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Frankie111
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Number of ratings14 Number of reviews14 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceAug 16, 2022 Last activein last 6 months PathStep 150 People helped53 Chats137 Group support chats0 Listener group chats0 Forum posts56 Forum upvotes79
Bio

Hi, I’m Francisca.

I’m here to offer a listening ear in a calm, respectful, non judgemental space.

Our chats may involve gentle questions to help you think things through, looking at alternative perspectives, or sharing resources if that feels helpful. If a topic is outside my scope, I can point you toward someone appropriately qualified.

Chats usually run for about 30 minutes.

I look forward to chatting 🙂

Please note, I do not cover the following topics:

  • Major depressive disorder

  • Self harm

  • Domestic violence

  • Schizophrenia

  • Bipolar disorder

  • Borderline personality disorder

  • Dissociative disorders

If you’d like to discuss any of the above, please visit the 7 Cups listener directory to find someone who supports those areas:

https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/

If you are experiencing suicidal thoughts, I am not trained to support you through this. Please visit https://www.7cups.com/crisis for immediate support. You are welcome to return and chat once you are feeling safe again.

Inappropriate chats, bullying, or trolling will receive one warning before being reported and blocked.







Recent forum posts
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“I” statements for better collaborating/social skills
IDG 7 Cups Hub / by Frankie111
Last post
 February 3rd, 2025
...See more I think the concept of collaborating and improving social skills with assertive/mindful communication is so important because ones language matters. It has a huge impact on ones relationships. I really like the idea of “I” statements to help change out accusing language for assertive language. I recently changed “can you stop being so annoyingly loud” to “I have a hard time concentrating when there’s loud noises”. It felt a lot less combative and felt like it was better received. Has anyone else tried using “I” statements to help change out accusing language for assertive language? How did it work out for you?
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Taking ACTION when you don't feel like it
IDG 7 Cups Hub / by Frankie111
Last post
 January 30th, 2025
...See more To make change in ones life, actually ACTING on what one desires is such an important concept. In my experience, it’s true that it does take courage, resilience, hope, and optimism. I’ve recently found that I shouldn’t wait for my feelings to change before taking action, but rather that by taking the action that my feelings end up changing positively.   I was recently unmotivated to work out. I set a goal that first thing in the morning I was going to do a short 15 to 20 min hitt workout 4 days a week, while listening to fun music. Now that I’ve been doing it for a few weeks, it’s turned into a habit and I’m actually feeling really good about it. Have you ever taken ACTION on something, despite not feeling totally ready/motivated? How did it work out for you?
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Feedback & Reviews
Talking to this listener calmed me down.
She's a great listener, and someone that I will continue to talk to. She helps you talk through your issues. I hope you give her a chance!
One of the best listener I’ve had the pleasure to chat with so far, and I’ve been around for quite a while! Thank you again for your time
Listened and understood; I went from non stop crying to a sense of calm just from our conversation. Thank you
She’s wonderful to talk to. Replied quickly and with proper replies. Thanks for your kindness.
Frankie is the best listener I ever had on here. I felt truly understood and it helped me to ground myself again.
Frankie111 is great listener. Really cared and asked good questions. Made me feel heard. Thanks
my listener was very kind, understanding, and easy to talk to. thank you for the help!
My favourite listener. She’s such a wonderful soul. So empathetic, kind, insightful, and she asks good questions too. Thanks for always making me feel better 🌻
She's an amazing listener. I feel so good after talking to her. Thank you so much, Frankie!!! 🎀
She was a great listener, made me feel cared for
Frankie111 was so wonderful to talk to, I really felt heard and seen
Very patient and understanding
They’re really empathic, thank you so much!
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