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Harlan |
Listener - Novice

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Call me Harlan! ​​

Please read my profile before sending a message. If we have a chat, please rate/review me so I know how I'm doing! (◕‿◕✿)

I am:

◙ A full-time student

◙ A mental health nonprofit worker and advocate for mental health issues

◙ A sufferer of OCD, BPD, CIU, GAD, migraines, and panic disorder

◙ A fan of horror movies, cats, video games, and reading

I am a good listener for people who:

◙ Want to be spoken to as a friend

◙ Enjoy mutual conversation

◙ Want someone to talk to regularly

◙ Want someone who is calm, rational, and logical

I am NOT a good listener for people who:

◙ Are suicidal or self-harm

◙ Expect immediate responses

◙ Are just bored/lonely and want chat

◙ Are trying to find someone to date/want sexual chat

My listening style is a bit different than most.

I prefer to think about my responses carefully. I tend to write long, in-depth messages. In doing so, I view my chat conversations as being similar to email rather than instant messaging. I will respond with well-thought-out messages, and I will not respond every few seconds with short messages. 

I will immediately end conversations that involve trying to find out my personal information, involve self-harm/suicide, involve sexual chat in any way, are rude or harassing, or are conversations about nothing because you are bored and just want to chat.

If this sounds like something that will work for you, send me a message! I will get back to you ASAP. If not, feel free to browse other listeners! 

Number of Ratings: 3
Number of Reviews: 1
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Jun 27, 2018
Last Active over 6 months ago
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