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IvyXx
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Number of ratings38 Number of reviews10 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceJan 21, 2016 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 73 People helped75 Chats580 Group support chats1 Forum posts9 Forum upvotes17
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Ello Guys :) My name is Ivy and I am an active listener on 7COT. I deal with Bullying, Anxiety or anything else you just want to chat or get some advice on. I really am only here to meet some new people and try and help them out along the way. I am into all sorts of stuff such as Books (Major book worm), edm, indie pop, emo, you name it ;)) I am also a writer. If we don't end up chatting then I hope you find exactly what you look for (: 

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Trauma Support / by IvyXx
Last post
 June 17th, 2015
...See more Hey guys, If you are reading this than I am really sorry if I am boring you or anything but I was wondering if anyone could help? When I was six years old I was raped by a family friend at the time who was 13. He would bring me into his room when we were visiting and tell me we could play a game. He would tell me to give a real kiss then a fake kiss. This than escalated to him taking my jeans off and getting me in bed with his hand over my mouth to shut me up.  My mum found out about this and stopped all connection with them. She never told officials. When i was then nine I was molested by another family friend who was fifteen at the time. This happened every time we went over to their house and continued on for about a year. Our parents had had a big fight and stopped seeing each other, breaking his contact with me. I never told my parents about this as after it all, I felt as if it was my fault. I did nothing wrong but I still felt such horrible guilt and I know I always will. My parents broke down crying, telling me they failed as parents and should of done better and honestly, they should have. A few months ago I went over to a friends house (Male) who I had known had feelings for me. We were on his bed watching a movie and he became very touchy and playful. I formed a panic attack terrified he may of tried anything further and ran out of his house. I didnt return until a few hours later at my house which is only like six houses up the street. I have concluded that I really shouldn't be in a relationship as I freak every time someone comes to close or touches me. I would like to be but I cant do that to anyone and make them feel my burden and have to 'be careful' around me And yes, I have tried talking to people, and even medication but it doesn't help. Does any one know of any ways to at least try and deal with this. Or if you have had a similar experience please share :)
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So much empathy and character. I don't often feel heard but I did today. Thank you.
Very kind, and helped me gain an insight into my problem on my own. Talking to IvyBx really helped me a lot :) thank you!
She's the coolest listener here
Thanks for going on the listening journey with me :)
I have a great time with you...love u ....
Awesome listener. Very helpful.
She's good and kind. I like her :)

Very understanding even though I was not very nice. She must be a saint.
Listener sounded a little canned at first but used her responses to draw out the root of my problem, and was accepting of my feelings. Made me feel validated and supported. Thank you.
very helpful
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