JTheElderRam
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Number of ratings133
Number of reviews56
Listens toOver 18
LanguagesEnglish
Listener sinceNov 5, 2014
Last activein last 6 months
GenderMale
PathStep 648
People helped288
Chats1,489
Group support chats273
Listener group chats2,488
Forum posts7
Forum upvotes13
Bio
Hey Guys! I am sorry that you are here, whatever it is that brought you here. But, I am glad that you were able to find this place. I like to look at 7 Cups Of Tea as a sanctuary. The Sanctuary. A place where you can share, cry, purge, vent, without pity, without judgment, without fear. To relax, to rest, and to heal. I have been through a lot in my time, more than I care to admit, at least in the beginning when i first went through it. Divorce, relationships ending (including due to infidelity), depression, anxiety, eating disorders, trauma, work related stress... i have been there. But we all must rise back up, rebuild what we have, reinvent, restart, reboot, and be reborn... like the Phoenix, reborn from its ashes, to live again. We all must do that from time to time. You will too. So, rise up, fellow Phoenix Warrior!! Rise up!! Let me help you find that spark, that will re-ignite that flame that is your soul, once again!
--J, The Elder Ram, Phoenix Warrior
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Feedback & Reviews
Best person ever. Really helpful and sweet
Awesome listener, very supportive!
Super cool guy!
Cool and awesome lad.
Thankyou for listening to me I feel much better now
Excellent chat when I really needed it... :) Thanks a lot.
Great listener!
Compassionate, caring, calming. Made me feel hopeful and heard :) really appreciate it
very good listener
Thank you for listening and sharing
He is very insightful and wise
J was very pleasant. He listened to what I was going through and asked the right questions so that I knew he was truly listening to me. I came here feeling really down and out and uncertain, but the conversation helped me feel better and gave me insight on what I needed to do with my current situation. Thanks so much for listening and all the laughs, J! 🦸🏼♀️
i felt safe and heard. can only recommend.
He is great! A very good listener, so comfortable to talk to.
So nice person. He helped me a lot with my problems and made me feel better.
Thank you, J! You heard my whole story out and helped me see tbe verdict that I already knew myself. I hope I do make the decisions I need to! Thanks for your support!
Helpful, kind, interested.
Great chat!!!!
I didn't think id get anything out of this but i was optimistic, this person who took the time to listen to me, left me feeling empowered, encouraged to what i had to.
I am thankful this listener was here when i needed to talk to someone. He understood my situation so well and listened so intently and supportively, giving deep insights into the situation. I joined the Phoenix warrior club and on the road to recovery! Thanks!
JTheElderRam is full of wisdom and insight and pure honesty. He is direct and open-minded. I found our conversation to be very enlightening and humorous. Would recommend him any day! :)
very understanding
He is very understanding
Very easy to talk to. Very supportive.
Than you for your dedication. You really helped me. I wish you all the best. Thank you so much.
J, you're very kind and comforting. I appreciate your time and understanding.
It was really incredible to talk to J. He is definitely an expert in making me feel as though he really cared as much as my closest friends would. :)
You are awesome *_*
One of the greats on here
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Thank you SO much for talking to me you are seriously the best listener ever :):):) First time in ages I felt like someone actually cared thank you soso much
Thanks, J. I really appreciate you being there when I needed someone. And Libras rock! Lol. Thanks again for being there!
Nice guy.
thank you for being here -- it means a lot.
He is so kind and understanding. Best that I have talked to on here.
My lifeline... It's been a hard road but he has helped me so much! Thank you!!!
He was great
Very helpful and constructive.
helpful
Great Listener!!!
this man is the one who care :)
Omg all I can say is thank you thank you thank you!!!!
Thanks for your help! It was evident that he truly cared and wanted to help -- a great listener!
It was great talking to someone that just sees your point of view and even builds you up when your tearing yourself down.
I have never talked to a listener that was as kind, empathetic, and professional as JTheElderRam. He is kind and honestly wants to help and listen to what you are going through. Amazing listener, and I look forward to future conversations for sure. Really recommend.
Seems to be very knowledgeable and understanding. Very easy to talk to.
I really feel listened to!
Good listener
Great
He really listened, and cared about what i had to say. what more can you ask?
He's amazing. I'd pay.
very nice
GREAT !! Great !! Great !!
I appreciate the empathy in helping
He's really nice! I feel a little bad I'm word vomiting at him but he's handling it really well and saying really encouraging and positive things.
I needed this chat bro, you are awesome.
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