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HarveyM
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Number of ratings164 Number of reviews58 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceOct 5, 2016 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderMale PathStep 285 People helped139 Chats991 Group support chats467 Listener group chats294 Forum posts1,332 Forum upvotes1,958
Bio

I just want to let you know that it's okay to need some help, or someone to listen to every now and then.

Not accepting members. I'm not accepting members right now, I hope to be back taking chats soon!
 

About Me!

I'm a Verified and trained listener here at 7 Cups of Tea, I speak with Teens. I am available anytime to listen to your every need. I enjoy playing badminton and playing and watching football! I’m a keen gamer too in my spare time! Don’t underestimate your worth! No issue is too small to talk about!

I am also a Group Moderator, so I may not be able to respond to PMs whilst moderating.

Don't underestimate your worth, no issue is too small to talk about.

 

Things I'm involved in:

Group Mod

Events Team

Support Plus

Verified Listener Team

Peer Support

Country Leader

Motivational Support Team Leader

Group Support Doorkeeper

Peer Support Buddy

Group Mod Buddy

 

 

 

 

If you took the time to read my bio all the way down to here, thank you.
I hope you have a good day and I hope to see you around soon when I return!
[I edited my bio on November 14th 2017]

Recent forum posts
February 22nd - International Mother Language Day! (Games Day!)
Community Projects & Events / by HarveyM
Last post
February 22nd, 2017
...See more Discussion: Languages of the World Quiz with @DancingAlong Location: Cultural Connection Time: 8.30pm EST Age Group: Adult Member Discussion: Traditions (Icebreakers) with @Becca9345 Location: Cultural Connection Time: 5.00pm EST Age Group: Adult Member Discussion: Languages of the World Quiz with @CelegnirCuthatlion Location: Cultural Connection Time: 7.00pm EST Age Group: Teen Member Discussion: Animals in Culture with @Becca9345 Location: Cultural Connection Time: 4.00pm EST Age Group: Teen Member Discussion: Languages of the World Quiz with @Sunfern and @RideaRainbow Location: Listener Hangout Room Time: 1.30pm EST Age Group: Adult Listener Discussion: Traditions (Icebreakers) with @DancingAlong Location: Listener Hangout Room Time: 11.00pm EST Age Group: Adult Listener Discussion: Compliment War with @HarveyM Location: Teen Listeners Time: 3.00pm EST Age Group: Teen Listener
February 21st/22nd - International Mother Language Day!
Community Projects & Events / by HarveyM
Last post
February 22nd, 2017
...See more Today is International Mother Language Day (IMLD)! This day is all about the appeal for the potential of multilingual education to be acknowledged everywhere! You can read more about this from the United Nations, by clicking here [http://www.un.org/en/events/motherlanguageday/index.shtml]. Today (and tomorrow!), here on 7Cups, there are many fun discussions, forum activites and feed actvities on for you all to enjoy to observe this international holiday! I hope you all get involved! (If you wish to be notified of future Special Events on 7Cups, please join the taglist, here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfevw31JNnbk2JCJ9fPlucgbIxac0xNC-4IKOn0wOWayWVqAQ/viewform].) Information on what you can take part in for today is listed below! Discussions: (Use worldtimebuddy.com [http://worldtimebuddy.com] to convert the timings with ease!) Adult Discussions: Discussion: Language Learning (French) with @vivelespatates Location: Cultural Connection Time: 8.30am EST Discussion: Language Learning (English) with @CelegnirCuthalion and @Coolkidallthetime1998 Location: Cultural Connection Time: 8.30pm EST Discussion: Language Learning (English) with @CelegnirCuthalion and @greatfulPassion Location: Cultural Connection Time: 11.00pm EST Discussion: Language Learning (Arabic) with @Sunflower700 Location: Cultural Connection Time: 11.30am EST Discussion: Language Learning (Italian) with @Toffee and @alexrainbow Location: Cultural Connection Time: TBC Discussion: Language Learning (Hindi) with @littlepony Location: Cultural Connection Time: 10.00am EST Discussion: Language Learning (Bengali) with @SunFern and - Location: Cultural Connection Time: 1.30pm EST Discussion: Language Learning (German) with @TheSpiritGuardianOri and - Location: Cultural Connection Time: TBC Teen Discussions: Discussion: Language Learning (Irish) with @Roisin2016 Location: Cultural Connection Time: 9.00am EST Discussion: Language Learning (French) with @plantkissed and @Lucy Location: Cultural Connection Time: 12.00pm EST Discussion: Language Learning (Hindi) with @RideaRainbow Location: Cultural Connection Time: 1.30pm EST Discussion: Language Learning (English) with @HarveyM and @Lucy Location: Cultural Connection Time: 3.00pm EST Discussion: Language Learning (Urdu) with @zee22 Location: Cultural Connection Time: 5.00pm EST Discussion: Language Learning (German) with @imjustlikeY0uSDK and @moosewithducks Location: Cultural Connection Time: 6.00pm EST Forum Activities: Forum activity: Where are YOU from? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/CulturalExchange_379/WhereareYOUfrom_57988/] Information: Share with the 7Cups Community where you are from! Forum activity: How many languages do you speak? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/CulturalExchange_379/Howmanylanguagesdoyouspeak_60917/] Information: Share with the 7Cups Community how many languages you speak! Forum activity: Write the following words in your language! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/CulturalExchange_379/Writethefollowingwordsinyourlanguage_30343/] Information: Write some popular words in your language! Forum activity: What is your favourite idiom/phrase in your language? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/CulturalExchange_379/Whatisyourfavouriteidiomphraseinyourlanguage_30344/] Information: Share with the 7Cups Community your favourite idiom/phrase in your language! Forum discussion: International Mother Language Day - Spanish Discussion [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/DiscussionsinOurNativeLanguages_844/InternationalmotherlenguagedayESPAOLSPANISH_36639/] Information: A discussion on Spanish culture! (Not just for the Spanish-speaking!) Forum discussion: Seeing the world through language. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/CulturalExchange_379/Seeingtheworldthroughlanguage_36941/] Information: A discussion on your views of the world and the languages spoken! Also, don't forget to subscribe to the Cultural Connection Sub-community [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/]! Additionally, check out the 'country-specific' forum sections: Australian Community https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/AustraliaCommunity_344/ Bangladeshi Community https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/BangladeshiCommunityConnecthere_996/ Belgian Community https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/BelgianCommunity_994/ Canadian Community https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/CanadianCommunity_343/ Czech Republic Community https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/CzechRepublicCommunity_995/ Egyptian & Middle East Community https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/EgyptianMiddleEastCommunity_977/ Filipino Community https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/7CupsFilipinoCommunity_451/ French Community https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/FrenchCommunityGathertogetherHere_1028/ German Community https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/GermanCommunity_752/ Greek Community https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/GreekCommunityConnecthere_997/ Ireland Community https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/IrelandCommunityConnect_983/ Italian Community https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/ItalianCommunity_970/ Japanese Community https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/Japan_418/ Malaysia Community https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/MalaysiaCommunity_975/ Portuguese Community https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/LusospherePortugueseSpeakers_381/ Singapore Community https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/SingaporeCommunityConnecthere_993/ Slovenia Community https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/SloveniaCommunity_969/ South African Community https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/SouthAfricanCommunityConnecthere_99/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/SouthAfricanCommunityConnecthere_998/] Spanish Community https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/SpanishSpeakersUnite_976/ Turkey Community https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/Turkey_946/ United Kingdom Community https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/UnitedKingdomCommunity_345/ United States Community https://www.7cups.com/forum/CulturalConnection_87/UnitedStates_340/ You can also take part in Feed events! Feed Activities: We have multiple activities going on in the feed over the next couple days! For starters, over both days, we have 4 questions with hashtags, which are listed below! We would like you to answer the questions with the hashtags included! What languages do you speak or are learning? Hashtags: #MotherLanguageDay [http://7cups.com/~motherlanguageday] #IMLD [http://7cups.com/~imld] #CountryCommunity [http://7cups.com/~countrycommunity] #learning [http://7cups.com/~learning] What language(s) do you wish you spoke? Hashtags: #MotherLanguageDay [http://7cups.com/~motherlanguageday] #IMLD [http://7cups.com/~imld] #CountryCommunity [http://7cups.com/~countrycommunity] #oneday [http://7cups.com/~oneday] What do you enjoy about learning languages? Hashtags: #MotherLanguageDay [http://7cups.com/~motherlanguageday] #IMLD [http://7cups.com/~imld] #CountryCommunity [http://7cups.com/~countrycommunity] #enjoying [http://7cups.com/~enjoying] How has learning a new language improved your life? Hashtags: #MotherLanguageDay [http://7cups.com/~motherlanguageday] #IMLD [http://7cups.com/~imld] #CountryCommunity [http://7cups.com/~countrycommunity] #improvement [http://7cups.com/~improvement] Secondly, we will be hosting a feed hunt! The clues will be released on @Lucy [http://7cups.com/@Lucy]s feed from 1pm EST every 30 minutes- there are 4 letters to find! When you find all the letters check @Lucy [http://7cups.com/@Lucy] Feed for a submission form to claim your prize! If you are first you will receive 150 Cheers, second place will receive 100 Cheers, third place will receive 50 Cheers and if youre not in the Top 3, but you do find the word, youll earn 10 Cheers! Good luck! For listeners (only!), feel free to take a look at this self-help guide on 'Cultural Diversity' by clicking here [https://www.7cups.com/cultural-diversity/]. Keeping up to date with special events taglist: Listeners: @Ady23 @Becca9345 @cherishedPup56 @CoffeeDrinker247 @confidentApple69 @DancingAlong @harrytheunicorn @InterestingMagic64 @InvaderStitch @JustLikeMellie @PurpleSunshine @RaCat @SunFern @Thefreehelpguy @thesavedgirl @Torin @Yendi @cherishedPup56 @Roisin2016 @littlepony @YourFriendforever @Vanilla6 @Morgan101900 @Lucy @Teasley4031 @divs15 @HarveyM @xDysonx @Blackrocks @wonderfullForever38 @BurningEmber @Jessann @reginaphalange24 @RideaRainbow @Larelya @MeiLinTheOtakuWantsToHelpPeople @CCSBC56 @allnaturalNight50 @CelegnirCuthalion @vriska44 @Mcls01 Members: @Celaeno @Countrygirl1231 @cyanPlatypus6370 @HelloRio8888 @Katejosl @Peachesdd91 @PrincessBerry789 @SadMe70 @tealSugar7262 @themainjane @Tovanri @TropicalWatermelon @Tryingtobenormalgirl12 @Willendorf2017 @tealSugar7262 @Brownies214 @CelestialStardust @AngelsDontExist @SillyBlue32 @HalliwellSister @blissednblessed @MindfulMint @imhyde @Puppet94 @LeilaniMalie @windflowers Add/Remove me from the taglist [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfevw31JNnbk2JCJ9fPlucgbIxac0xNC-4IKOn0wOWayWVqAQ/viewform]
Feedback & Reviews
Extremely helpful!
so kind :)
Harvey is super helpful, super committed and super friendly. He's pretty cool, and also CAKE! 100% would recommend :)
Great listener :) good sense of humour too!
Great moderator and listener.
*huggles*
Harvey understands me so much! He always knows the right things to say at the right time :) Thank you!
Super cool!!
Hello you are really good at being you and helpful thanks much love ❤️ greatly appr
Very kind and caring :)
Amazing, kind, loving. The best possible listener! Thank you xx
Very welcoming and explains things extremely well. I feel like he was encouraging and supportive throughout the chat. Thank you! :)
Very kind. Harvey is always here for me when I need him the most! :)
Harvey is honestly one of the most awesome people ever!:) He is so kind and caring and truly gives the best advice! Talking to Harvey is the best thing ever, I'd recommend him to everyone!
Kind, loving and supportive. No matter what I know Harvey will reply as soon as possible with a happy message! x
Harvey is the best listener ever! This is from somebody who has struggled with anxiety, panic attacks, depression (including suicidal thoughts and self-harm issues) and depersonalisation/derealisation. Harvey has supported me through some of the hardest times I have experienced in the past few months. I know that I can message him at any time and he will reply as soon as he can. The perfect mix between supporting and giving huggles and giving the necessary information to help. I have been in several dark places and Harvey has always been the positive light to guide me out of a deep hole. He is very empathetic but also professional with his work. A quick response time and a good understanding of what you are going through. I would definitely recommend Harvey to anyone going through a rough time. Thank you so much! I hope you have a nice day. :) ~Blossy xx
Harvey is one of the best people that i know
Such a helpful and caring listener. Honestly gave me the best support I have ever received. An up-beat listener with the necessary links ready for me! Some amazing support guides for anxiety and panic attacks. Thank you so much!! ~Blossy xx
Best buddy and listener
Listened to me till the end. Nice guy to talk to.
Really cared about the situation and did everything possible to help out. He went above and beyond with how to resolve the situation and was empathic the whole time. Definitely recommend talking to ❤️
An amazing listener who is always here for me. Thank you!
I felt so much better . He is wise and really cares . I am glad he understood me . Thank you :-)
good
Just a perfect listener
Helpful
Beautiful person with such wise views! I now contain a positive perspective on my studies thanks to this talk session. There is a lot of wonderful quotes that I can keep from this listener!
Patient, and able to give it a try to new things, new situations.
Great listener ! Harvey really provides helpful advice. She is so understanding, patient and really comfortable to talk to. I feel much better after talking to her!
Great listener who gave me a resource when I needed one
they are nice!! Ok
Absolutely amazing! Thanks for everything!
v v nice!!
She really helped me and was really nice and understanding
She's a really nice person and I feel really comfortable when I was talking with her which is weird because it's hard for me to talk to anybody.
helped so much. Love, love, love
Harvey is a GREAT listener that I recommend you speak to. Harvey gives fabulous advice and really listens to you to try and figure out the best possible solution yo your problem. Harvey is also friendly but professional and has marvellous sentence structure (no confusing text language used).
Great :)
Thank you
good
nice listener
He's perfect and amazing. Goes all out to help
harvey m is a very helpfull person and nice too
very nice and helpfull
They listend
Really great listener, first I talked to on the site.... Helped me for the better! 🙂 Really recommended
Awesome listener
He's truly the first listener who honestly tried to help. He did more than just talk, he tried to give me options on my path. The situation I described was probably a real challenge for him, but he helped more than he'll ever know. 100% recommend. Best listener yet!
really nice and understanding
Harvey is a very respectful listener and everything i had to say he helped me with! Continue the great work!!
tysm
This person is pretty nice. I can't really say more than that
Tried helping and was very nice
A good listening ear. I'd probably talk again to him
He made me realize that everyone is here for a reason
He was nice. Tried to be empathetic even if he maybe wasn't in that situation. Appreciate.
Harvey was a really great listener. He helped me calm down and think about things.
Really helped me ... thanks
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