm
My boyfriend told me he hooked up with someone else when we were on a break.
July 5th, 2018 5:16am
I broke up with him even though I do love him and he loves me. I had to! How can I move on from someone I can't find a reason to hate?
July 26th, 2018 3:03pm
I regret breaking up with my ex. What should I do?
June 14th, 2018 6:59am
My ex keeps on contacting after I asked not to because I needed time to recover. Why would he keep on insisting?
July 16th, 2018 4:35am
What do I do if my father thinks I hate him even after I told him I don't?
July 19th, 2018 5:30am
Should I go to the hospital for unhealthy eating habits?
July 7th, 2018 7:29am
Am I allowed to start being upset and getting help for emotional abuse 3 years after it happened?
June 14th, 2018 9:48pm
What is the difference between isolation and loneliness?
June 7th, 2018 5:55pm
How do I tell my parents I want to change my major when they don't approve of my choice?
July 16th, 2018 4:06am
I'm too short for a guy to date. What can I do?
July 26th, 2018 3:14pm
Should i break up with someone because of their mental health even though you love them?
June 18th, 2018 6:03am