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...See more Hi, I am 25F in relationship with 25M for the past 8 and half years. He would have minor mood swings but other then that he was the best person. Around 2 years back, he went into an episode which I still don't know much about as he completely cut me off. He spoke to me later only after I got infected with covid and was scared that he'll lose me. Similar episode has turned up now since the last 4 months where he cut me off when I needed him, demands increased sexual activities but insults me while doing so, or just stops, much into alcohol and partying, can't manage finances, has hinted at being with other girls, keeps lying about everything, and completely ignorant about this behaviour at times. He constantly compares with me. Keeps insulting and degrading me. At times got aggressive. I tried my best to talk to him but my last straw was when I met a few days back, he forcibly tried to kiss me and said that I won't have any proof if I complain to anyone about it. I walked off and didn't reach back to him. He called me after few days, completely ignoring what happened and trying to be normal. It had taken a mental toll on me as I suffer from anxiety. I am better now. I just want to know that should I leave him? Or should I be there for him? I don't understand.

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