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IwantTobeAnony
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My ex came back
Relationship Stress / by IwantTobeAnony
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 February 5th, 2025
...See more Hi, I am hurting. I had an ex we were in a LDR relationship for 2 years. It was started from 2021-2023. He is from Canada and I am from a different country. He flew to my country last April 2023, we had an amazing time together. The relationship was rough after he came back to his country. He became so jealous and we had a lot of misunderstanding. We broke up and he keeps on blocking me on social media. There are times that we chat through emails. To make the story short, I was not able to compose myself and have a proper closure to move on. I got the courage to burn everything that will remind me of him last year during new year’s eve. Fast forward, we don’t have any communication after that, the last news I know about him is that he is talking to a different girl. So I know I am no longer in the picture, I let go and move forward. Yesterday, I email him just to know how he is doing. I have no intention to get back to him. I am just wondering how he is. He told me that he wanted to get back with me but he cannot let go of the other girl, He is sending money to that girl often. I asked him why? He said that he want to come back and see me again and he really miss me. He will tell that girl after a month. Take note, they are not together since the girl doesn’t want to be in a relationship yet. Clearly she is using him for money. I was hurt again, he is playing with my mind. But we talked about it, and then this morning I received a message from him that he is taking it back everything he said to me because I wasn’t able to reply to him on messenger. Like what? How can he be so cruel? And I hate myself because no matter what he did. I still can’t deny the fact that I love him and I am still concern about him. I cried my lungs out, and idk what to do . Please help me, I need to move forward and heal. How can I avoid being played by this guy? I need your help, it’s ruining my mental health.
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