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GrahZeymahzin |
Listener - Exemplar 12

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Note: At this time I am unable to have any live conversations, if you message I can respond when I am available, but responses will not be immediate.

 
 
Please read my whole bio before messaging me. 



  Green: I am available and currently wanting to take chats!!
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Heya everyone! I am Grah, an Adult-Teen listener, as well as a leader on 7Cups. Reaching out to a listener is a huge step towards being able to feel better. Just taking this step shows your strength and I am proud of you!





A little about me! My name is Haley, and I am 18. I have bought my first house, and I have 2 playful kittens to keep me company. I identify within the LGBTQ community and support anyone else that is also part of the community. I love to work on my writing, whether it be through poetry or stories/books. I’ve only published a short story before, but my hope is to one day be able to publish a book (or multiple). I also play the violin, and I am slowly learning the guitar. I volunteer as a crisis counselor with the Crisis Text Line (Though I will NOT support those in crisis here on 7Cups)




My past has given me a history with a variety of mental health challenges, including ADHD, Autism, Anxiety, Depression, Borderline Personality Disorder, and self-harm. I was able to take my experience, where I went from rock bottom, to where I am. I’m still fighting, but I am fighting now for those who need it to get away from rock bottom. Though I am focused to help others and to focus on everything I do, I'm still human. I do ask that anyone who messages me is willing to be respectful of any boundaries set, and willing to show respect. 




About my listening style!~



As a listener, I am here to listen and support, but I am not here to give advice. When I begin a chat with a long term member, I like to start out by setting a plan. This plan is what keeps the chats structured to your individual needs. Everyone is different, so no two people will get the same benefits from any listener. The chats that I accept are those working on recovery in mental health. My goal as a support is to provide a safe place and a supportive ear, but I'm not here to convince you to work towards feeling better. You are always the number one factor. Only you can decide whether you are ready to start the process of recovery or not. You write your own story. 






People might tell you that it won’t last forever. I know it seems like it does. I once believed the same thing, and I understand that it is the most defeating thought there is. There will be an escape for everyone, but there’s no telling when it will come. It might be tonight, or it might be in several years. And until then, you have a safe place that you are welcome to anytime. I strive to make sure that as a listener I can make our space feel like the safety that you need through anything that happens.




If you choose to send me a message, make yourself comfortable. Feel free to bring your virtual comfort items into my PMs to create whatever you need to be comfortable, whether it be blankets, pillows, or a teddy bear. I’m always a PM away, even if I’m not online at the moment. I hope that you can feel safe to rant or whatever you need. 

Number of Ratings: 130
Number of Reviews: 42
Listens to Teens & Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Feb 21, 2018
Last Active in last week
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 1,414
Cheers 426,030
People Helped 305
Chats 2,180
Group Support Chats 1,366
Listener Group Chats 2,612
Forum Posts 604
Forum Upvotes 1,602
Categories
Depression
Managing Emotions
Work Stress
Eating Disorders
Parenting
Self-Harm
Breakups
Alcohol/Drug Use
Family Stress
Financial Stress
ADHD
Domestic Violence
Grief
Loneliness
Student Life
PTSD/Trauma
Disabilities
Men's & Women's Issues
General Mental Health
Recovery
Bullying
Panic Attacks
Anxiety
LGBTQ+ Issues
Sleeping Well
Weight Management
Exercise Motivation
Bipolar
Forgiveness
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
Social Anxiety
Getting Unstuck
Borderline (BPD)
Self-Esteem
Growth Path Timeline
  • Exercise completed!
    Member Welcome Program
    Completed step number is 1410, on August 4th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Heart Messages
    Completed step number is 1409, on November 6th, 2019
  • Exercise completed!
    Follow Up with Members
    Completed step number is 1408, on November 5th, 2019
  • Exercise completed!
    Listener Community Rooms
    Completed step number is 1406, on October 8th, 2019
  • Exercise completed!
    Share Gratefulness
    Completed step number is 1405, on October 7th, 2019
  • Exercise completed!
    Provide 1-on-1 Support
    Completed step number is 1403, on October 7th, 2019
  • Exercise completed!
    Simple Breathing Exercise
    Completed step number is 1400, on September 30th, 2019
  • Exercise completed!
    Simple Breathing Exercise
    Completed step number is 1399, on September 30th, 2019
  • Exercise completed!
    Simple Breathing Exercise
    Completed step number is 1398, on September 30th, 2019
  • Exercise completed!
    Welcome Newbies
    Completed step number is 1394, on September 21st, 2019

Feedback & Reviews
Best listener I could ever ask for :p
Haley is an amazing listener. She empathizes, validates, her response time is fast. Thank you so much!
Great chat!
Grah is so encouraging and kind. She knows how to comfort in the darkest times and cares about you. very very amazing this one is.
Amazing listener. Very compassionate and resourceful. Offered safe place to talk and the support I needed. Thank you!
One of the best listeners I came across. Thank you.
Grah is an amazing listener who is nice and kinda and silly and amazing and loves to give really positive vibes in her pms
Great chats! Thank you ❤️
Extremely empathetic and helpful
Very nice, and quick to help. Would recommend!
Asks the right questions, but not too pushy.
THE BEST LISTENER IN THE WORLDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
Understood me so well really appreciate it
Thank you for being so so nice to me
Awesome! She helped me understand my role in the community
They are very sweet and helped me a lot!! Thank you!!
there helping me get through something
This listener has really helped me understand what I'm going through even though I've only been talking to them for a very short time.
Nice person . And friendly
Cute, loved their moral support!
Very kind and understanding, offered to talk when we need be.
Was a good listener and gave good advice.
Professional and caring! - Mar
They are awesome, giving me great advice and making me feel a lot better. Releasing some of my an
She is an amazing kind and passionate listener. She deserves the best reviews from everyone! Helps me with all my problems. Totally selfless. Not selfish selfless! She's amazing. She's one of a kind!!!
a truly great person, a talent in helping people
This person is a great help. Very kind and helpfull.
really nice and a professional!:)
very friendly
They were very kind.
Awesome!
Thabks for what you did
She's pretty accommodating with my schedule because there is a 14 hour difference in time. I appreciate her willingness. I hope I can find something long term with her.
Pretty good
Perfect
Very great, would reccomend. They helped me with anxiety. I can openly get help since they helped me to open up.
Lovely
Such a nice person with an amazing heart.
She`s very fast at answering, and I feel ok with talking with them like if they were a close friend.
Good
Good
very smart and educated on ADHD
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Questions Answered
What age is too young to leave home?
June 22nd, 2018 6:19pm How do I tell my parents I don't want to go to church?
June 22nd, 2018 6:20pm