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Listener - Intermediate 6

Listener Rating
5.0 star rating

Hello! I'm Tuscany and I have been a trained active listener since early 2014. I like to support people struggling with depression, break-ups, dealing with being a young adult, and general Islamic issues . I enjoy reading, scrapbooking, writing, and yoga. I've overcome a lot in life and would love to help by listening to you. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Welcome! :D

Number of Ratings: 62
Number of Reviews: 19
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, Korean
Listener Since Mar 20, 2014
Last Active in last 6 months
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 340
Cheers 18,788
People Helped 87
Chats 264
Group Support Chats 32
Listener Group Chats 8
Forum Posts 114
Forum Upvotes 128
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Feedback & Reviews
thank you very much, big help
Very helpful and understanding.
Friendly, compassionate and caring listener. It's so good to be able to chat with someone like this, she makes me feel supported and cared for.
Excellent listener with great advice. Thank you!
Tuscany really helped me with my depression and I felt better about myself after.
I adore tuscany shes a great listener and really understands and remebers little details.
She is very helpful, wise, helps you feel better and solve confusion.
Great listener, good insight and feedback!
Absolutely great Listener.

I signed up, was having a pretty bad night and Tuscany was the first and only person so far that I've spoke to. Great listening skills! Left the conversation a lot calmer and finally, able to get some shut eye.
Great company ♡♡♡♡♡
I'm pretty new to the site and didn't really know what to expect, after speaking to Tuscany I know i've found something great! Thanks for your support :)

Good to talk to someone who experiences the same...
Tuscany is an honest, attentive communicator. She has a thorough and rational understanding of topics with a great deal of compassion for your troubles. Talk to her +)
Kind and funny. I really enjoyed having her as a listener
Honest and reasonable thoughts about my situation. Highlighted very important issues and put my wellbeing at the centre of our conversation. Perfect listener. Hope Tuscany continues to help others on this site.
I really felt better after talking it out with you and I really appreciate whatever you've told me. Thankyou :)
Tuscany was very helpful and treated me like a person with feelings. She connected on a very personal basis and I would really like to talk with her again.
Very kind and doesn't judge! Made me feel comfortable about my thoughts :)
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Questions Answered
How do you deal with depression after a breakup?
July 1st, 2015 11:40am
How would you describe depression?
July 1st, 2015 11:46am
Do I need to tell people that I'm depressed?
July 3rd, 2015 10:32am
How can I stay motivated when I suffer from depression?
May 29th, 2018 8:16am
Can I be depressed and not know it?
July 20th, 2015 1:39am
How to get rid of depression?
July 1st, 2015 11:41am
Is the emptiness ever going to go away?
June 30th, 2015 11:58pm
Why do I find myself over analyzing every single situation in my life?
June 15th, 2015 2:19am
Why can't I make friends?
May 7th, 2015 6:46am
Why does hurting myself make me feel better? Should I stop hurting myself or is it the right thing to do?
July 27th, 2015 7:03am
Why am I here, do I make a difference here or I'm I useless
May 7th, 2015 6:35am
Why can't I find the same joy in things that other people do?
June 30th, 2015 11:57pm
What's the best way to stop negative thoughts?
July 27th, 2015 7:07am
Why can't people understand Depression?
May 7th, 2015 6:49am
Do I have the right to feel depressed even if I'm privileged?
May 29th, 2018 8:32am
I think my ex is suffering from depression and broke up with me. I really love this guy what do i do?
July 30th, 2018 6:22pm
There are so many different emotions, how can I manage them all?
July 27th, 2015 7:01am
How can I deal with feelings I can't find words to express?
July 1st, 2015 11:39am
How can I stop someone from hurting me when they don't care about my feelings?
June 26th, 2015 7:53am
How can I tell someone how I'm feeling without looking silly or weak?
July 27th, 2015 7:05am
Why do I always cry when I am angry?
May 7th, 2015 6:54am
Is it normal to flip emotions?
May 18th, 2015 7:49pm
How do keep yourself calm when you are really mad?
May 7th, 2015 6:59am
How can I stop repeating scenarios in my mind to figure out what I could have done better?
May 29th, 2018 8:17am
How do you know if you're truly happy?
July 26th, 2018 4:59am
how to get over someone i loved so much but you know it's very hard to be together?
May 29th, 2018 8:31am
How can I make people accept me?
June 2nd, 2015 5:44am
What's the best way to stop your friends being really mean to you from affecting you?
May 7th, 2015 6:55am
Is it normal for people to be singled out just because they like different things?
May 7th, 2015 7:06am
Why don't bullies feel guilty about bullying? Why do they continue?
May 7th, 2015 7:03am
Why do they focus on me when other people have the same faulty characteristics?
May 18th, 2015 7:50pm
Why me? Why not others? Why do they bully me?
May 18th, 2015 7:53pm
How do I know if I'm a bully?
January 19th, 2020 8:55am
Can eating to much be an eating disorder?
July 27th, 2015 7:04am
what do "normal" people eat?
May 1st, 2015 8:02pm
How can you explain to people that weight restoration does not mean that you no longer have a eating disorder?
May 7th, 2015 6:50am
Is it normal for me to eat one meal per day?
May 7th, 2015 6:40am
Can I still have an eating disorder if I am considered as obese or overweight?
May 7th, 2015 6:51am
why do i keep gaining weight when im workin out?
May 29th, 2018 8:18am
What can I do if I have recurring nightmares?
June 30th, 2015 11:56pm
Why do I keep having these strange dreams?
June 2nd, 2015 4:17am
How do I set my sleeping schedule?
May 18th, 2015 7:43pm
How much sleep should I get daily?
July 24th, 2019 12:27am
At what point does sleep deprivation become a problem?
September 2nd, 2016 9:55am
My boyfriend or girlfriend cheated on me, should we break up?
May 7th, 2015 6:52am
Why does breaking up hurt so much?
June 27th, 2015 7:37am
How long does it take to get over someone?
June 26th, 2015 7:54am
My boyfriend or girlfriend wants to break up with me, how can I change their mind?
June 27th, 2015 7:36am
How can someone's love for you stop so abruptly?
May 7th, 2015 6:37am
How can I stop thinking about my ex?
August 11th, 2018 3:45am
Is it okay to be single forever?
June 27th, 2015 5:16am
How long will it take me to learn the proper paths to forgiveness?
May 7th, 2015 6:55am
How long does it take to get over a break up?
July 20th, 2015 1:40am
Why do I dream about him very often?
July 6th, 2015 4:45pm
How can I stop myself from checking up on my ex?
July 27th, 2015 7:00am
How long will it take me to get over them? What's the fastest way to stop caring about them?
June 15th, 2015 2:22am
I feel so lost after girlfriend ended LD relationship, I know she still loves me and I love her I want to fight for her back, should I?
May 29th, 2018 8:15am
How can I stop being insecure in my relationship?
June 27th, 2015 7:36am
What should I do when my boyfriend ignores me?
July 8th, 2015 6:22pm