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Enough23
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Relationship Stress / by Enough23
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 January 11th, 2025
...See more I have been with my husband for 26 years married for 22. We have always had problems in our marriage because he has an avoidant attachment the result of having a narcissistic mother and I have an anxious attachment . We both have been self reflecting and realized that each have been horrible spouses. He told me he loves me but he is no longer in love with me. He says he no longer likes me as a person. He tells me he wants to try and work it out but I don’t know if I can. I don’t really know what he truly feels. He gives me mixed signals. About a year ago I have realized he was verbally and mentally abusive towards me. I have met coworkers that show me more appreciation than I ever got from him. My husband has a hard time having a work life balance. He is there for with boss, coworkers, and employees. He will take the time to fix problems with people at work but not at home. I feel like we have come to a place where we are too far gone but in the back of my mind he is my person. The one I had 3 children with. Is it worth saving? I have a lot of anxieties that I have put on him over the years. We both came into the marriage with childhood traumas. Would like some insight.
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