Evi |
Listener - Connoisseur 10

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NOTE: I am currently working in Australia as an au pair, just outside a small town. I have limited WIFI of only 8GB's a month (yes, it's still possible to not have broadband!) and the connection isn't always strong enough. It might take a while for me to respond. Please keep that in mind :)

Hi there! I am an ambassador on 7 Cups of Tea, which means I spend a lot of time 'behind the scenes'. I am not online to take chats as often as I used to, but I will always respond to your message, even if it takes a couple of days. For questions or concerns about different teams or badges, you can always reach me by email as well (evi@7cups.com).

I've struggled with really low self-esteem, which lead to depression and other problems in my teenage years. Feel free to talk to me about those things and ask me any question you like; I would really like for other teens to not go through these problems as long as I did. Besides the experiences I had personally, I just got my Master's Degree in Clinical Psychology, so I am able and willing to support people struggling with all kinds of problems and ages as well, don't be shy! Besides any mental issues, you could also talk to me about anything else. I would like to think that I am really open minded, so just give it a try :)

I like to sing, read, write and eat, and I would really love to travel the world. My motto is "luctor et emergo" , meaning "I struggle and emerge". I truly believe that anyone can overcome their battles. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Glad you are here and I hope you'll find what you're looking for. Take care, Evi.
Number of Ratings: 96
Number of Reviews: 68
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, Dutch
Listener Since Feb 1, 2014
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 916
Cheers 72,406
People Helped 33
Chats 772
Group Support Chats 3
Listener Group Chats 94
Forum Posts 1,051
Forum Upvotes 1,442
Feedback & Reviews
She always makes time, even when she's busy. You just know she genuinely cares about you, no matter what your story is. It makes me feel better knowing people like her exist.
She talked to me for over 2 hours. I really appreciate that and am so thankful for her. You are great Evi!
Roses are red
Sadness is blue
So connect to Evi
She'll listen to you
Evi is a really awesome listener and she a little bit saved me from myself tonight and I hope she knows how thankful myself is for that tonight.
It's like.. you talk and then she listens.. and in so many ways that is what makes a good listener.. and she is the greatest one.
If you ever find yourself stuck in the middle of the sea
She'll sail the world to find you
If you ever find yourself lost in the dark and you can't see
She'll be the light to guide you
I've managed to tell Evi things that I haven't even been able to tell myself. She's really is the best!
Excellent listener, takes care to hear what you are saying and allows you to work out where you need to go
She's like a beautiful rainbow at the end of a nasty storm.
Evi is very professional and takes her time to understand your issue. A great listener. Thanks Evi
Evi is a great listener, she gave time for me to just express how I was feeling without judgement and with lots of understanding. I cant thank her enough :)
u r so helpfullllll n so nycccccc....
Professional and is so experienced! :)
She's nice and she's also kind to me and she's really patient too.
Really helpful and supportive. A pleasure to talk to.
thanks for being patient with me
Awesome as always xx
I have nothing more to say than 'Thank you'. She listens, which should be clear, but she also gives personal advice and not just tells you that it's getting better and that stuff. Really helpful.
stunningly good and caring
EVI WAS REALLY AMAZING AND REALLY GREAT AND ALSO NICE. SHE IS REALLY PATIENT AND KIND AND LOVELY AND I THINK SHE IS COOL AND AWESOME TOO. SHE IS GOOD AT LISTENING AND SHE IS A REALLY GREAT LISTENER HERE ON 7 CUPS OF TEA! I HOPE SHE CAN TALK TO ME AGAIN LATER TODAY AND ALSO TOMORROW AND ALSO LATER TOMORROW. AND THEN...
Probably God in disguise.
... THE NEXT DAY. I JUST THINK SHE IS SO UNDERSTANDING AND SHE REALLY UNDERSTANDS ME AND SHE GETS EMPATHY. SHE REALLY GETS IT. FIVE STARS FOR EVERYTHING EVI! ***** IF YOU ARE A PERSON AND YOU HAVE A COMPUTER AND YOU WANT TO TALK TO ANOTHER PERSON ON THEIR COMPUTER THEN YOU SHOULD TOTALLY USE YOUR COMPUTER AND YOU SHOULD TALK TO EVI ON HER COMPUTER! EVI IS AWESOME AND SHE HAS A COMPUTER JUST LIKE YOU SO SHE CAN UNDERSTAND AND ALSO SHE ROCKS!
I love evi!
She's my cup of tea!
Evi is incredible.
Thanks :)
Goddess of Listening
She is amazing and really understands.
Simply the best!
Fantastic as always! Thanks dear :)
Evi, you are incredibly thoughtful and considerate, you're very professional, and even through a computer screen, i can tell that you genuinely care. Thanx :)
extremely helpful, empathetic and caring! she made me feel less alone, absolutely no judgement!
You're amazing and thank you for understanding me =)
Awesome. Very kind and friendly.
Evi was very lovely to talk to - super understanding and kind, with a knack for pinpointing where the problem is (she also writes excellent English). Would love to speak to her again soon (:
Evi was/is absolutely wonderful! She cheered me up so much and was an exceptional listener, I would very much recommend her and look forward to talking to her more myself.
Awesome! Amazing! I'll be back :)
Evi listened to me for more than an hour. She is a great listener :)
Best listener ever!! Really takes care of you. X love you evi x
Evi was very helpful and really related to what I was going through which made me feel a lot better.
Really great
really want to rate 5 on everything but there is some sort of bug.. This listener is amazing! Definitely one of the best I've ever talked to. Thank you for making me feel better! :)
Thank you for listening. Just really listening. A lot ;)
it was nice talking with you, thank you :)
Nice
Thank you :)
Have no words… Evi is wonderful, kind, sincere and honest, and it felt as if I was talking to a friend. =) Good luck Evi!
Evi is such a wonderful person and such a great listener. Thank you so much for being patient with me. I am glad I found you on this site, and I look forward to our next conversation.
The reason why I am still here is because I got a chance to talk to you.
Made me so much better
She is just wonderful. A very cheerful, compassionate, attentive person, and although we didn't have time to come to some conclusion or to find a way to guide the situation to the better, she made me feel relief and some hope! Also, although she denies it, she seems to be a professional =)
A good listener
Thank you so much. You have been more than helpful.
:)
It's refreshing to talk to someone who actually understands!
This is the second time I talked with Evi after having an issue. She was great and listened to me, as well as helped me! :)
Evi is extremely helpful! Her professionalism is amazing! If I could give her ten stars or more, I would. She listens and really cares! I would recommend her any day.
she is absolutely perfect…we talked for five hours today…she saved my life…she taught me to always watch the moon…love ya evi
I am very thankful. I told her things I had never told anyone before and it felt amazing to get it off of my chest. Thank you :)
First time on this website and I was glad I got Evi as listener. Evi was super sweet and was listening to me even though I felt like I was just rambling. She gave me good advice and I actually felt like I was moving forward after a fairly short conversation with Evi.
Thanks for being there, and talking through what could be bad decision.
Really kind, genuinely caring, and was great listener.
very helpful and very lovely.
Perfection is not reachable but Evi is not too far away.
She was very nice and helpful! Thank you, Evi!
thanks again
Thanks, that was helpful.
Great Listener. Actually listened to everything i had to say, (which is boring and pathetic). I really highly recommend her! Glad i got her for my frist time on this site.
I dont know what to say so far. So I just tell you two words. Thank you!
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