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Happybeing3139
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Relationship Stress / by Happybeing3139
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June 25th, 2017
...See more For the past year I have became very close to one of my Guy friends. I had feelings for him and he did(evidently) at the beginning but he said he would try not to as it would ruin our friendship. I didn't try to hide my feelings, as I have never felt this way about anyone. He told me he wouldn't get a girlfriend as because of me, so I felt happy but wasn't entirely sure what was going on. This morning, he told me that he has feelings for another girl and that she feels the same about him, and they're going to go for it. I feel heartbroken, like it physically hurts and it's because I have only ever felt so strong about one person. I don't know what to do. I don't want to move on I have fallen in love with everything about this guy. Help
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Relationship Stress / by Happybeing3139
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July 8th, 2017
...See more Basically im best friends with this guy but recently he has been ignoring me, for the small reason I wouldn't FaceTime him? Crazy right? He had ignored me all day and when he said to FaceTime him I obviously said no, as it was late and I was mad at him for turning his back on me all day, but now he's mad at me? This always happens, whenever he gets in trouble he always turns it around like it is my fault and I end up apologising. Help?
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Relationship Stress / by Happybeing3139
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June 13th, 2017
...See more I've been close to this guy for 7-8 months and when I mean close, I mean like brother close, knows all my secrets and we had a relationship that wouldn't be defined as appropriate for 'friends'. He knows I like him, I tell him too much and at the beginning I would have been certain he felt the same although now, it seems like he has got comfortable with me and doesn't really care about us anymore. As he once said he knows that I will never leave him.. but as much as I love him I need him to step up and stop messing me about just because he knows I have a genuine weak spot for him. I would leave him, but I can't because I love him and I can't imagine my life without him. He's hard to talk to, when I ask if everything is okay he leaves me on read, what can I say or do to make him realise that he's losing me through his actions?
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