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FrozenRosesz
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Question from a man’s pov (girls too if you want)
Parenting & Pregnancy / by FrozenRosesz
Last post
 October 15th, 2023
...See more How many times a father should call to see his baby if he lives far from him? Daily? Weekly? Am i being too exaggerated for expecting a call from him to see our baby everyday at least? I know babies don’t talk and not much to do in a video call but still.. how much should a father help economically from far away too in your opinion? Thanks!
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Question for you men
Relationship Stress / by FrozenRosesz
Last post
 October 15th, 2023
...See more I wanna hear opinions from men(yes again sorry) If you are not happy with the woman and mother of your child by your side because of whatever reason, (this woman is doing everything in her power to make you happy) would you play with her feelings by telling her you love her and planning a future with her and asking her to marry you when is all lies? Would you simply had cheated on her because you “pursue your happiness and not the others’ happiness?” Would you at least try to talk to her and say the things that aren’t making you happy about her? Or would you just quit on your love like it was nothing? (This is what my ex told me yes)
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I wanna hear MEN’S opinions PLEASE
Relationship Stress / by FrozenRosesz
Last post
 September 29th, 2023
...See more I know I don’t shut up with the same stuff but i cannot stop feeling guilty.. MEN what would you have done if you were in his shoes in this situation?? What would you have done if your woman/spouse/gf/wife would had talked to her ex and hid it but later you saw that she expressed NO love or flirting towards the guy, and she would apologize every single day with tears after that, and did everything to fix things, that after she got pregnant she’d constantly argue with you and under anger and mood swings would hit you in the back and on your face under postpartum depression but she constantly apologized, that she would repeat the same argument every week about you needing to show more love to her and keep your promises that you made her, that she would have told you hurtful words like “you are a worthless man that cannot provide and a horrible father” “burn in ***” under anger and not from the heart, but that she would constantly apologize with tears too, (i know words hurt even if they weren’t meant to be said or from the heart) and that after all of that, she constantly cried for hurting you and because you were cold to her, and would constantly struggle with depression and you wouldn’t see her with makeup or as beautiful as you met her because of depression and motherhood, what would you have done in this situation?? Would that be enough to reach the limit? Would that had made you miserable?? (please be honest, thank you in advance)
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Please help..
Depression Support / by FrozenRosesz
Last post
 September 30th, 2023
...See more Anyone that has knowledge in psychology or anyone that can listen to me and my long story, PLEASE talk to me…. I am having such a crisis.. thank you😭😭
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Are piercings a sin?
Religion & Spirituality / by FrozenRosesz
Last post
 October 1st, 2023
...See more I have a septum and a nose ring on the right side, i removed them but i put them on today, my uncle says it’s a sin because is worldly stuff. Give me your opinions, thank you.
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How can i forgive myself? How can i let him go?
Relationship Stress / by FrozenRosesz
Last post
 September 28th, 2023
...See more Hello, i need help.. sorry for the length... When i met the father of my baby, i was sometimes talking to my last ex from 5 years prior, we had ended in good terms and would talk like friends instead of exes, I wouldn't talk to him 24/7 though, anyway after my baby's dad got kicked out of his home, i gave him shelter, while he was gaming and not talking to me, i sometimes talked to my ex as if i was talking to a friend, i would talk to him without emotion or talking about our past together, he would too but sometimes he would throw the "wish i had married you" comments or "wanna marry me?" And my response to that would be "have my boyfriend who's the love of my life", you're probably thinking "why the heck she didn't cut communication with him right there or when she got together with her bf" i know... i ask myself that everyday.... Idk why i just kept talking.. i hid it from my bf and would erase the conversation because i was afraid he'd think i wanted to go back to him.... I was afraid of his reaction.. that was my biggest mistake.. to lie and hide when in reality i had nothing to hide.. So my boyfriend said that counted as cheating and i insisted i was being loyal (foolish me) but he was right... hiding and lying sadly counted as cheating.. even if the conversations were cordial and no emotions at all.... So my boyfriend stopped loving me at that moment.. but never directly told me.. one night i showed him all the messages and gave him my accounts so he could see what i spoke about, and i told him what he already knew, the whole story, he cried and his tears broke my heart... we continued our relationship, and every single day i cried my eyes out apologizing for hiding it and lying.. i devoted my entire life, money, effort and strength to fix things, i gave him so much love, happiness (i thought) and did everything he would ask me to... even changed things about myself and learned to do things to please him and make him happy...and we continued our relationship for 2 years but he told me that he stopped loving me and he just pretended to be happy and loving me all the relationship..basically he was miserable by my side...he could not let go of what i did, i guess it always hurt him, I don’t blame him… if it would be the other way around i would have been so devastated.. although I wouldn’t had given up on him…. and my postpartum depression made me say hurtful things to him that i will always regret.. although they weren't from the heart.. the damage stays... Out of revenge he was speaking to another woman right after i did my mistake, but stopped and then on my birthday august 29 of this year(after 2 years of relationship), he confessed to me that he had another woman for months, would send her expensive gifts or a lot of money transactions.. telling me the gifts were for me but would never arrive, or that his cousin was doing the transactions.. one time he asked to do a tattoo of the silhouette of my "butt" and back, and told me to even choose the spot on his body, in reality it was HER butt... I felt so disgusted.. so heartbroken..when he confessed that i felt so so destroyed, I didn't eat for weeks, i cried everyday 24/7, i still cry missing him, i cannot live with the regret, i tried so so hard to fix things after my mistake.. but it was hopeless.. it was over and i didn't even knew it.... Now, i live heartbroken, severely depressed, jealous of her for having his heart and effort, feeling so stupid and evil.. i cannot forgive myself and i deserve the worst karma….. I thought he was wrong for cheating on me emotionally and physically... after he broke up with me every night he would come full of hickies.... And that destroyed me even worse.... I thought he deserved the worst karma, but in reality. it was my fault.. i pushed him into her arms... she probably gave him the support and made him feel good when i was struggling with postpartum depression and would argue with him a lot.. maybe he finally found his actual soulmate.. and the one who will make him happy.. (also i was NOT looking for anything missing on my ex.. my baby’s father was the perfect man for me.. my first true love..)
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