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HopefulHenry81
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Number of ratings26 Number of reviews6 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceJul 24, 2016 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderMale PathStep 13 People helped36 Chats119 Forum posts4 Forum upvotes5
Bio

Hello Everyone <3. With school starting up, life has been verrrrrry hectic lately so I'm taking a "break" for about a month or so. I'll still be on from time to time and will usually have time on the weekends but I can't promise I will get back to you immediately because I am super busy with 14 hour school days as well as sports, music lessons, and a loooooot of homework. You can always feel free to send me a message if you would like to talk but like I said earlier, I can't promise I will get back to you immediately. If you need immediate help, I would suggest trying a different listener that can help you at that time (but you can send me a message as well). I wish you all the best. Stay strong and carry on :).

*Hugs*

Hi! My name is Henry. I love music (both playing and listening) and love going out in nature. I like helping people dealing with anything from LGBTQ+ issues to depression and most things in between because I believe everyone deserves to feel happiness.

I am bisexual and a huge supporter of LGBTQ+ rights. There are three things I love in life: 1) Hugs 2) Twenty One Pilots 3) Helping others and I want to help you in any way I can. I have self harmed in the past and also struggled with suicidal thoughts in the past. I know how terrible that feels and I don't want anyone to ever have to feel like that. You CAN get through this and I am living proof of that. I also suffer from depression, anxiety, depersonalization, and insomnia but lately I feel I have been making positive strides towards becoming healthier. I know life can be tough (trust me, I've been there) but know you're not alone in this. I am ready to help you in any way I can.

The reason I became a listener on 7 Cups is because two years ago, my best friend who meant the world to me committed suicide. She was bullied, abused at home, had depression, wasn't supported for her sexuality and teased because of it. Losing her hit me pretty hard and I'd be lying if I said I was completely over it. I knew the immense pain she was in both physically and emotionally and I don't ever want ANYONE to have to feel like she did. I made a vow to myself, and to her, to help as many people as possible find happiness. I don't care how long or how much energy it takes, I want everyone to feel happy and to ultimately end suicide. You may think my goal is impossible but I'm optimistic. And even if I don't end suicide, I can at least help as many people as possible along the way. And if throughout all my efforts and hard work, I only manage to save one life, it will all have been worth it.

If my status is offline or busy but you still need to chat, please send me a message and I will try to get to it as soon as possible. I try hard to maintain a relationship with all the people I talk to unless they don't want me to. I try not to make it just a one time chat and then disapear forever. As I help more and more people, it will be difficult to be able to keep up with everyone but like I said before, I'm optimistic. So, how can I help you?

Feedback & Reviews
HopefulHenry81 has been really helpful to me, even though we're complete strangers. I really recommend this listener cause he's good at this. Kudos, Henry!
Amazing helper
For the short time I've been talking to him as a listener, I've really enjoyed how empathetic he was towards my problems and how caring he's acted towards me. He's like a big brother to me and I really appreciate it.
Thank you, you made me feel like you connected to me, and you added real world experiences you had, which really made you feel real. So many people on here seem monotone, like they are just typing out generic words. You made the words feel meaningful. I needed that.
Thank you.
Really helped me a lot, my trouble wasn't easy

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